What does a submissive woman do for her alpha man in a romantic dynamic?

[Ashley Banks]

Does she have a man or a toddler?

shyt is so damn goofy. I guess this is what happens when people are raised in single parent households. They don’t have realistic models for marriage.

My moms is a homemaker. My dad provides. They’ve been married for 50 years. She’s never done any of that goofy shyt like rub my Dad’s back till he falls asleep.

People need to be realistic.

I rub my mans back until he falls asleep. It’s therapeutic for both of us.

 

[Peter Popoff]

Yea, I'm never letting my girl go or cheating on her.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

i don't even see how i can rub my bf back til he sleep. we don't usually sleep with backs to each other. i be rubbing his chest/abs or his dikk

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Men unworthy of respect often articulate the desire for it the most.

If submission is even in the conversation, it’s a red flag. These are dudes who struggle with unresolved mommy and daddy issues, are on power trips, and looking for someone to control instead of build with.

Reciprocity meaning ya’ll “submit” (heavy eye roll b/c internet losers have worn the damn word out with their personality disorders) to each other—that’s what should be the catch phrase on a man and a woman’s tongue. Because relationships aren’t opportunities to control or rule over or subjugate somebody the way the dudes bytching about submission have in mind. They are partnerships based on compromise and personal growth and a melding of paths together as friends and lovers.

Shock! Gasp! Imagine that.
Some of these jokers would be INSUFFERABLE to be married to. Egos so damn fragile. Mental illness through the roof.

 

[MajesticLion]

Reciprocity meaning ya’ll “submit” (heavy eye roll b/c internet losers have worn the damn word out with their personality disorders) to each other—that’s what should be the catch phrase on a man and a woman’s tongue. Because relationships aren’t opportunities to control or rule over or subjugate somebody the way the dudes bytching about submission have in mind. They are partnerships based on compromise and personal growth and a melding of paths together as friends and lovers.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

@Hazel Brown

 

[Koli_Kat]

There is where we're at in society

If a woman talks about treating her man nicely , people are in an uproar

"Did he give you a ring"
"Do he provide"
"Girl that's tew much "

Good luck single brehs , you nikkas are fukked

 

[Hazel Brown]

@Hazel Brown

My love language is acts of service and naturally I'm a simp & a submissive person anyway.

But this girl is a bit too extreme. Rubbing his back till he falls asleep reminds me of how I would rub my younger siblings back till they burped so they can fall asleep when they were babies. I want a man not a baby.


All that nonsense about super powers, I hope is just metaphorical cos it sounds goofy I'm sorry.

Overall I agree with the premise of the message but the delivery and examples used are off.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I rub my mans back until he falls asleep. It’s therapeutic for both of us.

My love language is acts of service and naturally I'm a simp & a submissive person anyway.

But this girl is a bit too extreme. Rubbing his back till he falls asleep reminds me of how I would rub my younger siblings back till they burped so they can fall asleep when they were babies. I want a man not a baby.


All that nonsense about super powers, I hope is just metaphorical cos it sounds goofy I'm sorry.

Overall I agree with the premise of the message but the delivery and examples used are off.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I've always believed submissive women like her belong to generous men. "Giving" people with good intentions always meet. If she's taking care of him like a child then I'm sure he's doing the same albeit financially. This dynamic takes work.

The lazy, stingy or manipulative won't find love like this.

I wish they always met

Honestly I just want peace now. However that comes

 

[Hazel Brown]

Neither of us know how to fight lmao you shyt stirrer

It’s just the way the girl said it in the video, it sounded like mother and son.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Also another thing that happens is a chick that will do some of that but throw it back in your face…

If thats the case, don’t do it because I didn’t ask

 

[DON MA MA]

I wish they always met

Honestly I just want peace now. However that comes

When you recognize your own qualities in others you're choosing right. But i feel u.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Also another thing that happens is a chick that will do some of that but throw it back in your face…

If thats the case, don’t do it because I didnfor real?

I think the thing that I like about what the chic is saying is not the action, but the intent behind them.

A woman making you feel like you're her world. And I know I know, we don't want women whose identity is built around us. I'm the main one who says that, I practically invented that talking point.

But with that being said, I think a lot of us brothas miss out on that great feeling of a woman who loves us so much that she will do anything for us even to the detriment of herself.

And yes that's a dangerous position for a woman to put herself in. If she puts herself in that position for the wrong man, she will literally wind up being used and abused.

But imagine, just imagine, if you meet a woman who is willing to do anything for you and you're willing to do anything for her (within reason of course)... I can only imagine that that is an extremely beautiful relationship.

 

[Sex Luthor]

As long as a woman respects me, loves me and want's to help me be my best self I am satisfied. I feel like alot of coli breh's want the barefoot in the kitchen cook, clean type chick but I never saw the appeal. I could never feel truly attracted to someone that I felt wasn't my equal or didn't have an identify outside of being my "girl" . The most attractive thing to me is when you find someone who is independent but chooses to be with you and create something greater together.

I think some people (not you in particular) are too selfish to realize that some women just want this. They want to take care of their man and have their man provide and protect them.

Some men are thinking "I don't want her to do that for me" when she's not doing it only for you. She may have a nurturing caring and giving soul. That fulfulls some women as much as anything else. Majority of men take advantage of that too