What causes men to be Simps?

[Diondon]

You can't simp your lady. Someone who has proven she's down with you and earned the right.
Simping basically is doing the most for someone that don't fukk with you like that.
As to how they're created, there has to be balance in the force

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Men are visual creatures by nature. We see a beautiful woman and they usually have our full attention and desire. We do what we can to try and seal the deal with her. When you want a dog to like you, don't you pet it and give it treats? What makes this so hard with women is that they defy logic and are backwards as hell. Being nice and friendly with them only makes them desire you less. Truthfully most of these men aren't "simps" they're just regular fukking human beings. They're using their logic to deal with something illogical. Women are illogical irrational creatures by nature.

Men desire sex, women desire attention. However men aren't as picky about getting sex as women are about getting attention. Women want attention from the ones that give it out the least cuz it feels more special than from the guy cat calling every single chick walking down the block. They want attention from a high value male or someone who's time and attention is limited. She wants it from someone who makes her work for it. Simps don't make women work for their attention. Simps are working to get her attention. Simps don't put themselves in the drivers seat which is why they fail 99% of the time. Simps have a mindset that the woman is the prize, when the reality is HE'S the prize and she should be the one lucky to have him. But feminism and equality and all this other bullshyt has destroyed a lot of our natural biological instincts and frame of mind.

This.

And watching Disney animation sure didn’t help.

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

I always thought a simp is the end result of a lack of understanding women

A simp is someone that was never properly shown how to cultivate a relationship or care how their partner percieves the same situation. So the simps reason to be is what he sees happen around him or in media.

It unfortunate brehs .

 

[Brock Landers]

Lack of self respect If you don't respect yourself, nobody else is going to do it for you and they surely aren't going to respect someone who constantly kisses their ass

 

[010101]

part nature part nurture

some cats aren't built to pull females so they gotta do the extras

99.9% of people will be raised off that disney.fairytale fake.love

combine those two factors you got a readymade sucker.simptastic

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[010101]

how your brain is wired is major

i might just be wired to be extra cold

the way you might be wired to be an extra friendly lapdog

some folks you can't steer wrong some you can't steer right

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[PhonZhi]

Gotta define "simp/simping" first.

Let the coli tell it, merely opening the door for a random woman is simping.

Let the coli tell it, giving a random woman a small compliment is simping.

The main answer is lack of options.

Lack of options creates simps and simp behaviour

When you have little to no options its harder to say no or kick a chick to the curb.

When you have little to no options you'll find yourself doing anything to keep her around and/or modifying your own personality/behavior in an attempt so as to not turn her away.

When you have options you don't give a fukk.

When you have options its easy to kick a chick to the curb.


Peace.

 

[Carlton Banks]

We live in a society that is anti-family, we consume entertainment that is anti-family, anti-women and generally anti-Black. Just because we're conditioned to live in ways that go against nature doesn't mean that we're not biologically hard wired to behave in certain ways.

I would say that society is the opposite of everything you just said. Everything is pro family, pro women.. At least in America. Anti black is still true though. A man can't be the president if he doesn't have a perceived "loving family." Family men and married men are seen as desirable to women, jobs, and people in general. Women get a lot of societal benefits just by being women. Guys get more p*ssy thrown at them just by being married. Women get dates, free meals, free vacations, rides, etc just by being attractive women. But I understand what you're saying to a degree. The only entertainment that really makes men anti family and anti women is hip-hop, but that's a whole other topic.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

wanting and lusting taking over common sense

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

To me a simp is someone who persists in inconveniencing themselves for a guy or a girl whose actions CLEARLY show they ain't feeling you like that.

You can't buy affection or earn love. That's one of the most frustrating aspects of relationships. Somebody either feels you or they don't. Even billionaires go thru this.

To me it's a painful thing to watch. B/c you see one human being giving everything to somebody who doesn't even care if they breathing the next minute.
I've seen it happen with dudes on some Bruno Mars shyt where they would give up their entire life and integrity and happiness to get with a chick who would readily give themselves completely to a dude who didn't work half as hard as them. Why? B/c she was into the other dude.

I've seen it happen with females playing side chick games. Cooking for dudes and buying them shoes or helping them get jobs and taking care of their kids only to watch them marry chicks who literally treat the dude they was worshipping like trash. Why b/c he was into the other chick.

I just don't know how people do it unless your a masochist.

 

[Vilify]

Are simps keeping you from getting the woman of your dreams? I don't understand the disdain.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Id say your dad not teaching you the game is a major part

 

[MrBillCollecta]

Separation Anxiety

 

[bigdaddy88]

Its the natural thing to think that been nice and pleasing to a woman its the way to go..until your first heartbreak, u learn that females aint all sugar and nice the chicks can be cutthroat IF YOU DONT GOT UR MACKING BOOTS ON.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

dad's pimp game being moist

Or dad not properly giving game


My pops always bagged hoes easily....didn't share the game and I had to learn the hard way..didn't bag my first broad with my game until I was 26..used to just fukk escorts prior