What does a submissive woman do for her alpha man in a romantic dynamic?

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I think some people (not you in particular) are too selfish to realize that some women just want this. They want to take care of their man and have their man provide and protect them.

Some men are thinking "I don't want her to do that for me" when she's not doing it only for you. She may have a nurturing caring and giving soul. That fulfulls some women as much as anything else. Majority of men take advantage of that too

Yep. And these dudes who say they don't want that are extremely short sighted. The same dudes who are always complaining about women's flightiness and hypergamy tendencies... then when they meet a woman who will do anything for them, they turn their nose up at her while running behind shiftless, trifling, hoes who do them dirty and then they come back crying and upset. I used to be stupid like that. I would say I didn't want a woman to do all of this for me cause I didn't need all this and I would feel she was a pushover.

Experience however has taught me that if you run into a woman like this, you better ride that train till the wheels fall off. And if she loves you this strongly, love on her and cherish her cause shes a unicorn in a world full of contaminated whores.

 

[Sex Luthor]

Yep. And these dudes who say they don't want that are extremely short sighted. The same dudes who are always complaining about women's flightiness and hypergamy tendencies... then when they meet a woman who will do anything for them, they turn their nose up at her while running behind shiftless, trifling, hoes who do them dirty and then they come back crying and upset. I used to be stupid like that. I would say I didn't want a woman to do all of this for me cause I didn't need all this and I would feel she was a pushover.

Experience however has taught me that if you run into a woman like this, you better ride that train till the wheels fall off. And if she loves you this strongly, love on her and cherish her cause shes a unicorn in a world full of contaminated whores.

Young dudes don't know about this bc it's a forgotten part of relationships. It's a "traditional" relationship thing. Some people want to be so different they let go of useful things.

Like how women don't want to cook for men anymore. Not saying they have to but to completely stop just bc Twitter told them that they should is stupid. If it helps your relationship then do that.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Young dudes don't know about this bc it's a forgotten part of relationships. It's a "traditional" relationship thing. Some people want to be so different they let go of useful things.

Like how women don't want to cook for men anymore. Not saying they have to but to completely stop just bc Twitter told them that they should is stupid. If it helps your relationship then do that.

Yeah, but obviously something was lost cause look how many toxic relationships are out there. Its cause we're missing these traditional things that are necessary to us. Like ole boy said, we losing recipes outchea.

If I had a woman doing all the things for me that ole girl is talking about in that video, she would have me hooked for life. And again it ain't cause of the actions themselves necessarily. It's cause of the intent behind the actions.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

There is where we're at in society

If a woman talks about treating her man nicely , people are in a uproar

"Did he give you a ring"
"Do he provide"
"Girl that's tew much "

Good luck single brehs , you nikkas are fukked

Yep! You see it, brehs. To let @Booksnrain tell it, ain't not a one of us trifling negroes worthy of this kind of love and affection.

I feel bad for brehs out here still looking, cause it's rough in these streets.

 

[Huda2daf]

I can tell a lot of ppl in this thread never been in a relationship where the person reallllllyy fukked with them.

 

[Huda2daf]

There is where we're at in society

If a woman talks about treating her man nicely , people are in a uproar

"Did he give you a ring"
"Do he provide"
"Girl that's tew much "

Good luck single brehs , you nikkas are fukked

This here is how it is.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

As she's supposed to...

I'm Gladiator, Alexander, I am the herald to the gods. Samson reborn, I carry with me the weight of the world on shoulders blistered by the sun and shredded by the vines of treacherous harpies who would see me falter. Very few are even of my bloodline, let alone strength. A woman should only recognize and adapt to maintaining my spears, preparing my food, and feeling my sword inside her sheath whenever I feel the need.

This is the way.

This nicca spittin.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I think the thing that I like about what the chic is saying is not the action, but the intent behind them.

A woman making you feel like you're her world. And I know I know, we don't want women whose identity is built around us. I'm the main one who says that, I practically invented that talking point.

But with that being said, I think a lot of us brothas miss out on that great feeling of a woman who loves us so much that she will do anything for us even to the detriment of herself.

And yes that's a dangerous position for a woman to put herself in. If she puts herself in that position for the wrong man, she will literally wind up being used and abused.

But imagine, just imagine, if you meet a woman who is willing to do anything for you and you're willing to do anything for her (within reason of course)... I can only imagine that that is an extremely beautiful relationship.

What would be her detriment?

I’m not going to tell/let a woman do something that is gonna hurt her. My thing is, I’ve been in a relationship with a woman who lets say, iron my clothes before work. I appreciate it and would do things she would like or ask for too

I wasn’t perfect but like I said, if you keeping tabs and throwing it back in my face then don’t do it. Some WILL do that but act as if nothing is wrong with it

 

[Sex Luthor]

I can tell a lot of ppl in this thread never been in a relationship where the person reallllllyy fukked with them.

It's kinda sad tbh. They let the internet tell them how to feel and react to things bc they never experienced it before

 

[010101]

i don't wanna give you the wrong impression i need love & affection..........*

 

[Jay Kast]

This is how my girlfriend was.

Rub the temples of my head during a migraine.

Gave me back massages because apparently I have an 80 yr old body.

Prep/cook food for me for the whole week for work.

Always told me how proud she was of me even when I felt like it was some regular shyt I did.

Just made me want to be the best version of me I could possibly be, and I was - for her. I did everything for her.

Wanted to marry that woman.

 

[LadyJ2]

I finally watched this and

I loved what she said about being in his head and anticipating his needs. Sooooo accurate.

I don’t think what she said was a big deal at all. The rubbing the back thing is fine. My husband loves to have his knees rubbed because he has knee issues. I may rub them while we’re watching tv or while he’s driving. It only takes 10-15 minutes and it feels good to him.

I know if he has back to back meetings he won’t eat so I make sure he does by either packing up leftovers from the night before or ordering food for him.

He packs last minute so I know to pack first so we aren’t butting heads in the closet while trying to leave. Simple stuff.

He does the same for me he just doesn’t make a big deal about it.

Y’all need to be with people who really like you and fukk with you. Sad so many people are actually married to folks who don’t like them like that.

Women - you need to truly DESIRE your man not just like how he makes you feel. If your feelings are hot/cold or luke warm or if you put your career ahead of him he is not the one for you.

 

[DaPresident]

How/why does EVERY podcast talk about the same topics?

Black folk know we love some damn relationship talk…I guess bc it allows people to flex in big and small ways. You can humble brag or just brag brag, and it all fits into the discussion.

Plus, people just nosey, and relationship talk is discussion that won’t EVER die. Are you submissive, or not? Is your man an alpha? Are YOU the alpha? Who pays for dates? Who goes on the dates? How many kids do can you have before you’re undateable? Should you pay a bill? All of them? What does he get for paying bills? Is paying bills submissive? Alpha?

It’s all an echo chamber at this point. Like some said in here, find you somebody that rock with you and treat them right. Y’all looking to the internet and memes for relationship advice

 

[NobodyReally]

How/why does EVERY podcast talk about the same topics?

Black folk know we love some damn relationship talk…I guess bc it allows people to flex in big and small ways. You can humble brag or just brag brag, and it all fits into the discussion.

Plus, people just nosey, and relationship talk is discussion that won’t EVER die. Are you submissive, or not? Is your man an alpha? Are YOU the alpha? Who pays for dates? Who goes on the dates? How many kids do can you have before you’re undateable? Should you pay a bill? All of them? What does he get for paying bills? Is paying bills submissive? Alpha?

It’s all an echo chamber at this point. Like some said in here, find you somebody that rock with you and treat them right. Y’all looking to the internet and memes for relationship advice

It's so tiring. I'm digging some of these new podcasts that are branching out.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

I think she’s lying. Just go on her Instagram and watch her videos and tell me if you think that’s the same girl…