When you're young, the older women in your life treat their affection and attention as prizes that you have to work for and jump through hoops to get.
So whenever you see a girl/woman that you want to be close to, you instinctively jump through hoops and work for her affection and attention.
Notice that when a "simp" DOES actually get with a chick or gets married, she's a bitter human being. Angry, manipulative, spiteful, deceitful, may be abusive, may have actual full blown mental problems.
That's because that's the only kind of woman a "simp" is comfortable with. The worse they get treated, the more they "work".
It's all theyre used to.
Signed, a former "simp".