What are some lessons you had to learn the hard way?

Rozay Oro

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Falling for these selfish women.

I’m convinced love is not real anymore. I think it’s just you pull a shorty that looks good to you and have to be that (cold) nikka 24/7 regardless how old you get.

That ain’t no 50/50 that’s like 90/10 lol.
That seems like so much mental work, I can not imagine getting married. They won’t date me long term but shyt.
 

Silkk

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Don't try to help people, especially women. Over time you'll realize no matter how much you may help them, their situation will never change because they don't want it to change it. Your help is futile. Best to let them drown and move on.
Came to post something similar but this right here
 

Chip Skylark

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Do what’s best for you! Be selfish!

When you notice a red flag whether it be family, friend, or significant other act on it IMMEDIATELY. Let it be known you have an issue with it. Never accept it. EVER!!!

People will always have their best interest at heart. When you find someone who genuinely doesn’t and care for you cherish that person because it’s rare.
 

The Amerikkkan Idol

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getting knocked out ain't the worse thing to happen to you

This is some real man shyt right here.

I wish I could've had a nikka like you sit down with all my homies from high-school.

R.I.P. to my homie J, who got domed after getting into a fight about some bytch with her side nikka a few months after we graduated:mjcry:
 

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Things I’ve learned the hard way…

Sometimes it’s best to cut your loses and walk away.

Don’t chase women work on being the best version possible of yourself and they’ll come back salivating over you later.

Sometimes it’s better to keep certain shyt to yourself, that truth will set you free stuff is bullshyt. You’re better off keeping some shyt to yourself most of the time and hope or pray to be better next time.

Don’t try to change peoples opinions let them believe what they want.

A successful life is the best revenge.

You are the CEO of your life other people can slow you down, but it’s up to you to stay down or to get up and keep moving forward.

:lawd:
 

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There is never a perfect time for anything. At all. If you really want something just go out and get it don't tell yourself "ima wait till this or that" or give yourself qualifiers. Just go out and do it. I'm still below 30 but there's a lot of things I missed out on or delayed because I put arbitrary qualifiers on myself.

Success at something new or important usually requires a tremendous amount of rejection or effort to drag yourself to the finishing line.

It takes more time to recover from years of letting yourself go versus the time and effort to be generous and take care of yourself from the start.

To an extent if you want something bad enough you will find a way to get it.

Don't overcomplicate things, just get started. Some things really can be reduced to simple actions you just have to trust in your competence to navigate the many small points. Somewhat applicable... I really wanted to learn fast touch typing. I probably spent hours researching the whole thing. Now that I have a high WPM I can say that the only thing a learner needs to do is type faster. That's it.

It's difficult to survive in the world without confidence whether it's real or fake. Just saying to yourself "I must believe in myself because if I don't no one else will" is not true self belief and at worst it's actively being low self-esteem.

Always have conversations documented or wait until there's a witness before raising important topics whether it's family or at work.

Sometimes it's good to live multiple lives.

Keep negative people out of your life

Never forget where you came from or your motives - always keep that fire burning.

Passive aggression will get you nowhere unless you're willing to back it up with real action when the time arises.

Cut out narcissists from your life.
 
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