What are you struggling with that you dont want your outside folks to know?

[BlvdBrawler]

I been on a sexual rampage with some questionable slores the last couple weeks... I got a girl and we fukk raw but I'm seriously thinking of asking her to start using condoms or confessing that I've slept with 3 different people since she left town for her own good.

I've never cheated before this relationship and it feels like shyt but I want out and I told her that. She gained weight on me, not an excuse but

I hear you on the weight gain thing. I hate when hoes do that, but that isn't an excuse. If you want a surefire way to dead the relationship (and it sounds like you do) then yes, tell her you're going to start using condoms.

 

[Rominati]

You may be right, but then again when you do so see success you'd want somebody that was really down for you and not just your money.

Yea its a catch 22. She been here since the beginning so If shyt do pop for me. I definitely want her down for the ride. Even if we aint together at the time.


But still shorty is a grown woman who acts like a child. I baby her too much. She needs to start becoming more independent and her own woman.


It seems like all that rah rah I dont need no man, independent woman bullshyt that these chicks kick flies out the window once they find a nikka that they like

 

[Mr. Manhattan]

Finding my place in this cold world

Just left the NAVY recruiting office they told me the job i wanted I couldnt get because of my bad credit history, they said they'll work on it and try an alternate job like Logistic Specialist

fukk it might just go back to school, or try some culinary classes

Im trying to find an MMA school to let out my frustration

 

[Lavish]

I been on a sexual rampage with some questionable slores the last couple weeks... I got a girl and we fukk raw but I'm seriously thinking of asking her to start using condoms or confessing that I've slept with 3 different people since she left town for her own good.


I've never cheated before this relationship and it feels like shyt but I want out and I told her that. She gained weight on me, not an excuse but

breh listen to me very carefully

DO NOT tell your girl unless you really want to end it.

make sure you really want to end it breh...because what may happen is, your just getting bored of her temporarily...once you cut her off, your feelings you once had may come back and then your fukked!

Ive been in your shoes breh. she didnt gain weight, but my feeligns went away...cheated...felt guilty....told my girl...I didnt care if she left me....now I miss her, and im fighting to get her back...and she sayin no because she cant trust me

 

[Malta]

I find it very hard to care about anything or anyone outside of my family structure. I basically cut most of my friends out of my life, simply because I got tired of wasting time just hanging out with them. Oh word, you wanna go to the bar/club yet again? how is that any different from the last bar or club, simply rotating between slightly different variations of the same thing is .

I feel for my girl sometimes too, cause I don't know if it'll happen or not, but I can just detach from people out of the blue. It's not even something I plan, it just happens and I go ice age on people. Definitely some kind of wiring is fukked up in me that allows me to do that, it's cost me 2 other relationships in the past and I just and move on. She knows that, but I don't think she thinks it can happen to her.

 

[Malta]

Life has become repetitive and a bore, I've been thinking of taking a 6 months leave of absence from work, packing my suitcase, and just volunteering in third world countries to get some time of semblance in life.




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Do it, looking back I wish I would have lived in another country much longer.

The repetitiveness of working is just

 

[BlvdBrawler]

I find it very hard to care about anything or anyone outside of my family structure. I basically cut most of my friends out of my life, simply because I got tired of wasting time just hanging out with them. Oh word, you wanna go to the bar/club yet again? how is that any different from the last bar or club, simply rotating between slightly different variations of the same thing is .

I feel for my girl sometimes too, cause I don't know if it'll happen or not, but I can just detach from people out of the blue. It's not even something I plan, it just happens and I go ice age on people. Definitely some kind of wiring is fukked up in me that allows me to do that, it's cost me 2 other relationships in the past and I just and move on. She knows that, but I don't think she thinks it can happen to her.

I really think that 2nd part is just being a man, breh. Like how male jaguars just drop their seed and dip. It seems kinda natural to me. This whole... mating for life thing is a dumb idea that women dreamt up.

 

[1thouwow]

i want the cushion of knowing that i can stay in reenlist in the navy if i want to, but i wont find that out in another year.

the navy is good but i dont wanna fall in the trap of being dependent on it, i wanna know if i get out ill be alright in the civilian world.. but i have no college degree

i dont have a college degree bc the navy is too time consuming and my free time i dont wanna do extra work

 

[Malta]

I really think that 2nd part is just being a man, breh. Like how male jaguars just drop their seed and dip. It seems kinda natural to me. This whole... mating for life thing is a dumb idea that women dreamt up.

Except I've done it to friends, people I've known since I was little and generally anyone that isn't bound to me by blood. I cut my best friend out of my life overnight, just out the blue, no real reason other than thems the breaks

 

[Dirk Diggler]

Except I've done it to friends, people I've known since I was little and generally anyone that isn't bound to me by blood. I cut my best friend out of my life overnight, just out the blue, no real reason other than thems the breaks

I have this issue as well. I dont have a problem ice cold cutting off anyone in my life except for my immediate family

To me friends are around for a reason or a season....

 

[Gunshi]

i just wanna fukk other girls.... but im married and i got a daughter... i have tried sooo many times to let my girl go but i always called her back.. last time i let her go she called and told me she was pregnant with my child and now we back together and i honestly feel like i need space, and freedom to experience life on my own..... we have been together for about 10yrs.....honestly i just want to be alone for atleast a year so i can focus on me...

i love my wife to death but sometimes i just wish we werent ttogether... but then i start to have baby boy images in my head of some other nikka stayin up in the crib where my daughter rest her head..... nah nikka, dat aint gonna happen so i keep em close to me while i creep around... its fukked up but i cant help

 

[MikelArteta]

I have no issues cuttin ppl out as well, I changed my number a few months ago and only immediate family and a few others have it. Didn't even tell anyone and then I deleted my facebook.

The less fake ppl the better


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[thelonious21]

I love my girlfriend but I keep having the urge to cheat and I don't know what to do about it.

 

[Malta]

I have this issue as well. I dont have a problem ice cold cutting off anyone in my life except for my immediate family

To me friends are around for a reason or a season....

It makes no sense to me, I'm not even anti-social, you put me in a room full of people and I'm talking to everyone. The problem is feeling obligated to people that don't matter, something in my brain doesn't allow me to stay connected to them for long.

I have no issues cuttin ppl out as well, I changed my number a few months ago and only immediate family and a few others have it. Didn't even tell anyone and then I deleted my facebook.

The less fake ppl the better


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I don't even change my number, I straight up ignore them. I've had people leave messages on my car with their numbers, only to be crumpled up and thrown away. I definitely feel it's some kind of social disorder, I can't bond with people who aren't related to me.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Except I've done it to friends, people I've known since I was little and generally anyone that isn't bound to me by blood. I cut my best friend out of my life overnight, just out the blue, no real reason other than thems the breaks

Definitely can relate to this.. I can break ties with people just as easy as turning off a light switch.. Out of sight, out of mind -- like they never existed.. I'm diagnosed with ASPD..

C'est la vie..