they really cant lead, but they can:
- be honest with their children about the mistakes they made to end up a SM. dont just push all blame on the absent father.
- stop coddling black boys out of fear of white supremacy
- stop teaching black boys to worship and respect all black women
- stop teaching black daughters that all nikkas aint shyt
- try to teach black daughters to admire the "nerdier" qualities in black boys
- wear your hair natural
- buy a plug in dildo and give up on having a sex life. dont bring these strange nikkas around your children