What are the benefits of being in a relationship?

Prynce

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Well, when you look at a relationship as something that can benefit you then there's your problem.

Anyways, I have a wife and child. I've benefited greatly.

The benefits of a fruitful relationship should be obvious.
Then whats the fukking point of being in one of it doesn't benefit you?
 

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It feels good. Someone to love you like no one else can. Someone who will do anything to make you happy. Carry out your will. Help you whenever you are in need. Raise your child or children. Make you your favorite meals. It’s a boost to your life.
 

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I mean where does a man really benefit from it?

You can get sex without being in one

You can get affection and attention too

It's literally no beneficial reason for a man on his shyt to be in one.

You can get all the personal fulfillment from friends and family
None

I hate when people say you can build in a relationship

You can build by yourself
 

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My friends and mom have my back like that

I don't really understand why a woman makes you feel that way when I've had those people my entire life anyway
I feel you but as a grown man there comes a time when you have to stop leaning on your mother. And as you get older your friends priorities gonna change
 

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It feels good. Someone to love you like no one else can. Someone who will do anything to make you happy. Carry out your will. Help you whenever you are in need. Raise your child or children. Make you your favorite meals. It’s a boost to your life.
My mama love me like no one else can

All my friends would break their neck for me and want me to be happy

I can raise my own seeds

I can cook for myself

The only point you made that I agree with is having your kids in a family setting
 

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Are you with a woman you feel like has your back 100%?

Seems like a level of vulnerability that a person can use against you eventually
Yes and I didn’t think I’d find that again and I definitely wasn’t looking for it. Don’t get me wrong relationships aren’t for everyone. And when you get in one you taking a chance
 

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My mama love me like no one else can

All my friends would break their neck for me and want me to be happy

I can raise my own seeds

I can cook for myself

The only point you made that I agree with is having your kids in a family setting
Trust your mama cannot love you like a woman who loves you can.

Did you have a father in your life growing up?
 
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