What age is too old to be living wit moms..

[Anerdyblackguy]

Like other people said it depends on the circumstances. If he is just slumming it with no goals in mind that’s trifling. However if he’s working or in School with an end goal then it’s understandable.

For transparency reasons I stayed with my parents while I was getting my M.B.A (age 32).

 

[cyndaquil]

Depends of the situation, and sometimes is the parents living with the kids.

The era of moving out at 18 might be over in America, paying almost 1000 bucks a month and still have to share the apt with 3 people is demonic.

Homes are overvalued by 35% in the US and rent is ridiculous too as a result. It's a house of cards that will fall at some point. A lot of people's net worth will drop significantly once it does

https://www.wsj.com/real-estate/wall-street-thinks-u-s-homes-are-overpriced-1fc1c18d

 

[RamsayBolton]

i think its time to establish multi-generational house holds with these home prices

 

[UpNext]

It doesn't really matter anymore. Just don't be sitting on your ass not doing shyt.

 

[duncanthetall]

so if moms say u can stay till 50, u staying?

I moved out when I was 18 but I wish I stayed longer. My sister got multiple degrees and when she came back from law school she didn’t move out until she was 30 and built a nice house. Now I couldn’t have lived with them for that long, but until 23-24 probably for sure. Not everybody’s situation is the same though. I love my parents and don’t get tired of seeing them because we all stay out of each others business unless needed.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

As a man, when you get your first full time job. As a woman, when she gets married.

 

[Luke Cage]

Depends on the reasons
If you are living with your parents because you want to spend all day playing GTA, yeah, this is a problem
If you are living with moms because you stacking for better, cool, job loss, cool, financial hard times, cool but not doing shyt n playing games all day, yeah, thats a problem

true, but also i noticed parents don't seem to care how old kids are when the roles are reversed. When they are 90 years old and can no longer take care of themselves and have to choose between a nursing home or living with their adult kids. They never say such and such age is too old for kids to living with their parents.

Its really a question of how long a parent wants to deal with a burdensome none contributing loser child rather than anything to do with age.

 

[Canada Goose]

IDK brehs, maybe late 20s? I heard many stories in modern times of people struggling to get a entry level job in whatever field they went to college for. There's plenty of videos of grown adults on Youtube struggling to find a job and a bunch of people agreeing with them...



And even if they manage to get a entry level job in the field they went to school for, it doesn't pay high enough to live on your own.


Blue collar career you can probably see real money quicker than people who go to college. Are most trade schools four years long like college is?



OTR Trucking and being a bus operator is a good career and the training for those is a few weeks tops? Every major city in the U.S has a bus system.... but NOT everyone can or wants to be a bus operator. Even with OTR Trucking I heard stories that the profession is oversaturated.

 

[Big Boda]

imma use this thread to give a big shoutout and respect to all the adult sons and daughters that live at home caregiving for sick elderly parents. There are many that use the "scrub" stigma of being at home to justify abandoning elderly mothers and fathers when they need someone there to help regularly.

you are the only guarantee of them not getting mistreated in these hospitals, retirement homes and nursing homes because alot of retirement/nursing home staff are overworked and underpaid and some are taking it out on the elderly residents/patients. Black parents sometimes have a different brand of sass and dont mean any real harm but with these nursing homes that sass can tip the staff over the edge and they'll abuse while no one is looking.

by the time adult children come to visit there are no bruises or marks from abuse and elderly cant always articulate the mistreatment.