just listen to her, she'll tell you exactly how to get with her. all you really need to do is learn how to interview people. women will do all the talking, complain about it, ask you one thing, then go right back to doing all the talking.
listen to those words. ask follow up questions. see who she is, what she likes, what she don't like, what kind of men she dated, what kind she thinks she was.. then tailor your game to match. you don't even have to lie. don't pretend to be into books if you into video games.. but when she says she loves to read, you could say you'd like to read more. she wants you to be the one. she'll make her own connection of "oh he likes to read too" even tho you never even said it. she says she hates guys who play video games all day.. well you tell her every guy plays a little, but i also like to ________.. she wants you to have this p*ssy. she'll transform that into "yea well every guy does do that, but he don't seem THAT bad"
a woman already standing there, letting you shoot your shot, is 100% yours. and every time you stay something stupid or that she don't like or ignoring what she's saying, that number is going way the fukk down. if you stop trying to rush and get to the number/p*ssy/whatever, she'd sit right there and tell you everything you need to know. if she's a party girl, date girl, wild, innocent, smart, dumb, ambitious, all that shyt... a 5-10 min convo with a woman will allow her to tell you half her life story. you adjust from there