What has been the hardest event/time of your life?

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I learned that time to never do business with family unless you can lose what you have invested without it hurting you or coming back to hurt you.
That's something I've learned for anyone that needs to borrow money. I've lent out so much. Gotten minimal back. Lesson: don't lend unless you're able, willing, and ready to never get it back.
 

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I learned that time to never do business with family unless you can lose what you have invested without it hurting you or coming back to hurt you.

My aunt owes me money...it's not the money it's the principle, especially since if she would have just asked I would have done it for free. But noooo she insisted to go through it like a normal customer.

See you at Thanksgiving Aunt C...
 

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It's depressing reading shyt like this but it's a good reminder for me to appreciate what I got. At least you guys came back out of the slump. It seems like the biggest part is not letting it compound once one thing happens and letting it snowball.
That was my intention creating it. I value every. single. moment. so much more than I did before. Also, looking for the light out of those body-numbing times... :wow: Just reading all of the stories. Thank you :salute:

And to the people that think this is not as important as...... a million things......... I think I was clear. We all have different circumstances. This is a message board geared for these thoughts. No one is comparing misfortunes.
 

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@Poitier Come back up in here and let out your feel breh

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What's bothering you so much that you're lashing out at the people in here sharing their most intimate life moments?

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Sharing your vulnerabilities could be the catalyst for healing your emotional wounds that you keep locked up so tight

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Wait a minute...

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:laff: Funniest post I've seen in a while
 

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The day that my daughter bodied her twin sibling in utero :to:

My dad not being around for my graduation (HS and College) :to:

my little bro knocking up some homely white chick :to: (might I add he knew he for less than a year and had just broken up with his HS GF that I really liked)
 

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:patrice: hm... either

first love died (along with some other friends), nobody gave a shyt and had nobody to talk to about it. Tried to OD on a bunch of pills, family left me laying in the bed for 3 days. dark ass time. Had to eat it and deal.

OR

Lost job, so-called best friend broke the lease and bounced leaving me 1,200 in the hole, other so-called friends decided they couldn't help all of the sudden and started pretty much shunning me and ignoring my calls and visits after I had taken them in and helped their asses plenty of times, girlfriend decided I couldn't stay with her after she had showed up on my doorstep with a 6 month old after her folks put her out on the street years prior and I took them in and worked two jobs to support they asses. Wound up moving back to Da Souf.

Its a sobering experience learning just how much people actually care about you.


edit: :heh: THEN she dumped me and married married somebody else after I hit rock bottom! Thank you for the support! fukk all y'all! :laff:
 
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