What age is too old to be living wit moms..
- Thread starter benjamin
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Yh man I have the opposite problem every time I try and dip I’m met with “you just gonna leave us” “you don’t love us” “you’re leaving us just to go and engage in immoral behavior and illegal activity”breh i could only imagine, love my peoples but if i was still at home id be ready to blow my noodles out..nope..cant do it
I’m fukkin done, only reason I havent left yet is because I put my deposit in and the landlord hasn’t finished doing the renovations I’m looking for a new place but it’s Damn near impossible in this area. $2300 for rent?! FOH
Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
How old is too old for your momma to stay with you?
Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
How old is too old for your momma to stay with you?
Justin Nitsuj
Superstar
it’s always be black people with this mentality that you can’t live with your parents after a certain age. meanwhile, other races have family members living with them regardless of age. if they are helping around the house then that’s fine but if they are not, then they need to move around because you can’t live anywhere for free.
datnigDASTARDLY
catching pigeons
I moved out at 19, had to move back for school and finally made it out permanently at 25…that was almost 25 years ago though.
Let’s just say my wife and I plan on upgrading to bigger house soon, for my kids in the future regardless of if they lazy or not. They will ultimately be fine with our assets and our eventual inherited assets, but the old ways of slumming and being single no longer apply.
Let’s just say my wife and I plan on upgrading to bigger house soon, for my kids in the future regardless of if they lazy or not
. They will ultimately be fine with our assets and our eventual inherited assets, but the old ways of slumming and being single no longer apply.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
If you have a job and contribute to the household bills then you can stay at home at whatever age you want. The key is not to be a bum. In other cultures some men never move out they just marry and move their wife in and have kids. Americans normalize being away from your parents. Other cultures the parents live with you and you all take care of each other. Economically and regarding familial outcomes it can't be beat.
But if you wanna fukk hoes, make your own rules, etc. yeah move out. But keep in mind this is a personal decision. Has no bearing on your manhood.
But if you wanna fukk hoes, make your own rules, etc. yeah move out. But keep in mind this is a personal decision. Has no bearing on your manhood.
I know multiple people that lived their entire life in the mama house (outside of prison stints ) and preceeded their mom in death. I reject this failure to launch, Baby Boy bullshyt.
However, cost of living is a bytch. If you can save some money and help moms save some money and everybody is contributing and respectful I dont see an issue.
I dont agree with this rushing kids out the crib or setting ages shyt. For who? For what? Mine all know they can post up at the crib as long as they going to school or working towards sonething. Again, aint no Baby Boy bullshyt but nothing wrong with supporting somebody thats tryna build a better life. Reality is, unless you a doctor, lawyer, athlete etc your first job aint really gonna be paying like that. Why struggle if you dont have to? That shyt dont build character, it builds debt
) and preceeded their mom in death. I reject this failure to launch, Baby Boy bullshyt.However, cost of living is a bytch. If you can save some money and help moms save some money and everybody is contributing and respectful I dont see an issue.
I dont agree with this rushing kids out the crib or setting ages shyt. For who? For what? Mine all know they can post up at the crib as long as they going to school or working towards sonething. Again, aint no Baby Boy bullshyt but nothing wrong with supporting somebody thats tryna build a better life. Reality is, unless you a doctor, lawyer, athlete etc your first job aint really gonna be paying like that. Why struggle if you dont have to? That shyt dont build character, it builds debt
More about situation than age. This notion that we're automatically supposed to be away from our families by a certain age, much younger to some than others is not nessecerily ideal.
Neither is being a deadbeat.
I wish I HADN'T left my grandma's house when I did, because she needed me. But my uncle, who was on a lot of the same kind of talking points I see in this thread and in general on the topic, pushed for me to leave after I got fired from 1 of my 2 jobs at the time.
I ain't just leave, I moved cross country, out of spite. And this bytch ass nikka didn't take care of her like I was doing. Convinced her to sell her home that could still be in the family then moved her into his house to eat off her income while he lived above his means.
Neither is being a deadbeat.
I wish I HADN'T left my grandma's house when I did, because she needed me. But my uncle, who was on a lot of the same kind of talking points I see in this thread and in general on the topic, pushed for me to leave after I got fired from 1 of my 2 jobs at the time.
I ain't just leave, I moved cross country, out of spite. And this bytch ass nikka didn't take care of her like I was doing. Convinced her to sell her home that could still be in the family then moved her into his house to eat off her income while he lived above his means.
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cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
Sounds like people who push that shyt either have an agenda or are insecure themselves.
Diunx
Probably drunk
Depends of the situation, and sometimes is the parents living with the kids.
The era of moving out at 18 might be over in America, paying almost 1000 bucks a month and still have to share the apt with 3 people is demonic.
The era of moving out at 18 might be over in America, paying almost 1000 bucks a month and still have to share the apt with 3 people is demonic.
Mrhateeverything
All Star
Depends on situation. I'm 41.
Me and my twins live with my pops. Could afford to move out but he asked me to stay since my moms passed 10 years ago.
He likes having my kids around.
I pay all the bills. We get along great.
He don't tell me shyt.
No matter what circumstances I will always be with my pops.
Me and my twins live with my pops. Could afford to move out but he asked me to stay since my moms passed 10 years ago.
He likes having my kids around.
I pay all the bills. We get along great.
He don't tell me shyt.
No matter what circumstances I will always be with my pops.