What Are Some RED FLAGS When Dealing With A Chick/Dude?

[The Unknown Hype]

what do you want to understand?

when you said women with poor families whats the downside?

 

[Air Nikes N Hats]

Me and my ex, finally done for good after about a year......but fukk it, I aint mad....if anything I'm pissed it didnt end sooner. She clearly has issues. In fact, I think I treated her well....but its hard to tell. She was one of those who didnt have her father around, went from one physically abusive relationship to another. Im not the type of smack a bytch around, so I guess she lost interest lol.

im going to New Orleans next week anyways......nothing like a vacation to help move along the healing process.

 

[Air Nikes N Hats]

This shyt here... this shyt right here...

And the rape/molestation/sexual assault thing is very real. Immediate status.



True. And the older you get, them more baggage incurs (if you're messing with women your age, but in today's age, a lot of these young females have baggage that a 30 y/o woman would have).

My ex has a twin sister....the twin claims they were molested by their father when they were younger. My ex claims to not remember.....might have been another warning sign I completely disregarded

 

[Jahmal]

When she says she was born Male

 

[DrX]

when a chick is concerned with money

also the same for dudes....it makes me think theyre out to get me

 

[UserNameless]

My ex has a twin sister....the twin claims they were molested by their father when they were younger. My ex claims to not remember.....might have been another warning sign I completely disregarded

False Memory and memory lapses due to trauma are real. Either way, from a romantic standpoint.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Calling or texting back to back. So many men do this shyt. It's annoying.

 

[BezO]

Judgmental know-it-all women, especially when it comes to matters of maturity and the definition of a Man.

 

[TRFG]

Shes over 20y/o and she says she never gave head. Them proceeds to give you the best brains of your life

That and "I'm not to good at this"

 

[Air Nikes N Hats]

False Memory and memory lapses due to trauma are real. Either way, from a romantic standpoint.

I discovered these facts later on.....in hindsight, the mood swings, bi-polarish ways.....honestly I thought it was just stress from her job and dealing with her daughters father. Honestly I feel bad for her. My lifes been a littled fukked up since Hurricane Sandy (I lost it all, and slowly working my way to getting back to where I was before).....but those things can be fixed with short term solutions.....I dont have time to be a long term therapist for someone who seems to not want help...it is what it is.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

@the visual

lol That's one of the best things about The Coli to me. We have some grand storytellers here.

 

[Fatboi1]

Um...I hate when a group of chicks try to approach me. That shyt is just awkward as hell. One time a group of like 4 chicks ran up on me and told me her friend liked me. I'm talking them ratchet ass Opa Locka chicks.

bytches ran up on me when I was eating lunch talking about her friend liked me. The bytch was loud as fukk. They asked me if I had a phone, I said no. Then the bytch gave me her number, I was like I took it when I got home threw it on my dresser somewhere and never saw that shyt again. The worst part was they wouldn't leave me alone for the rest of my sophomore year.

Another time this group of Haitian chicks ran up on me in the morning when I was waiting for my homeboys. I'm talking them fresh off the boat Haitian chicks in South Florida chicks. Her friend was like "You have gwelfwiend?" I'm like "Nah." Then she was like "You do now" and pointed to her friend. I was like

 

[Fatboi1]

Girls from families making less than 200K. In my experience these women could not adjust to the lifestyle I lead. More often than not they did not fit in with my friends. Didn't wear the right clothes or say the right things. Weren't into the same art and didn't have an appreciation for John Cusack or Robert Palmer.

 

[Roman Brady]

knows you are in a relationship but makes blatant advances when you occupy the same sspace
shes white but at ease with grimey thug types
Says the rubber of condoms gives her an allergy
Anal is her favourite position

 

[UserNameless]

I discovered these facts later on.....in hindsight, the mood swings, bi-polarish ways.....honestly I thought it was just stress from her job and dealing with her daughters father. Honestly I feel bad for her. My lifes been a littled fukked up since Hurricane Sandy (I lost it all, and slowly working my way to getting back to where I was before).....but those things can be fixed with short term solutions.....I dont have time to be a long term therapist for someone who seems to not want help...it is what it is.

Hope you continue to get back on track. As for the underlined, adults whom have experienced physical and psychological trauma have a responsibility for their on wellness. It might take a little prodding from others, but, ultimately, they have to take the responsibility to get treatment.

Child molesters (especially molesters of their own children) should be subject to the toughest criminal penalties. Many folks who have been molested as children truly have a deeply bruised and compromised soul.

Shyts sad ... but have to applaud them for surviving, as they know how using such an altered perspective as their guides.

It's not beyond repair, but it takes a lot of time and dedication to holistic wellness.