What is like to be in love with somebody?

[Pier7]

its crazy, its like being high for months on end. you only really start seeing the flaws, the lies and the signs in retrospect once the relationships over

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

explains everything

love is just chemicals in your brain anyways

finding that one you vibe with though is

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Best feeling in the world. I've been in love twice. I got it hard. Back to back. Those women are the loves of my life. I almost married one and had kids. The other was my dream girl.

It's why I wake up in the AM. It changes my life when it comes and goes. The women I love are like chapters of my life. I associate period of my life with them. Each one taught me about myself, the world, women, and humanity.

You'll never understand you've been through it. I mean every step of it, this includes the aftermath that's worse than quitting drugs cold turkey.

It's like murdering someone with your bare hands. It stays with you forever. You have flash backs to that moment in time.

It's not for the weak. You'll say things you didn't know you thought. You'll feel things you don't know. You're vulnerable, reliant, comfortable. It's wild.

Laying in bed with with a lover, not saying anything for hours, and just being together is the best thing in the world. It's an indescribable connection.

Dating sucks, especially if you've loved and been loved. You search for hints of love, most of the time you'll find none. Then you meet someone and that old familiar feeling returns.

I'm going through it right now. If a girl drives you crazy and makes you act out of character even though you know the consequences for your behavior could result in nothing or something bad you love her.

Always go for girls who make you insane.

 

[Coli_UnderWorld_King]

I don't know cuz I have never met a girl that I love in the whole wide world......

 

[Jean Jacket]

The feeling you get in gym when you are climbing that rope in the middle of the basketball court.

And then you realize you are at the top and you either fall your ass down because you invested too much... or you slowly burn your flesh away as you descend into reality...

 

[DrX]

Best feeling in the world. I've been in love twice. I got it hard. Back to back. Those women are the loves of my life. I almost married one and had kids. The other was my dream girl.

It's why I wake up in the AM. It changes my life when it comes and goes. The women I love are like chapters of my life. I associate period of my life with them. Each one taught me about myself, the world, women, and humanity.

You'll never understand you've been through it. I mean every step of it, this includes the aftermath that's worse than quitting drugs cold turkey.

It's like murdering someone with your bare hands. It stays with you forever. You have flash backs to that moment in time.

It's not for the weak. You'll say things you didn't know you thought. You'll feel things you don't know. You're vulnerable, reliant, comfortable. It's wild.

Laying in bed with with a lover, not saying anything for hours, and just being together is the best thing in the world. It's an indescribable connection.

Dating sucks, especially if you've loved and been loved. You search for hints of love, most of the time you'll find none. Then you meet someone and that old familiar feeling returns.

I'm going through it right now. If a girl drives you crazy and makes you act out of character even though you know the consequences for your behavior could result in nothing or something bad you love her.

Always go for girls who make you insane.

great post as usual breh....idk bro, i feel so cold and disconnected is love even possible anymore....I'm a grown man (28) and don't have that youthful naivety no more, where I can just fall for a woman out of raw emotion. the cynicism in me would constantly question her true motives. I think this comes from not many woman wanting me when I was at my worst, during periods when I was truly struggling, lost, feeling like food for the vultures....now that things are starting to look up, I feel like its my potential or if I do become successful, what I can offer them, that'll make them want to be with me...not the real me, I get the feeling many ppl don't like the real me. my family only call when they can get something from me, or ppl give me fake similes and never invite me places, seem like they just do it to tolerate me lol...only time ppl even engage with me, is when they find out what I can do..its like im a piece of shyt until they find out what talent I have, then I magically become acceptable, a person of value....im use to it and accepted it, but Ill be lying to say it didn't hurt alittle

vicious cycle, I feel like I cant trust nobody, I feel like everybody that get close have an agenda now, and part of me actually get angry thinking about it.....I think the only way I can fell in love if a woman really proves she like the real me in my rawest form...love my spirit, not my shell

 

[richaveli83]

It's one of the greatest feelings in the world. I've had lustful relationships but only been in love once in my whole life. We were engaged and everything. Planning our future, what we would name our children, businesses we were going to start, etc. Then it came crashing down. She broke a brother heart

Now i'm on the borderline of being #HOH and #GMB. Love is great but it hurts

 

[Doobie Doo]

It's honestly the best thing in the world. More than love, it's trust. I'm not even sure love exists, but trust does. Trusting something enough to be vulnerable around them is a beautiful thing. Love is just trust, understanding, the freedom to be vulnerable and most importantly, appreciation. Just knowing someone is going to be there for you when things go wrong without a doubt. The attachment to the person isn't love itself, but really things they provide in your life that you can't get from other areas of the human experience. I'm not sure if it lasts forever, I'd have to see. But when you have it, everything just feels okay.

That's the issue right there. I know love, there's a few things that I love but I don't trust nobody outside of my immediate family. Not that paranoid trust where I'm eyeing you funny but that "show vulnerability"shyt. I always gotta keep my guard up I have that belief that no one will have my back if shyt don't go right.

 

[DrX]

I was close to being there...once.

She said she never fell in love with a Superman
Christian, Muslim, Protestant, Lutheran
I told her that being a mortal is a portal
To the true nature of growth to the Christ like Buddha man

Eternal Sunshine

lol like the jay elect quote...nice touch

 

[1 other person]

Can you fall in love at any age? I'm 31 and never experienced it. Can you love more than once? Like a some chick I was talking to started bringing up love but I know she been around. I don't understand how people can say they were deeply in love with several people.

 

[Blackout]

Like walking back into your crib on a hot summers day while the AC is blasting.

 

[Chill]

Best feeling in the world. I've been in love twice. I got it hard. Back to back. Those women are the loves of my life. I almost married one and had kids. The other was my dream girl.

It's why I wake up in the AM. It changes my life when it comes and goes. The women I love are like chapters of my life. I associate period of my life with them. Each one taught me about myself, the world, women, and humanity.

You'll never understand you've been through it. I mean every step of it, this includes the aftermath that's worse than quitting drugs cold turkey.

It's like murdering someone with your bare hands. It stays with you forever. You have flash backs to that moment in time.

It's not for the weak. You'll say things you didn't know you thought. You'll feel things you don't know. You're vulnerable, reliant, comfortable. It's wild.

Laying in bed with with a lover, not saying anything for hours, and just being together is the best thing in the world. It's an indescribable connection.

Dating sucks, especially if you've loved and been loved. You search for hints of love, most of the time you'll find none. Then you meet someone and that old familiar feeling returns.

I'm going through it right now. If a girl drives you crazy and makes you act out of character even though you know the consequences for your behavior could result in nothing or something bad you love her.

Always go for girls who make you insane.

Yep, if someone has you breaking your personal rules and morals that you've gathered through life on how to handle people/situations it's definitely something deep going on.

Always go for girls that make you insane though?

Love is the most expensive thing in the world, it can't be created through materialistic gains and requires time which you can't ever get back.

 

[DJSmooth]

One of the best feelings in the world.

But I'd rather be with a loyal chick popping D1 athletes out her vagina and trying to go half on a 5 bed room house in Atlanta.

fukk love trying to build an empire.

 

[Prynce]

Best feeling in the world. I've been in love twice. I got it hard. Back to back. Those women are the loves of my life. I almost married one and had kids. The other was my dream girl.

It's why I wake up in the AM. It changes my life when it comes and goes. The women I love are like chapters of my life. I associate period of my life with them. Each one taught me about myself, the world, women, and humanity.

You'll never understand you've been through it. I mean every step of it, this includes the aftermath that's worse than quitting drugs cold turkey.

It's like murdering someone with your bare hands. It stays with you forever. You have flash backs to that moment in time.

It's not for the weak. You'll say things you didn't know you thought. You'll feel things you don't know. You're vulnerable, reliant, comfortable. It's wild.

Laying in bed with with a lover, not saying anything for hours, and just being together is the best thing in the world. It's an indescribable connection.

Dating sucks, especially if you've loved and been loved. You search for hints of love, most of the time you'll find none. Then you meet someone and that old familiar feeling returns.

I'm going through it right now. If a girl drives you crazy and makes you act out of character even though you know the consequences for your behavior could result in nothing or something bad you love her.

Always go for girls who make you insane.

You be like fukk what may come I know shyt will prolly turn bad on me but im still gonna do it

be having you mad reckless

 

[AZBeauty]

I was in the car driving home and the jay electronica song girlfriend came on, and hit me, I started thinking about love. My opinion on the subject is very bleak. I don't think it exist, and that humans just get what they need from each other and move on to the next. I always thought love was an mental illness, where 2 ppl are really just infatuated with each other and they have delusions of love, because of the indoctrination the system brainwash us with as children.

But I started to think, pondering what it would be like to truly be in love with a woman. Not lust or anything sexually or superficial, but a female best friend, that can give you companionship. Somebody that make you happy from their presence. That support your dreams and never mock your vision and ideas.

I started to imagine travelling the world with somebody that I love, going to Japan, visiting the temples and shrines. Watching the cherry blossom under the crescent moonlight, walking the sands of the Maldives holding hands, visiting museums, having all night conversations about how society suck and how its an illusion. And Both of us truly want to be with each other. No manipulation or games, no agenda, nobody trying to take...just 2 people that truly enjoy each other company.

I always wanted children too, A big family, like more then 5, because I'am the only child and never had no brothers or sisters to play with, just me alone with my thoughts. I think dudes with a happy home, wife and kids may be the truly blessed men on earth. Money cant buy that.

I've never experienced love or even liking a female past sexual lust. I don't know, but sometimes I get lonely and wish I had somebody that loved me, tuck me in at night and kiss me on the forehead. But i cant even see that happening, even if I did settle down, It would probably be because I feel obligated at some point

For all the people that ever experienced, love, what is it like?

This is a great, detailed and well written explanation of how you feel. Just wanted to say that.



I seen a few people that mentioned the downfall of love and I just wanted to comment on that. I think the great part about love is that you have it and then lose it. How will you learn how to be a better man/woman in a relationship if you don't have heartache? By the time you are mature, have a career you love, ready for a family then love will be amazing. You will know exactly what you want and how you are going to treat your potential life partner. Being in love will be amazing then.