What does "spoiled" mean to you?

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TreySav said:
You probably should have worded it better, Breh. I consider being spoiled to be attitude like daddy’s little princess syndrome, getting ran like a race track, brat mentality, or just straight toxic feminine behavior.

By the way man, when you said she’s going to leave, did you mean for good or just to cool off?

If she’s threatening to leave for good over something this minuscule, you probably have larger issues in the background to look out for :ufdup:
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Nah she just off to her mom's house...
 
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Pick your words better.

Calling someone spoiled can be a loaded comment. In your situation, it appears to be that way, like you resent how easy things were for her.

You could have just said she was fortunate and got on with your day.
 
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naw breh you did the right thing you are a man. I told my ex wife she was spoiled and got a fukk up view on life. somebody has to tell them the truth
 
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Umoja said:
Pick your words better.

Calling someone spoiled can be a loaded comment. In your situation, it appears to be that way, like you resent how easy things were for her.

You could have just said she was fortunate and got on with your day.
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facts

its all wording

nobody wants to be told to their face they don’t deserve what they have

the connotation behind spoiled in the modern day is entirely negative

its the difference in saying you've had blessings coming up versus you've had life done for you

true or not its not something most people can stomach
 
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she's privileged and maybe sheltered. not spoiled. this is why using words correctly matters.

calling her spoiled is like me calling you spoiled for having access to 24/7 electricity, clean water, and a job.

you just happened to be born into a rich country that provides you all of those things to take advantage of.

spoiled means you receive things in excess of what is required. spoiled is her never having to work, period. spoiled is her having a surrogate carry her child.
 
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Umoja said:
Pick your words better.

Calling someone spoiled can be a loaded comment. In your situation, it appears to be that way, like you resent how easy things were for her.

You could have just said she was fortunate and got on with your day.
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This.

And you mentioned that you didn't mean it in a derogatory way...Man....I don't think calling any adult spoiled could be taken any other way.

Imo
 
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