What Are Some RED FLAGS When Dealing With A Chick/Dude?

[Guess Who]

If a woman has been abused, raped, molested...and hasn't gone to therapy...stay THE fukk away! The sex will likely be amazing, HOWEVER, they will be fukked up and crazy in some way, whether it be emotionally unstable, needy, extremely insecure, don't know how to be in healthy relationships, etc.

Also women who's father was not in their lives OR if their father was in some way abusive or an a$$hole. You gonna deal with that woman's anger and mistrust of men.

 

[bogey_j]

Oh yeah guys who gossip. Dont trust em!

you mean 98% of the lame ass guys on this board?

 

[1980sCokeFlow]

-White belts
-Side ways pony tails
-Overly arched eyebrows
-Wild multi color nails
-A ton of "friends" on FB, Instagram, and Twitter
-Very fashionable with no means of income
-Weed head
-Male friends
-Knows all the lyrics to Future songs
-Always listening to "Bad" by Wale
-Huge Nicki Minaj fan

 

[88m3]

Girls from families making less than 200K. In my experience these women could not adjust to the lifestyle I lead. More often than not they did not fit in with my friends. Didn't wear the right clothes or say the right things. Weren't into the same art and didn't have an appreciation for John Cusack or Robert Palmer.

I thought I had this covered, but carry on.

 

[swimmingpools]

Tru. But I find it that society tends to support when kids bash no good fathers. But let a dude bash his mom, females will be turned off to some degree. Even if the mom is a crack addicted prost8itute, the mom gets a free pass

Oh no I definitely feel and agree with you. I think that ties in to the whole "moms are the primary nurturers" thing. Majority of women have innate nurturing abilities. So with moms seen as being the nurturer, people have that "How dare you hate your mom?!" belief. I dont know Im rambling and high so idk if that made sense.

No good dad bashing is more accepted IMO because a man is seen as being the sex to support and provide for their family. Provide security. So "hell yeah bash a man whos not providing for his offspring!" is more accepted. Hes not doing his "role" as a man/father.

 

[HiphopRelated]

she's stuck on bbm/whatsapp etc.

 

[EffedUp]

From personal experience:
When a co-worker sets you up with their daughter (red flag in itself) and "forgets" to mentions something quite important.

*in midst of text convo*
Girl: So how do you feel about me having 3 kids?
Me:

 

[swimmingpools]

you mean 98% of the lame ass guys on this board?

dun dun dunnnn.

 

[1980sCokeFlow]

From personal experience:
When a co-worker sets you up with their daughter (red flag in itself) and "forgets" to mentions something quite important.

*in midst of text convo*
Girl: So how do you feel about me having 3 kids?
Me:

They usually have problems that I can exploit so I like that sh1t. You know a situation isn't quite right when parents are looking for someone to date their kid because "you seem like a good person".

To make a long story short, I ended up pimping that b1tch until she ran off to Utah with a truck driver.

 

[Sierra Mist]

She uses a lot of Marilyn Monroe quotes.
She stans those "Future/Khalifa" types of rappers more than anything else.
She says she doesn't have any female friends because they are too "catty".
She never answer things directly.
She explicitly states that she is the "wifey type."
She says she is tired of men and their "games."
She has male "friends" that she gives more attention than she gives you.
She doesn't tell you about her kids.
She spends the first few days bringing up how her ex "ain't shyt" in different conversations out of nowhere.

 

[HiphopRelated]

From personal experience:
When a co-worker sets you up with their daughter (red flag in itself) and "forgets" to mentions something quite important.

*in midst of text convo*
Girl: So how do you feel about me having 3 kids?
Me:

I hate "set ups" in general

 

[msims]

girls from poor families


girls who expect you to buy them things


girls who don't have degrees


girls who haven't traveled


girls who aren't naturally intelligent

girls without jobs or trust funds

@Serious

You stupid for this one.


​

 

[Jahmal]

A chick that has a penis is usually a deal breaker for me

 

[Air Nikes N Hats]

When it comes to women, I always pay extra attention to...

-how they treat children (not their own but others)
-how they treat the elderly
-how they treat animals

If they show any contempt for the above mentioned= I aint fukking with them....period!

 

[Gus Money]

Hate to say it, but girls who grew up without a father. In my experience they always have mad issues.

And of course girls who have been victims of some kind of sexual abuse in the past are "Abort Mission Immediately" status

If a woman has been abused, raped, molested...and hasn't gone to therapy...stay THE fukk away! The sex will likely be amazing, HOWEVER, they will be fukked up and crazy in some way, whether it be emotionally unstable, needy, extremely insecure, don't know how to be in healthy relationships, etc.

Also women who's father was not in their lives OR if their father was in some way abusive or an a$$hole. You gonna deal with that woman's anger and mistrust of men.

I learned this the hard way. So much stress I made things work for a while but it was rough. Never again.