What has been the hardest event/time of your life?
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SiickCurllyGurl
Sophomore
College Freshman with mental/emotional issues...
nikkas bout togood.
I'm stable enough to know what's going on.
Exiled Martian
Was young I couldn't do good, now I can't do Bad
Good to know as those unstable 'whore-mones' can make female so hoemotional sometimes...
what school are you at ?
SiickCurllyGurl
Sophomore
Nope i don't get thoseGood to know as those unstable 'whore-mones' can make female so hoemotional sometimes...
State.
spent only 2 semesters there
thats wassup.. shyt will workout tho.. always does
for me it was last year..physically, financially, professionally, and emotionally i was hit
physically - i was having serious problems with my neck along with other injuries (back, wrist)...my going hard in the gym and working out even when injured for years caught up to me..even toning it down wasnt alleviating my aches and pains and i gained weight and lost the conditioning...lookin all
and shyt in my pics..put one of those pics in the starting point thread
financially - i had to pay out of pocket to get my neck fixed..in the amount of 4,500+ bucks just for the treatment...plus had other bills and shyt to pay..was not happy considering i had health insurance but chiro services arent covered..even putting it on my taxes didnt do anything for me to get that money back considering i was making in the high 60's
professionally - as i mentioned i made what ppl would consider good money..but i took heaps and heaps of mental abuse almost every day from clients and also CEO blaming us in company meetings..i hadnt had a raise in almost 2 years....there was no place for me to be moved to from my position..my manager and i didnt really get along professionally...i nearly got fired for multiple client complaints against me (basically when i gave some of my rude clients a taste of their medicine)..i was leaving that place wound up every night..no good for your health
emotionally - when my ex died..our lone common friend broke the news to me a day after she passed....me and my ex hadnt communicated since dec, 2010..my fb inbox holds our last convo and we weren't even fb friends...it wasn't a sudden death..she had been sick for a min..even then i never knew cuz we werent talking..it threw me in a weird state internally...pretty much RIP's every day on fb posts and tweets...until i went to the funeral 6 days later..when i walked in and saw her lying in state like that..i lost it completely...crying for like 10 mins...calming down..casket getting wheeled past me at the end of the service..i touch it..started crying again..went to the burial..saw her tombstone..lost it again....casket being lowered..crying again..it doesnt help where she was buried its around places me and her use to go to..it took me a good min to get over that..i still havent visited her gravesite though
physically - i was having serious problems with my neck along with other injuries (back, wrist)...my going hard in the gym and working out even when injured for years caught up to me..even toning it down wasnt alleviating my aches and pains and i gained weight and lost the conditioning...lookin all
and shyt in my pics..put one of those pics in the starting point threadfinancially - i had to pay out of pocket to get my neck fixed..in the amount of 4,500+ bucks just for the treatment...plus had other bills and shyt to pay..was not happy considering i had health insurance but chiro services arent covered..even putting it on my taxes didnt do anything for me to get that money back considering i was making in the high 60's
professionally - as i mentioned i made what ppl would consider good money..but i took heaps and heaps of mental abuse almost every day from clients and also CEO blaming us in company meetings..i hadnt had a raise in almost 2 years....there was no place for me to be moved to from my position..my manager and i didnt really get along professionally...i nearly got fired for multiple client complaints against me (basically when i gave some of my rude clients a taste of their medicine)..i was leaving that place wound up every night..no good for your health
emotionally - when my ex died..our lone common friend broke the news to me a day after she passed....me and my ex hadnt communicated since dec, 2010..my fb inbox holds our last convo and we weren't even fb friends...it wasn't a sudden death..she had been sick for a min..even then i never knew cuz we werent talking..it threw me in a weird state internally...pretty much RIP's every day on fb posts and tweets...until i went to the funeral 6 days later..when i walked in and saw her lying in state like that..i lost it completely...crying for like 10 mins...calming down..casket getting wheeled past me at the end of the service..i touch it..started crying again..went to the burial..saw her tombstone..lost it again....casket being lowered..crying again..it doesnt help where she was buried its around places me and her use to go to..it took me a good min to get over that..i still havent visited her gravesite though
Exiled Martian
Was young I couldn't do good, now I can't do Bad
On the topic of the thread....The Hardest life event to have scarred me was the passing of my beloved Grandad... it didn't hit home at the time as I was only young...but the next couple or so years after his demise were heart wrenching to say the least. The man practically raised me from 0 to aged 7 as my parents weren't about much (too busy working & I was the oldest/ first child) To this day I still go back to the fond memories that we had which have have slowly tapered off (I was only 7 & keep forgetting childhood memories) due to growing up... I make a point of visting his grave everytime I head back home & recently (well 2011) I paid for his gravesite to be fully refurnished i.e new cement/ bigger ceramic tombstone/ small solar lights & custom flowers etc... RIP
....its sad man I never understood this concept GOD had for taking Good people So Young (he passed aged 49 ).
To this day (for past 8 or so years) I always carry a pic of him wherever I go, people tell me he sort of looks like Obama
...I can honestly seek solace in death knowing one day we will be re-united 
....its sad man I never understood this concept GOD had for taking Good people So Young (he passed aged 49 ).To this day (for past 8 or so years) I always carry a pic of him wherever I go, people tell me he sort of looks like Obama
...I can honestly seek solace in death knowing one day we will be re-united
2007-2008 - had constant palpitations thought I was going to die, had to wear a heart monitor and all that. Also had a ulcer everything I ate was bugging me.
Was supposed to get married in 6 months as well but found out something and had to call it off, had family from Jamaica who already booked their hotels and airfares
, anyways I was pretty much lifeless for.a good 6-7 months, I ended up in like 30k debt, lost mad weight even though I was already skinny . Lost my friends, just went to work and came home .
Was supposed to get married in 6 months as well but found out something and had to call it off, had family from Jamaica who already booked their hotels and airfares
, anyways I was pretty much lifeless for.a good 6-7 months, I ended up in like 30k debt, lost mad weight even though I was already skinny . Lost my friends, just went to work and came home .
goat episode!@Poitier Come back up in here and let out your feel breh
What's bothering you so much that you're lashing out at the people in here sharing their most intimate life moments?
Sharing your vulnerabilities could be the catalyst for healing your emotional wounds that you keep locked up so tight
Wait a minute...
Breh.... I know I just got finished talking about one of my exes, but I am DREADING the thought of her dying and me having to go to the funeral. Having to face her daughter (the kid we raised together) cause I've barely spoken to her in 6 years.
having her husband looking at me like
Having her family and shyt giving me weird looks cause they all figured we'd always- at one point her mom asked her "what you gonna do about your husband? cause you and Jay is ALWAYS gonna be joined at the hip."
I KNOW I'm gonna be an emotional wreck. I hope I'm single when it happens, cause whomever I'm with really just ain't gonna understand.
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
2010 - Lost job and ALL of my worldly possessions (car, house, furniture, etc) and had to move my whole family in with my parents 
we have since recovered from that. but now...
2013 - this past friday, i got served with court papers ON MY DAMN DAY OFF
. Apparently, the lien holder of the car that got repo'd in 2010 (wells fargo auto finance) sold my default loan to a third party collection agency and they are lawsuit happy. so they are suing me for $11,300. i only owed $6,000 on the car when they took it, and it was only worth $14k when i bought it 
. talking about i have accrued interest since the repo. how do you accrue interest on an account that's dead?
so here we go again. more financial bullshyt that i have to deal with. AND court on top of it....
we have since recovered from that. but now...
2013 - this past friday, i got served with court papers ON MY DAMN DAY OFF
. Apparently, the lien holder of the car that got repo'd in 2010 (wells fargo auto finance) sold my default loan to a third party collection agency and they are lawsuit happy. so they are suing me for $11,300. i only owed $6,000 on the car when they took it, and it was only worth $14k when i bought it . talking about i have accrued interest since the repo. how do you accrue interest on an account that's dead?so here we go again. more financial bullshyt that i have to deal with. AND court on top of it....
Exiled Martian
Was young I couldn't do good, now I can't do Bad
2010 - Lost job and ALL of my worldly possessions (car, house, furniture, etc) and had to move my whole family in with my parents
we have since recovered from that. but now...
2013 - this past friday, i got served with court papers ON MY DAMN DAY OFF
so here we go again. more financial bullshyt that i have to deal with. AND court on top of it....
Better Call Saul Breh....
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
who?