What Have You Stopped Tolerating As You Age?

[Rocket Scientist]

No communication especially when it's urgent or business.

 

[Raw Lyrics]

Ive grown to not tolerate sitting around smoking blunts doing nothing. I smoke all day every day but I have no time to sit around with the homies bullshyttin. Id rather give you a blunt to go than smoke with you wasting time.

Ive grown to not feel the need to defend myself. If you dont understand me or what i do or how I live its not my problem. I speak plainly so I dont have to explain what i said. You just want a different answer.

Ive grown to not feel obligated to help those who dont help themselves. Ill meet you halfway. If you do nothing, neither will I. I used to be the pit bull of the crew, just point me in the direction to attack and id be locked on. Now that ive grown ive learned that you cant go harder for someone than they will go for themselves.

One thing I have learned to tolerate is most people are going to disappoint you. So i dont put expectations on people anymore, or try to push them to succeed. I simply accept them for who they are not who I think they can be or should be.

 

[Elle Driver]

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[ThatTruth777]

arguing

 

[Raw Lyrics]

Rudeness

Your quotes are

 

[puppetmaster]

People pleasing.

If I could tell my younger self that or ANY young breh is to get off that shyt EARLY.

 

[Grizzly]

I'm no longer in the business of trying to change the viewpoints of close-minded people. fukk you. Believe what you want. Can't understand how people go back and forth with racists.

If I detect an ounce of attitude in a person's voice I'm checkin' them on the spot. Sorry not sorry. This especially goes for people in the service industry.

I don't explain myself to anybody about anything because that automatically puts them in a position of power and most of the time people questioning you ain't shyt and just wanna be nosey.

Attention whore ass people... which is the main reason I don't take public transit. When I got my driver's license I never looked back. People do things for attention and I don't wanna end up on Worldstar for stomping somebody out or buck 50'ing them because they tried to impress their little friends.

Gossiping. If you try to gossip or talk down on someone to me I'm immediately changing the subject. If you don't catch on and try to keep it going then I'll just cut the convo short.

Giving game more than once. I don't hold shyt back especially from my own people so If I give you detailed step-by-step game on how to get money and you ask me again I'm just gonna say "I already told you what you need to do" and give you the vaguest answer possible. Only person I'll explain shyt more than once to is an elder.


I'm still in my 20s but I'm getting older and it's all about protecting my peace at this point.

 

[Raw Lyrics]

This 100%. I actually have mellowed out as I've gotten older. Most of that is due to working more, getting a better job and having more resources to do the things I love. But in terms of people yeah, I don't tolerate it. In fact, I had a homey who be a friend for almost 10 years I had to just say "fukk it we ain't cool" to. Dude was bringing SO much negativity to my space...no one is above my peace of mind...no one. I've also refused to be a hateful person myself.

As I get older the more I realized all people are full of shyt to some extend and walking around believing their own myths. Myself included. So I do everything I can to NOT be full of shyt and spend some time deconstructing my own myths and holding myself accountable. Strangely, stuff like that REALLY helps when you are in a leadership position.

Life is a lot less contentious when you look at what YOU could have changed about a situation first.

This is one of the truest statements I've ever read on here.

 

[Solomon Caine]

Can’t stand people that constantly talk about plans and goals that they know they will never try to reach even attempt...

dudes would sit there while I smoke and talk about a new fantasy everyday. I’d rather spend that time talking about sport, world events or watch something. I had to cut many ppl off cuz of that.

 

[Reno89]

"I'll let you know"

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

"I'll let you know"

Instant relationship killer for me. I understand sometimes a woman has kids, obligations, etc. But if I don't hear back within a 12 hour window, I just charge her to the game. No time for that BS. Beyonce ain't that damn busy. But I'm supposed to believe your entry level position having ass is

 

[Ol’Otis]

saw this guy had to be 20 something asking me for change...i told him to hold on. Came out the restaurant with a application

Breh

 

[MaxPain]

Bad service. Catching attitudes when I ask for something. bytch no one told u to work at Checkers so get my fries and stfu

Complainers. I used to do this when I was younger but I learned to stfu or change it. Complainers always complain but never change shyt

Negative people. Goes with complainers. My dad is big on this and I can only take him in doses. I like to be a mix of negative and positive to be mellowed out, but some people nothing ever goes right.

Homeless people/ beggars . I legit just keep walking dont even look their direction. ESPECIALLY white beggars. Suck my fukking dikk if u still cant function with white privilege u worthless sack of elephant shyt.

White people in general

Explaining myself to others. If I said this is what Im on, and if u dont agree, I dont fukking care. Beleive what u want. Im a grown ass man that does what I want within reason and if u dont like it so what. Im not here for ur validation. Thats why i dont understand this “lets try to show racists we arent all the same” bs. If u dont like me cuz im black, cool i dont care. Keep it to urself. Or another one I see is when u gotta explain shyt like for example ur dating preferences. U like what u like. I dont understand why people get mad when they havent fukked u, never have fukked u and probably never will.

Time wasting women. If I try to smash and u hit me with that “im not like that” shyt im ghosting. bytch its 2018, all yall like that. I dont talk on the phone either, I text sparingly. I do all my communication in meetups.we not boutta do them 1 hour phone calls.

Basically if we not fukking or going to soon I dont wanna hear ur freaking mouth. Im not ur shoulder to cry on.

People who walk slow

Any type of rudeness/disrespect

 

[Jalether]

Time wasters in general: I bush bytches who exhibit traits of a time waster with the quickness. I'm a grown ass man, no tine for games

Negative people who are proficient in the darl art of sucking every bit of energy out of any room, life is already hard as it is, I will be damned if I allow anyone to make it even harder.

People/friends who always gets you into trouble. I have had to bush some friends who always get into fights when we go out.

 

[puppetmaster]

I'm still in my 20s but I'm getting older and it's all about protecting my peace at this point.

That right there tells me you’re gonna be alright.

Way too many people wait till they’re breathing down 40’s neck to realize this.