What is "Slut shaming"?

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what makes you think a slut is going to stop at a married\taken man. i firmly believe it's in a womans DNA to despise sluts(even when she is one oddly enough) they break up families. think of the impact from an evolutionary standpoint. any ole female just waltzing in and seducing away another females mate(and father of her offspring who is usually the provider and necessary for insuring healthy and successful offspring ). Men not knowing who the hells children they are raising etc. the ramifications for society would horrible if we didn't all innately hate and discourage sluts.

Lowkey I normally agree or at least understand your POV on women's issues, but on this I have to disagree. On the contrary I would think its in a woman's DNA to not give a shyt about another woman's sex life. I am proud to say I am a womanist, unlike many women on the site for fear of male judgement, and I neither care about if a woman chooses to only sex one man for her entire life or sex multiple on the same day. As long as she isn't spreading disease and is doing so for her enjoyment its none of my business. Especially so since I want nothing to do with her vagina anyway.

I as a straight woman, am more worried about where my partner's penis has been than any random woman's vagina. At the end of the day, you are policing another woman's sexuality when you should be policing your man's. A man cannot be "seduced", stop believing men's lies to pit you against other women instead of holding them accountable for their actions. If a woman is willing to sleep with a married man it really doesn't matter as long as he feels committed to YOU his partner and says no to her immoral ass.

As far as men knowing whether or not they fathered a child they are taking care of, that is the concern of men and not women. Sounds harsh, but its true. Their biological advantage is to not have to go through child birth, ours as women is to never have to question whether the child we are taking care of is our own. So while men's hate for women who sleep around could be innate because it clouds paternity for them, women's is nonsensical, and has everything to do with society priming us to hate any woman who doesn't behave according to the way society says women must in order to be deserving of a basic level of respect as human beings.
 
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Lowkey I normally agree or at least understand your POV on women's issues, but on this I have to disagree. On the contrary I would think its in a woman's DNA to not give a shyt about another woman's sex life. I am proud to say I am a womanist, unlike many women on the site for fear of male judgement, and I neither care about if a woman chooses to only sex one man for her entire life or sex multiple on the same day. As long as she isn't spreading disease and is doing so for her enjoyment its none of my business. Especially so since I want nothing to do with her vagina anyway.

I as a straight woman, and more worried about where my partner's penis has been than any random woman's vagina. At the end of the day, you are policing another woman's sexuality when you should be policing your man's. A man cannot be "seduced", stop believing men's lies to pit you against other women instead of holding them accountable for their actions. If a woman is willing to sleep with a married man it really doesn't matter as long as he feels committed to YOU his partner and says no to her immoral ass.

As far as men knowing whether or not they fathered a child they are taking care of, that is the concern of men and not women. Sounds harsh, but its true. Their biological advantage is to not have to go through child birth, ours as women is to never have to question whether the child we are taking care of is our own. So while men's hate for women who sleep around could be innate because it clouds paternity for them, women's is nonsensical, and has everything to do with society priming us to hate any woman who doesn't behave according to the way society says women must in order to be deserving of a basic level of respect as human beings.
i don't entirely agree or (disagree with all of it for that manner) with the first half but i respect the manner you argued your side. the part about men tho you know i never thought about it like that. :leon: cold as it may sound that actually makes sense. the subject of biologial and evolutionary sexual science intrests me A LOT and your posts are usually spot on sis so :salute:
 

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i don't entirely agree or (disagree with all of it for that manner) with the first half but i respect the manner you argued your side. the part about men tho you know i never thought about it like that. :leon: cold as it may sound that actually makes sense. the subject of biologial and evolutionary sexual science intrests me A LOT and your posts are usually spot on sis so :salute:
Much respect :salute:
 

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Punished? Strong wording there.

Men aren't as diciplined? Men don't get it as easy, so that cancels out this whole "slave to biological impulses", because if that were the case, the men in that "experiment" the other guy posted would have all said yes.

Also, let's make the distinction between a girl who "likes sex" and a slut. You guys are using those terms interchangably to support your arguements, but there's a big difference. Every female likes sex, but not every female is a slut. A chick that let's a whole bunch of different dudes smash is way more than a chick who just likes sex, she's a slut. Let's make that distinction before proceeding.

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You have to be gay to slut shaming, you don't like getting vagina. You must want it to be hard to get vagina, smh. Be a patriarchal fakkit,breh.

Um stay STD and baby mama free, breh.

Why the fukk would you be sweatin' community p*ssy, nikka?

You the reason 50% of the pop got HPV and nikkaz is gettin head and neck cancer from these no Gardasil takin' heifers.

Seriously, it's such a mockery of serious issues that women are faced with.

It's basically overly priviledged White women using the credibility of poor and minority women to excuse their bullshyt ass mentality.

It would make more sense to me if they started "Man-slut shaming" and encouraging each other to shame dudes who cheat, or sleep around and spread diseases and shyt than to argue that women sleeping around is a good thing as if HPV, Herpes, and out of wedlock births are good things.

That at least would be productive and might encourage people to make better decisions.
 

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So basically woman want to be able to throw that p*ssy all willy nilly? :mjpls:
























#stopslutshaming2013:mjpls:
 

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Um stay STD and baby mama free, breh.

Why the fukk would you be sweatin' community p*ssy, nikka?

You the reason 50% of the pop got HPV and nikkaz is gettin head and neck cancer from these no Gardasil takin' heifers.



It's basically overly priviledged White women using the credibility of poor and minority women to excuse their bullshyt ass mentality.

It would make more sense to me if they started "Man-slut shaming" and encouraging each other to shame dudes who cheat, or sleep around and spread diseases and shyt than to argue that women sleeping around is a good thing as if HPV, Herpes, and out of wedlock births are good things.

That at least would be productive and might encourage people to make better decisions.
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I didn't imply that it was ok to have sex raw, having multiple partners and having unsafe sex are two different things.
 

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i don't entirely agree or (disagree with all of it for that manner) with the first half but i respect the manner you argued your side. the part about men tho you know i never thought about it like that. :leon: cold as it may sound that actually makes sense. the subject of biologial and evolutionary sexual science intrests me A LOT and your posts are usually spot on sis so :salute:

Well if you think about the history of man and woman, your previous post is along those lines. Women were and are raised to be socialized for survival. Men were raised as hunters and gatherers which made them competitive on that front. So what's one way women increased their social standing while the men hunted? To use social means to elevate themselves higher than the next woman.
 

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Um stay STD and baby mama free, breh.

Why the fukk would you be sweatin' community p*ssy, nikka?

You the reason 50% of the pop got HPV and nikkaz is gettin head and neck cancer from these no Gardasil takin' heifers.



It's basically overly priviledged White women using the credibility of poor and minority women to excuse their bullshyt ass mentality.


It would make more sense to me if they started "Man-slut shaming" and encouraging each other to shame dudes who cheat, or sleep around and spread diseases and shyt than to argue that women sleeping around is a good thing as if HPV, Herpes, and out of wedlock births are good things.

That at least would be productive and might encourage people to make better decisions.

This morning I was skimming through the channels and E! had a special which i guess was from years ago on "Celebrity Mistresses" and they were talking about Tiger Wood's hoes and you had to have seen it.....They seriously kept using the word "mistress" and talking about and justifying it with all this pseudo scientific analysis and actually having remorse for the girls.... :what:

One of them even brought up some nonsense about the "double standard" about the criticism the women were getting for being "home wreckers" when it takes two to wreck a home and the husband played a part too. This is true about there being more than one person that wrecks a home...........

But to treat these loose girls slinging their p*ssy around with a light term like "mistress" is just unbelievable. Broads out here fighting for their human right to whore and how its unfair. This is unbelievable :snoop:
 

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This morning I was skimming through the channels and E! had a special which i guess was from years ago on "Celebrity Mistresses" and they were talking about Tiger Wood's hoes and you had to have seen it.....They seriously kept using the word "mistress" and talking about and justifying it with all this pseudo scientific analysis and actually having remorse for the girls.... :what:

One of them even brought up some nonsense about the "double standard" about the criticism the women were getting for being "home wreckers" when it takes two to wreck a home and the husband played a part too. This is true about there being more than one person that wrecks a home...........

But to treat these loose girls slinging their p*ssy around with a light term like "mistress" is just unbelievable. Broads out here fighting for their human right to whore and how its unfair. This is unbelievable :snoop:

Exactly man. It's these Hollywood/New York liberal types who have found a way to make all kinds of excuses for hoe ass behavior.

And also, I love how they cry about double standards as if a nikka who was fukkin' another nikka's wife wouldn't get shot for doing that shyt.

Please.
 

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I've been slut shamed and I'm not even a slut :sadbron:

Some females just hate when you getting yours and they ain't getting theres. There's a difference between being sexually active and being a hoe:ld:
 
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insecure men that expect women
to not enjoy getting one off like we do.
most of those kinda cats gotta (hug the plate)
so the idea of another man hitting their chick
with thicker/longer pork sausage brings them to
suicidal rage.
Alien concept for the kid.......let them broads cook!
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