What is like to be in love with somebody?

[Sauce Dab]

Never experienced it. I thought I did but it was just a big crush

You not having any siblings explains a lot

 

[Originalgangsta317]

Can you fall in love at any age? I'm 31 and never experienced it. Can you love more than once? Like a some chick I was talking to started bringing up love but I know she been around. I don't understand how people can say they were deeply in love with several people.

I agree.

I think it only supposed to happen once.

Twice maximum

 

[Originalgangsta317]

People change. Why would you expect them to be the same person anyway? That's an unreasonable expectation to have for someone. In your example what happened throughout the course of life that caused them to be shut in vs social? Life is nothing but change.

Children change over the course of years and parents for the most part never lose love for us. I think if you're in love with someone you will rock with them regardless or I could be unfairly comparing the love between parents/children to spousal love. But I've never been in love so I'm not sure what I'm feeling.

I think it's a difference between your child and a random stranger tho. But good point.

 

[Fani Willis fan]

being in love is slavery
falling out of love is the good part,
when they hit you up and you dont feel nothing for them no more

 

[shutterguy]

one of the best feelings in the world
but when those feelings change to hate

Its the GOAT feeling. That downfall though...

Like others said, best feeling in the world but, also, the worst feeling when it all comes down.

 

[Ol’Otis]

My role in her play with no rehearsal that's damn good soul music

 

[Verbal Kint]

 

[Redwood]

being in love is slavery
falling out of love is the good part,
when they hit you up and you dont feel nothing for them no more

This happened with my ex recently, .

 

[OGBobbyJohnson]

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I was in the car driving home and the jay electronica song girlfriend came on, and hit me, I started thinking about love. My opinion on the subject is very bleak. I don't think it exist, and that humans just get what they need from each other and move on to the next. I always thought love was an mental illness, where 2 ppl are really just infatuated with each other and they have delusions of love, because of the indoctrination the system brainwash us with as children.

But I started to think, pondering what it would be like to truly be in love with a woman. Not lust or anything sexually or superficial, but a female best friend, that can give you companionship. Somebody that make you happy from their presence. That support your dreams and never mock your vision and ideas.

I started to imagine travelling the world with somebody that I love, going to Japan, visiting the temples and shrines. Watching the cherry blossom under the crescent moonlight, walking the sands of the Maldives holding hands, visiting museums, having all night conversations about how society suck and how its an illusion. And Both of us truly want to be with each other. No manipulation or games, no agenda, nobody trying to take...just 2 people that truly enjoy each other company.

I always wanted children too, A big family, like more then 5, because I'am the only child and never had no brothers or sisters to play with, just me alone with my thoughts. I think dudes with a happy home, wife and kids may be the truly blessed men on earth. Money cant buy that.

I've never experienced love or even liking a female past sexual lust. I don't know, but sometimes I get lonely and wish I had somebody that loved me, tuck me in at night and kiss me on the forehead. But i cant even see that happening, even if I did settle down, It would probably be because I feel obligated at some point

For all the people that ever experienced, love, what is it like?

Out of curiosity, how old are you breh? I think these thoughts start to creep in when you get older. Also, despite how you feel about love, human beings are social creatures and companionship is how we're wired.

 

[DrX]

Out of curiosity, how old are you breh? I think these thoughts start to creep in when you get older. Also, despite how you feel about love, human beings are social creatures and companionship is how we're wired.

28............

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

28............

Yeah dawg, you're too old to naively fall in puppy love. Which is a good and a bad thing. From this point on you're probably going to be way too calculated in your thought process to experience the love that many of us experience organically when younger. The positive is that you'll avoid the heartache... on EVERYTHING, that shyt is the worst feeling in the world.

You'll probably fall in love at some point but it won't be on some movie shyt. It will be for more tangible reasons and there's nothing wrong with that. For instance, I loved a girl I dated because she was loyal and really held me down when I had some minor surgery. Did she give me butterflies in my stomach? No, not at all. But I appreciated her and would do for her as she did for me. It ultimately didn't work out because she was looking for that Disney feel, and I couldn't fake it.

So essentially, I'm in the same place you are. I wish I could just go with my heart on things but that's a fools endeavor. You gotta be smart nowadays.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Not sure really. I want to believe that once you're really in love with someone it's permanent. Sort of the same way you feel about your parents or children (for those that have them). If you can "fall out of love" with someone then it probably wasn't all that real to begin with.

Thinking you're in love with someone is a legit feeling though. When you realize you weren't is when it sucks ass.

I actually agree. When I love someone it's forever. It may not be as intense but I'll always have a soft spot in my heart for them and wish them the best.

 

[LuckyLibra619]

I never been in love but I been close I think
shyt was going so well with me and my most recent ex, It's hard to explain but after awhile it's like me and her were one, like she became a part of me

Me siento perdido sin ti mi amor