What does a submissive woman do for her alpha man in a romantic dynamic?

[Hazel Brown]

does manipluation sound like a loving good time to you? lol, and what stuff. other than dikk i am not sure what i need a man to give me. but i get most women need "stuff". i'm on some other shyt

I don’t consider it manipulation either. Love, protection, resources.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I don’t think he means control in that literal sense. He means more like using your femininity and charm to get stuff from your man.

It's sad that women have been convinced that using their feminine wiles that are God given is negative.

This is the problem with the world today. Women are out here denying their God given charms that are given to them for a reason and trying to instead compete with men. And we wonder why the world is messed up and why most relationships are trash.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

does manipluation sound like a loving good time to you? lol, and what stuff. other than dikk and respect and loyalty, i am not sure what i need a man to give me. if i can't just get that on gp, then i don't think i would even want it. but i get most women need "stuff". i'm on some other shyt

And this is the problem. You feel you don't even need a man except for sex. And I bet if I pressed you hard enough, you'd say you don't even need him for that.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I don’t consider it manipulation either. Love, protection, resources.

yeah it's different dynamics for different people. i'm thinking more of michelle and barack, or fictionally, bill and claire. lol, michelle was a mentor to barack, seriously doubt he ever thought "does she fold my clothes without asking" . they were too focused on getting REAL shyt done.

different people are charmed by different things. it seems like a lot of men don't want a woman that doesn't need fake guidance.

 

[cauliflower]

I hope she's getting a lot in return because imagine doing this for cam newton, a toxic man with like 20 kids who's obviously has no intent to marry her . she'll be dogged out and crying about how dysfunctional her relationship is sooner than later and everyone online can say "I told you so" .




According to this clip someone on twitter found she does have a lick of sense. She just needs to tap back into it, because baby this is not it, too many men are comfortable embarrassing the women in their life and "being different from the rest" doesn't make you any different to men, you're still supseptible to humiliation.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

And this is the problem. You feel you don't even need a man except for sex. And I bet if I pressed you hard enough, you'd say you don't even need him for that.

so let's take "protection" for example. i'm in my thirties and came this far without an extra layer of protection. and have a dad and brothers who have even protected me from boyfriends who raised their tone too high at me. so no i am not sure why i need a man for protection. so if i don't charm my bf is he supposed to let someone rob me, beat me up? i don't see how that makes sense to anybody. i'm the type that would even protect a man from that if i could lol. because it's not a gender or sexual relationship benefit thing. it's a normal well-adjusted human being thing

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

so let's take "protection" for example. i'm in my thirties and came this far without an extra layer of protection. and have a dad and brothers who have even protected me from boyfriends who raised their tone too high at me. so no i am not sure why i need a man for protection. so if i don't charm my bf is he supposed to let someone rob me, beat me up? i don't see how that makes sense to anybody. i'm the type that would even protect a man from that if i could lol. because it's not a gender or sexual relationship benefit thing. it's a normal well-adjusted human being thing

Since you feel you don't need a man for anything, don't be surprised when a man leaves you to go where he is needed.


I can tell from your posts that you are hell on wheels. And you want a man to be there while you are simultaneously holding the attitude of "he can leave or he can stay, I dont need him".

And then y'all be wondering why you're lonely outchea in these streets or why men ain't committing to yall.

And I mean this with all love and respect, not trying to call you out specifically as you aint the only woman here who feels this way. But where does it stop? Somebody gotta tell y'all the truth.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I hope she's getting a lot in return because imagine doing this for cam newton, a toxic man with like 20 kids who's obviously has no intent to marry her . she'll be dogged out and crying about how dysfunctional her relationship is sooner than later and everyone online can say "I told you so" . According to this clip someone on twitter found she does have a lick of sense. She just needs to tap back into it, because baby this is not it, too many men are comfortable embarrassing the women in their life and "being different from the rest" doesn't make you any different to men, you're still supseptible to humiliation.

hey some people just live for the moment. if she is doing all that and getting the photo ops she wants, then maybe its an equal exchange for her

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Since you feel you don't need a man for anything, don't be surprised when a man leaves you to go where he is needed.


I can tell from your posts that you are hell on wheels. And you want a man to be there while you are simultaneously holding the attitude of "he can leave or he can stay, I dont need him".

And then y'all be wondering why you're lonely outchea in these streets or why men ain't committing to yall.

And I mean this with all love and respect, not trying to call you out specifically as you aint the only woman here who feels this way. But where does it stop? Somebody gotta tell y'all the truth.

so you have no logical response to the example i gave. just thinking you know me and trying to characterize me as usual. if you haven't notice by now, idc what you think you see that you are always taggin me, not the other way around.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

so you have no logical response to the example i gave. just thinking you know me and trying to characterize me as usual. if you haven't notice by now, idc what you think you see that you are always taggin me, not the other way around.

I know your type. Yall are everywhere sadly.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I know your type. Yall are everywhere sadly.

yet you keep taggin me, sadly we aren't forcing ourselves on you lol. go get your helpmate, feel free! there's plenty of them too! there's enough of every type of here for everybody

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

so let's take "protection" for example. i'm in my thirties and came this far without an extra layer of protection. and have a dad and brothers who have even protected me from boyfriends who raised their tone too high at me. so no i am not sure why i need a man for protection. so if i don't charm my bf is he supposed to let someone rob me, beat me up? i don't see how that makes sense to anybody. i'm the type that would even protect a man from that if i could lol. because it's not a gender or sexual relationship benefit thing. it's a normal well-adjusted human being thing

When men say protection, its sad that you think we only mean physical protection.

You ever seen the movie Avatar? There's a part in there where the native shaman tells Jake Sully, "we will try to cure you of your insanity".

He didn't know what she meant cause he was just a regular dude. But she meant that his complete thought process and mental framing of the world was wrong.

That's what you remind me of. You're disagreeing with me when you don't even understand what I'm saying. Protection goes to physical protection, to mental protection, to situational protection. Protection isn't just physically protecting you from someone trying to put hands on you. You don't understand what a man is supposed to do for you because no one ever taught you.

It's sad. But this is what feminism in our society has led us to.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Does she have a man or a toddler?

shyt is so damn goofy. I guess this is what happens when people are raised in single parent households. They don’t have realistic models for marriage.

My moms is a homemaker. My dad provides. They’ve been married for 50 years. She’s never done any of that goofy shyt like rub my Dad’s back till he falls asleep.

People need to be realistic.

She’s in. Relationship with cam Newton. I think most pro athletes wife’s/girls are like this probably. They work out all day and any women who is with them will have to fall into they lifestyle or wit won’t work

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

When men say protection, its sad that you think we only mean physical protection.

You ever seen the movie Avatar? There's a part in there where the native shaman tells Jake Sully, "we will try to cure you of your insanity".

He didn't know what she meant cause he was just a regular dude. But she meant that his complete thought process and mental framing of the world was wrong.

That's what you remind me of. You're disagreeing with me when you don't even understand what I'm saying. Protection goes to physical protection, to mental protection, to situational protection. Protection isn't just physically protecting you from someone trying to put hands on you. You don't understand what a man is supposed to do for you because no one ever taught you.

It's sad. But this is what feminism in our society has led us to.

if i didn't understand it's because you didn't write it silly. i'm not a mind reader, forgive me... but when most people say protection, they mean physical. but now that you have actually used you words... i would do those things you mentioned for a person i cared about even if we weren't in a physical relationship. i don't use empathy and common courtesy as a sexual trade-off lol

it seems like you are so used to having to bribe a person into loving you. poor thing

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

if i didn't understand it's because you didn't write it silly. i'm not a mind reader, forgive me... but when most people say protection, they mean physical. but now that you have actually used you words... i would do those things you mentioned for a person i cared about even if we weren't in a physical relationship. i don't use empathy and common courtesy as a sexual trade-off lol

it seems like you are so used to having to bribe a person into loving you. poor thing

Here's what I was taught about relationships. Put the other person first. I as a man should put her first. She as a woman should put me first. If we're putting each other first, then we're both taking care of one another's needs.

Watch, you will probably have a problem with that too, right? That's bribery to you, right?