What Are Some RED FLAGS When Dealing With A Chick/Dude?
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Doctor Gonzo
Head full of acid
Girls with the Princess mentality, can't do wrong but everyone else has problems and issues. 
Meanwhile she's just a nasty bytch for no reason, usually not even that hot.
Can't stand that shyt, makes my shyt go soft nh
Meanwhile she's just a nasty bytch for no reason, usually not even that hot.
Can't stand that shyt, makes my shyt go soft nh
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if she drives a bmw and her radio system is broke with a giant crack on it and she says her ex did it but were still cool with each other
never again will i not pay attention too something so simple
never again will i not pay attention too something so simple
Shes over 20y/o and she says she never gave head. Them proceeds to give you the best brains of your life 
I know breh, I know.
havoc
Superstar
Any women with insecurities is a turn off. If you meet a chick with no self-esteem, run quickly away from that chick to save yourself from any possible distress.
Any women who is a pathological social network freak. You know the ones who love to post in facebook or twitter every hour of the day. A woman like that seeks attention to massage her egos.
Another flag is a lady with a lot of male friends with no lady friends. That is a red flag that a man can't miss. A chick like that would treat you like a reserve or take you for granted, and would use you for other means beside sex.
Any women who is a pathological social network freak. You know the ones who love to post in facebook or twitter every hour of the day. A woman like that seeks attention to massage her egos.
Another flag is a lady with a lot of male friends with no lady friends. That is a red flag that a man can't miss. A chick like that would treat you like a reserve or take you for granted, and would use you for other means beside sex.
I know.
The girl I'm currently with had MAD red flags that I dismissed (rape and father used to hit her, among other things), because she's smart, has the best personality of any girl I ever dated, and she even treat me good. But shyt she hid her emotional turbulence well...for a loooong time. Then one little thing happened and it all hit like a ton of bricks. Now I'm caught up...feel like I can't leave because she's in a very vulnerable spot right now, but I feel like I have to...
I don't think that's really a red flag though. I mean, she's good to you, smart and has a great personality. If you care about her and want to be with her...try to help her along.
Many folk got baggage..especially women. To me a red flag would be herpes...or if she was a downright bytch...drug addict, whore, liar, etc.
I feel you man. But it's the emotional turbulence that I can't handle. She blows little things out of proportion and is very very moody...and then shuts down at the slightest sign of adversity. I'm talking total incommunicado if we have a disagreement about something. Until she learns how to handle her emotions in a healthy way it won't work with me or anybody unfortunately.
if she drives a bmw and her radio system is broke with a giant crack on it and she says her ex did it but were still cool with each other
never again will i not pay attention too something so simple
Just a a few:
- If she gives you her twitter, IG, FB password cuz she has "nothing to hide" and expect you to do the same, you ain't gonna be happy.
Explain this breh. She was trying to imply that I should let her go thru my phone... I ignored that shyt
- If she thinks you're cheating with every female friend/co workers you talk to.
This was subliminally beginning to happen...
- If she starts talking about marriage 2 months in.
This started to happen...
I let her go, too much drama too soon... I had my guards up from the beginning, when we started dating she made that Marilyn quote "Im selfish, insecure bla bla bla" her FB cover
Carter G. Hoodson
Tarik is my name ✊✊✊
A woman who thinks she's entitled to things just because.
have no idea, what most of the cats here are talking about.....
What's a relationship?
What's a relationship?
I see. Is she trying to get help? If not then...
She has recently started therapy. Hopefully it helps. But that's a loooong process. And she'd prefer to do it on her own since she is so insecure at having to go to therapy that she doesn't want to face me, as she views me as being strong and having my shyt together. Serious insecurity issues man.
I feel like there's nothing I can do. Can't support someone who 1. doesn't communicate and 2. pushes everyone away when she needs support the most.