What Are Your Thoughts On Being The Provider In A Marriage?

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Ive said it before on here a few times. My household is a single income home. We decided once I started making good money, she would go to school full time to get her law degree.

Wife got into three law schools. One would have paid 70% tuition, plus I gave her my GI Bill and yellow ribbon program would have paid the rest.
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Ended up in Panama City, PA and she got pregnant. She hasnt worked since.
:manny:
Kids are tough. We get to see them off everyday and pick them up everyday. When I’m home, our time is our time. No office hours, commuting, work drama etc. Plus, one of our daughters is on the spectrum. ABA therapy, OT, speech therapy are all things we must do every week. Having a job would be tough to manage.
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It works for us.
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Once our six year old is comfortable in school and caught up, Wifey might be ready for law school again. If not, we good either way. I believe we are one. I believe that’s the only way to have a successful marriage. There is no mines or hers, there’s only us and our unit. Once you think that way, you will overcome anything.
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Ive said it before on here a few times. My household is a single income home. We decided once I started making good money, she would go to school full time to get her law degree.

Wife got into three law schools. One would have paid 70% tuition, plus I gave her my GI Bill and yellow ribbon program would have paid the rest.
:blessed:
Ended up in Panama City, PA and she got pregnant. She hasnt worked since.
:manny:
Kids are tough. We get to see them off everyday and pick them up everyday. When I’m home, our time is our time. No office hours, commuting, work drama etc. Plus, one of our daughters is on the spectrum. ABA therapy, OT, speech therapy are all things we must do every week. Having a job would be tough to manage.
:francis:
It works for us.
:yeshrug:
Once our six year old is comfortable in school and caught up, Wifey might be ready for law school again. If not, we good either way. I believe we are one. I believe that’s the only way to have a successful marriage. There is no mines or hers, there’s only us and our unit. Once you think that way, you will overcome anything.
:ufdup:
With the tone of this thread you bout to get attacked. Please be ready :mjgrin:
 

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Prenup is what I believe. :mjlol:

It's 2025 and 70 year olds are buying more houses than 35 year olds.

I'm not some Prince Charming looking to fulfill a fantasy.

You not working on a steel mill.

My wife would ATLEAST have to be working part-time.
 

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These videos are fake, but there is nothing wrong with being a provider as a man. Where I have a problem is when women want a man to take on a traditional gender role, but then they think they have no obligation to do the same.
This video probably is and/or he also do promotion/paid videos with semi sm influencers.. But I have seen buddy out in Brickell a few times hustling up fr.. Its kinda funny to see like oh shyt, buddy really out here waiting for random people :heh: but if its what pay his bills and help him run up a bag :manny:
 
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