What if she doesn't initiate text first?

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I'm usually the one hunting so I'm initiating text and calls first.:yeshrug: Now how she responds to them shyts is what you should be looking for instead of sitting back waiting for chicks to scoop YOU up. :sas1:

If she don't seem interested or can't carry on a conversation chances are she's not as into me as I figured and I let that shyt die and keep it moving, especially if I'm banging out narratives and can't get a proper response when I know she's capable of the back and forth with others.
pretty much how its done.

had to call it quits with a chick i was really feeling cause she'd always ghost mid convo. couldnt build any momentum or really get to know her
 

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It doesn't matter who text first, but if you do text and she never seems to respond or never seems to initiate after a week or 2. Let it go. Some brehs may think 2 weeks is to long, but you never know whats happening in folks lives, especially if you just met them.
 
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true but they don't hear you breh :mjlol:

:dwillhuh: Dudes in here contemplating calling someone who's clearly not even thinking about them.


Her latest post on Instagram is of her sitting on a dude's lap palming her titties, while she sipping a mojito, and these dudes still thinking there's hope for a relationship.
 
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:dwillhuh: Dudes in here contemplating calling someone who's clearly not even thinking about them.


Her latest post on Instagram is of her sitting on a dude's lap palming her titties, while she sipping a mojito, and these dudes still thinking there's hope for a relationship.




smh :russ:


brehs got it all messed up

she's supposed to be asking her friends about YOU, not the other way around :mjlol:
 
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Breh text her. Some chicks are afraid of being seen as thirsty. You miss 100% of shots you never take. :yeshrug:


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Pursuing is what got me where I am but I waa around her one time and she was saying to her friend " why tf does this guy keep texting me all the time" about someone because I wasn't even textin her yet. We chilled, saw her next day and texted her day after that so 3 in a row ima fall baxk for weekend



I take it you haven't smashed yet?:usure:
 

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pretty much how its done.

had to call it quits with a chick i was really feeling cause she'd always ghost mid convo. couldnt build any momentum or really get to know her​

And I'm sure you've seen her all giddy talking to other dudes right? Most of us been through that shyt, but not everybody willing to cut the rope along with your loses and just move on.

Was hollering at a chick I know and similar shyt happened. I'd have to wait upwards of an hour to get a response back but when we all out as a group she constantly on her phone laughing with other people; dudes Prolly too.

I let that shyt die and just kept it cordial with her. What fukking irritates me though is later on when they try and rub up against you in that wanting hour or they done fukked around and looking to cuff you for selfish reasons, thinking that you done forgot when she curved your ass to the bushes months before. :martin:
I got no problem with a chick not feeling me like that but best believe you ain't getting no second chances with me by simply acknowledging when the fukk it's convenient for you.​
 
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And I'm sure you've seen her all giddy talking to other dudes right? Most of us been through that shyt, but not everybody willing to cut the rope along with your loses and just move on.

Was hollering at a chick I know and similar shyt happened. I'd have to wait upwards of an hour to get a response back but when we all out as a group she constantly on her phone laughing with other people; dudes Prolly too.

I let that shyt die and just kept it cordial with her. What fukking irritates me though is later on when they try and rub up against you in that wanting hour or they done fukked around and looking to cuff you for selfish reasons, thinking that you done forgot when she curved your ass to the bushes months before. :martin:

I got no problem with a chick not feeling me like that but best believe you ain't getting no second chances with me by simply acknowledging when the fukk it's convenient for you.​
hadnt seen all that but I'm not stupid. honestly, whenever we were together, she would have her phone away to not be rude most of the time.
all i know is i would try to get good convos going and when it was getting good she'd just disappear...even respond like a day later. happened like 2,3 times in a row and i just gave up

i figured she just wasnt that interested. getting angry just thinking about this shyt lol
 
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Breh text her. Some chicks are afraid of being seen as thirsty. You miss 100% of shots you never take. :yeshrug:
don't listen to this. these girls are not idiots. if you're initiating 3,4 convos in a row they would obviously know initiating one isnt gonna seem thirsty
she's just not thinking about you fam
 
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