What Are Some RED FLAGS When Dealing With A Chick/Dude?

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Guess Who said:
She has recently started therapy. Hopefully it helps. But that's a loooong process. And she'd prefer to do it on her own since she is so insecure at having to go to therapy that she doesn't want to face me, as she views me as being strong and having my shyt together. Serious insecurity issues man.

I feel like there's nothing I can do. Can't support someone who 1. doesn't communicate and 2. pushes everyone away when she needs support the most.
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I agree.
 
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I let her go, too much drama too soon... I had my guards up from the beginning, when we started dating she made that Marilyn quote "Im selfish, insecure bla bla bla" her FB cover :snoop:
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I feel you breh, my ex had ultra clingy insecurity tendencies:snoop:. What I learned is with some of these females is, the more secure you are the more their insecurity grows. The minute you ignored her password switch request the way she took is , this nicca don't care about me as much i care about him (insecurity grows). She was talking about, "my girl's cell phone blew up all night her man kept hitting her up. How come you only called me twice?"..:why: CUZ I KNOW WHERE YOU ARE. You have a healthy social life, so you talk to other females here and there so her mind starts playing tricks on her and shyt blows up to the point where you can't deal with it anymore. Ended the same way for me breh, she had that dumb, "I come with lots of baggages, accept at me best" crap on twitter.
 
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GinaThatAintNoDamnPuppy! said:
Switches in and out of 3-5 different personalities...Gotta watch for that shyt.
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This shyt here... this shyt right here... :banderas:

And the rape/molestation/sexual assault thing is very real. Immediate :whoa: status.

JLova said:
Many folk got baggage..especially women.
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True. And the older you get, them more baggage incurs (if you're messing with women your age, but in today's age, a lot of these young females have baggage that a 30 y/o woman would have).
 
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