What exactly is wrong with being friendly?

[Turk]

I regularly hear this sentiment raised by women and men: "I can't stand friendly nikkas" "I need me a nikka who aint friendly"

is wrong with being friendly?

 

[ignorethis]

They believe friendly men are more likely to be approached by other women and engage other women.

They want to be the only woman their man interacts with.

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

 

[Freedman]

Usually when people say that they mean you entertain people of the opposite gender. Like if your girl is friendly when a dude is hollering at her she gonna smile at him, let him run his game , take his number , you probably gonna share that girl, etc as where an unfriendly girl gonna look at him crazy and be like I have a boyfriend and vice versa with dudes

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Nothing at all, as long as it's genuine.
I used to be very friendly. Fate moved me to unfriendly places, and I've had to be much more selective in who I display that trait to. Discernment is key.

 

[Elfuego]

All bytches are different. Some want a calm friendly simp, some want a hood Nikka, Ciara wants both. But nobody wants @IbucciMane! Lame goofy virgin ass

 

[WesCrook]

She knew you were friendly from the jump (which attracted her too), now she's trying to change who you are as a person.

This is nothing more than control.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Im always friendly. what do people want others to be mean and then complain about that?

I always try to leave an impression that lasts. I don't think anybody complained about me being friendly...

 

[Omar Little]

Most times it comes off as Creepy

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

All bytches are different. Some want a calm friendly simp, some want a hood Nikka, Ciara wants both. But nobody wants @IbucciMane! Lame goofy virgin ass

 

[Trajan]

Nothing at all, as long as it's genuine.
I used to be very friendly. Fate moved me to unfriendly places, and I've had to be much more selective in who I display that trait to. Discernment is key.

 

[timeless]

Nothing if that's just your character. I guess some people think your being fake or you want something.

Fake friendly is the oldest trick in the book.

Friendly just because you are...truly rare to come by, and life changing in the long run.

 

[8WON6]

Some people just like chaos, bullshyt, and drama.

 

[Eddie_1100]

Ah yes, just another symptom of the disease that is white supremacy.

Nothing wrong with being friendly.



Where I'm from being called friendly is basically saying you're soft.

 

[GreenGhxst]

Nothing wrong with being yourself, but everybody thinks their fukkin nino brown these days