What does a submissive woman do for her alpha man in a romantic dynamic?

Coco Loco

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How do people watch this shyt? You can't just find someone you get along with? Does everything need to be a shytty podcast :why:


Thank you. They're making it way more complicated than it is. It's about compatibility. People know when they're not compatible but try to force it to be with a particular person. No matter how attractive they are or how much they want to be with that person if the compatibility isn't there it's doomed.
 

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Another nikka raised by a single mother :mjlol:





Femininity ain’t something you can just switch on and off
Definitely can’t switch it off, but you can use discernment and common sense and choose the right kind of man to do those things for.

Same way a man would be a fool to actually provide (rent/mortgage, utilities, etc) for every “girlfriend” he has, a woman would be a fool to do all the stuff she listed for a bunch of boyfriends.

Doing great things for your spouse is awesome and you both should be reciprocating to keep things flowing properly.
 

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Starting to get tired of this submissive, alpha, king, queen, etc stuff...

Everyone isn't one of these things..its like people hear something and just call theirselves that....

Most people I've met that claim that they're "alpha" were just people that either were controlling, mean spirited, attention seeking or all three and they always announce that they're alpha or whatever label they want to give theirself.


Its just a bunch of arrogance for a lot of people...humility has gone by the wayside
 

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Starting to get tired of this submissive, alpha, king, queen, etc stuff...

Everyone isn't one of these things..its like people hear something and just call theirselves that....

Most people I've met that aim that they're "alpha" were just people that either were controlling, mean spirited, attention seeking or all three and they always announce that they're alpha or whatever label they want to give theirself.


Its just a bunch of arrogance for a lot of people...humility has gone by the wayside and its sad
Right, and people who fit into these categories rarely have to label themselves or discuss it. They just are ARE.....The biggest clue of those who are posing is the constant obsession and discussion about it. When you are something, you don't have to try to be it, ask people for rules about what it looks like, or search for the people that are attracted to the thing you are.
 

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Right, and people who fit into these categories rarely have to label themselves or discuss it. They just are ARE.....The biggest clue of those who are posing is the constant obsession and discussion about it. When you are something, you don't have to try to be it, ask people for rules about what it looks like, or search for the people that are attracted to the thing you are.

Big facts :salute:
 

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Right, and people who fit into these categories rarely have to label themselves or discuss it. They just are ARE.....The biggest clue of those who are posing is the constant obsession and discussion about it. When you are something, you don't have to try to be it, ask people for rules about what it looks like, or search for the people that are attracted to the thing you are.
 

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I'm not about to treat my husband like he popped out my p*ssy. He takes care of me the way a husband should and I take care of him the way a wife should. Neither of us believe in that submission shyt. I wouldn't even talk to a man who wants to be submitted to. That is slave shyt. Straight up.
 

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Because my dad is a grown man who doesn’t need to be rocked go sleep like a damn toddler. :heh:

Does she read this nikka a bedtime story too?

Some of y’all are looking for mothers not wives.
So I guess your dad never gave your mom a foot massage or ran his fingers through her hair or no shyt like that just outta love? What type of weird ass relationship is that where your own father can't lie in the bosom of his wife and the mother of his children and not get rocked to sleep especially if he is paying all the bills like you say. But maybe that's the type of relationship your pops likes all power to him I just wouldn't be bragging about it
 

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Definitely can’t switch it off, but you can use discernment and common sense and choose the right kind of man to do those things for.

Same way a man would be a fool to actually provide (rent/mortgage, utilities, etc) for every “girlfriend” he has, a woman would be a fool to do all the stuff she listed for a bunch of boyfriends.

Doing great things for your spouse is awesome and you both should be reciprocating to keep things flowing properly.
I tried to tell them but people gonna hear what they want to hear

Most of my exes have done this for me without me asking. But that’s only because it came from reciprocating what I put in. But if u hit certain key points then this is actually pretty normal.

If you find a good woman and you treat her real good aka pay attention, teach her things, lead her to new experiences, cook good food, good sex, have her trust and make her feel safe

She will be dying to return the favor in dividends. But that’s if she’s a good woman

Ah but what do I know? Simps gon simp
 
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