For me I know that all I want in my life is happiness, positivity and loved ones so to get that I have to put that out into the world. And honestly that's all I want to bring into other peoples lives as well anyway. Because I'm a firm believer that as a man I should only add happiness to the lives of the people that I meet and that I should only make the lives of the people I care for easier.
I'm not looking to get over on people or to take advantage of anybody or use women. I don't walk around with my chest poked out like a tough guy because I have no interest in being a bully. I believe that I have to work for the things that I want and that I have to go get the things I feel are mine. I don't wait for other people to do things for me and I don't feel comfortable taking anything from anybody without paying it back. I feel like a a man should provide and protect for his loved ones. He should keep his word and be loyal to his loved ones. He should be kind and generous to everybody. He shouldn't use or live off women. He should take care of all his responsibilities. He should always be trying to progress and better himself in every aspect of life.
A man should work for his community and be a role model. Especially in the black community he should be a example to these young boys how a man properly carries himself and when he does that he will beloved by his community. That's all we really want anyway. Honestly half of the dangerous life choices men make could be avoid if we got that love from out community.
Finally a man should be himself no matter what and to me that is the true definition of being masculine when you can determine your own life without trying to be what other people want you to be. Me as example I'm kind, compassionate, sweet, loyal, sincere and honorable. I don't want to be anything else cause thats what makes me happy. Half these dudes out here trying to be rapper clones and follow after other men like children. That's not being a man. They dress how these dudes tell them too and do the drugs they tell them too. That is weak to me do things because you want to not because you trying to impress other men with a bullshyt fake lifestyle.
What is being a man to you brehs? This is just what it means to me.
I'm not looking to get over on people or to take advantage of anybody or use women. I don't walk around with my chest poked out like a tough guy because I have no interest in being a bully. I believe that I have to work for the things that I want and that I have to go get the things I feel are mine. I don't wait for other people to do things for me and I don't feel comfortable taking anything from anybody without paying it back. I feel like a a man should provide and protect for his loved ones. He should keep his word and be loyal to his loved ones. He should be kind and generous to everybody. He shouldn't use or live off women. He should take care of all his responsibilities. He should always be trying to progress and better himself in every aspect of life.
A man should work for his community and be a role model. Especially in the black community he should be a example to these young boys how a man properly carries himself and when he does that he will beloved by his community. That's all we really want anyway. Honestly half of the dangerous life choices men make could be avoid if we got that love from out community.
Finally a man should be himself no matter what and to me that is the true definition of being masculine when you can determine your own life without trying to be what other people want you to be. Me as example I'm kind, compassionate, sweet, loyal, sincere and honorable. I don't want to be anything else cause thats what makes me happy. Half these dudes out here trying to be rapper clones and follow after other men like children. That's not being a man. They dress how these dudes tell them too and do the drugs they tell them too. That is weak to me do things because you want to not because you trying to impress other men with a bullshyt fake lifestyle.
What is being a man to you brehs? This is just what it means to me.
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that's how I feel in a nutshell.
