If you want to be stressed out and emotionally drained just date a chick who was molested or raped and never had therapy .
What Are Some RED FLAGS When Dealing With A Chick/Dude?
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UserNameless
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Fixed. But I'm with you on this. 100%.
Yup everything they do whether its cheating, drinking, talking to different men etc. Any issue they will pin on because I was raped because I was molested. Its not my fault I cheated I just can't trust men because I was raped or molested
Air Nikes N Hats
Poor mans Johnny Football Lifestyle!
Hope you continue to get back on track. As for the underlined, adults whom have experienced physical and psychological trauma have a responsibility for their on wellness. It might take a little prodding from others, but, ultimately, they have to take the responsibility to get treatment.
Child molesters (especially molesters of their own children) should be subject to the toughest criminal penalties. Many folks who have been molested as children truly have a deeply bruised and compromised soul.
Shyts sad... but have to applaud them for surviving, as they know how using such an altered perspective as their guides.
It's not beyond repair, but it takes a lot of time and dedication to holistic wellness.
It's sad and I wish her well....offered friendship, but you know how that goes.
UserNameless
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Already.
SirShaktus
All Star
but I got a few...
-Has low impulse control. Buying or doing things on a whim every now and then is cool, but every day...
?
-Has ZERO intellectual hobbies. Watching TV and hanging out with friends on the weekends is cool, but if she don't do things like read, take long walks, visit museums, watch documentaries, stuff like that that, she looks stupid.
-Speaking of hobbies, girls who solely watch reality TV/Scandal/shows like that A) Have no lives, and B) Will create drama for its own sake. It may be cool as a 'guilty pleasure (and only like one or two shows),' but if that's all she watches...
-If she uses extremist terms for the simplest shyt.
'OMG, I LOVE this song!'
'She's like, my best friend in the world.'
'I love you so much (on the 1st date)!'
Expect histrionics and drama.
Side note: If a girl has a different 'best friend' every couple of months. My ex has had a new best friend every year or so and doesn't speak to the old ones. (Should've noticed my damn self
). Indicates a lack of loyalty.
-Has low impulse control. Buying or doing things on a whim every now and then is cool, but every day...
?-Has ZERO intellectual hobbies. Watching TV and hanging out with friends on the weekends is cool, but if she don't do things like read, take long walks, visit museums, watch documentaries, stuff like that that, she looks stupid.
-Speaking of hobbies, girls who solely watch reality TV/Scandal/shows like that A) Have no lives, and B) Will create drama for its own sake. It may be cool as a 'guilty pleasure (and only like one or two shows),' but if that's all she watches...
-If she uses extremist terms for the simplest shyt.
'OMG, I LOVE this song!'
'She's like, my best friend in the world.'
'I love you so much (on the 1st date)!'
Expect histrionics and drama.
Side note: If a girl has a different 'best friend' every couple of months. My ex has had a new best friend every year or so and doesn't speak to the old ones. (Should've noticed my damn self
). Indicates a lack of loyalty.
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NerdBird
Pro
If she doesn't take care of her feet that's a red flag.
At least for me... also chicks that act like they are your girlfriend when both of you barely talk to each other, that's a flag for PSYCHO.
At least for me... also chicks that act like they are your girlfriend when both of you barely talk to each other, that's a flag for PSYCHO.
AlreadyKnow
Southern Belle
If a guy doesn't want to pay for anything
If the guy prefers to invite you over to his house instead of go out for a real date (and you're not exclusively dating)
If he keeps a messy/dirty car
If the guy prefers to invite you over to his house instead of go out for a real date (and you're not exclusively dating)
If he keeps a messy/dirty car
SirShaktus
All Star
A few more...
-If your girl wants attention at inopportune times solely for attention, not something important. My ex damn near turned off my TV during the last play of the Duke - Butler Nat'l Championship game. I damn near belly to belly suplexed her ass for that shyt.
-If she looks down on your hobbies/passions in life. If you tell your girl you like comic books or playing pick up ball then going out with your boys for beers on the weekends, the most negative reaction she should give you is 'Eh, it's not for me.
'
She don't have to like it, but she should at least be cool with it because it makes you happy.
If she says something along the lines of 'Wow, you like that?
or tells you to give it up and it's something legal and doesn't hurt anyone, she'll try and make you give that shyt up in the near future.
-If your girl wants attention at inopportune times solely for attention, not something important. My ex damn near turned off my TV during the last play of the Duke - Butler Nat'l Championship game. I damn near belly to belly suplexed her ass for that shyt.
-If she looks down on your hobbies/passions in life. If you tell your girl you like comic books or playing pick up ball then going out with your boys for beers on the weekends, the most negative reaction she should give you is 'Eh, it's not for me.
'She don't have to like it, but she should at least be cool with it because it makes you happy.
If she says something along the lines of 'Wow, you like that?
or tells you to give it up and it's something legal and doesn't hurt anyone, she'll try and make you give that shyt up in the near future.
Dog Based Gremlin
Veteran
If she is black 
TrifeGod
Chasing The Dragon
*Reads if she don't take care of her feet*
*Txt girl "How is your toes doin"*
*Txt girl "How is your toes doin"*
NerdBird
Pro
*Reads if she don't take care of her feet*
*Txt girl "How is your toes doin"*
If her feet ain't looking right when she got on some cute flip flops or high heels
then
