Slime, I ain't got shyt to hide from a female nor do I care for playing games. I believe in the shyt I put out comes back 360, so If I want her to be real with me then I have to be real with her. is it a L on my behalf?most definitely, because as mentioned in here by other users, I should've been picked up on the bullshyt. but is it a L on my ego or manhood? fukk no, I didn't do anything wrong except give her the benefit of the doubt.
I meanI can't read palms, minds or tell the future. if I knew this shyt would've ended cause of her bullshytting and gaming, I wouldn't have even acknowledged her. but because I don't have those special powers at this moment, I realize that in order to win the right one, I have to be willing to lose time and get my emotions banged up a bit. I ain't in this bytch crying and cutting myself lmao so I'm good.
How old are you
fukk outta here, I'm upfront bout mine. if I like a dame and want her in my life, I was taught to express that, all that "be too cool for school" shyt get you just as late as I got in this story. fukk thatBruh, you always supposed to let HER bring up the 'what are we' talk, I thought that shyt was elementary level game
does it matter?
is it like a certain age in which I will just magically have to key to understanding women?
lol
OP, you got some good advice...and not so good advice...
But what I hope you take away and apply to you life is believe people when they tell/show you who they are. It will take you far.
Good luck.
But what I hope you take away and apply to you life is believe people when they tell/show you who they are. It will take you far.
Good luck.
does it matter?
is it like a certain age in which I will just magically have to key to understanding women?
lol
No just curious
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Ehhh she probably still trying to bring closure to her last relationship
Sees potential in you but isn't ready to cuff yet but doesn't want you straying either
I know the audacity of some women can be astounding at times
I mean let things develop organically, why the rush?
You're getting to smash, that's a good sign she doesnt see you as a sucka
Sees potential in you but isn't ready to cuff yet but doesn't want you straying either
I know the audacity of some women can be astounding at times
I mean let things develop organically, why the rush?
You're getting to smash, that's a good sign she doesnt see you as a sucka
I don't agree with that strategy but that's whatever in this situation.
Fact is that she told you the situation, you agreed but doubled back. She was upfront, it was on you to ride with that or step away
I don't agree with that strategy but that's whatever in this situation.
Fact is that she told you the situation, you agreed but doubled back. She was upfront, it was on you to ride with that or step away
Nah she never told me the situation, she alluded to me and her being able to build to something. she never once came flat out and said "Look, I like ya dikk and I like ya company but nothing else." if she said that, then you can claim I doubled back. but she didn't, she kept playing as if she was going to be with a nikka. she wasn't upfront playa, at all.
Can't even knock none of what you typed. I see where you coming from.
Absolutely correct Brehette. I'm just chill and stack some money for a minute, hopefully the next one that catches my eye I'll be able to read her better.
IttyBittyKitty
Pro
Either there are no good women left in this country or I'm just prone to picking the wrong one's.
So I finally get this chicks number I've been digging at school since I started going there. I had a crush on her for a little bit and she started liking a nikka based off of her (her words) finding out I wasn't a dummy (we had the same class one semester). so I'm digging her brain, trying to see where her mind at and initially the good foot presented made me like her more.
we start getting deep into thing, smashing within a week, hanging out damn near every day, face timing and phone boning for hours on end. now to me, this was something major because even with chicks I was fukking with in the past, I never talked on the phone for hours on end and facetiming was out the question (never liked facetime). either way, we on path to having a serious relationship (or atleast I thought).
So she broke down to me she had just gotten out of a relationship at the top of the year and the dude she was with did her extra dirty (cheated on her, emotional/verbal abuse, etc. etc. common traits of a "ain't shyt nikka"). so she tell's me "I don't want to rush into anything and get hurt again."
I told her I completely understood and we'd go at her speed, now mind you this is after we fukked. now had we not fukked again, I'd had chalked it up to my sex game being weak and that was her 'nice-way' of letting me know it by saying she wasn't trying to rush into shyt.
so we continue the face timing, the phone boning, the real boning, the dating, etc. etc. so about a few weeks in, I'm like "Look, we doing all the shyt a couple does. I'm trying to make it exclusive and spark a relationship." her response "I don't want to rush into anything and get hurt again". so that had me likebut I said "Cool" and asked her flat out, "
Mind you, I went above and beyond to prove to her I ain't got no shyt up my sleeves. I broke down my previous relationship (which was like years ago), my sexual history, the whole 9. posted the chick on my IG (something I've NEVER done, and did it only to show to her I ain't gaming her), let the chick get the code to my phone, I mean by Coli's breh defintions, I was a whole simp and a half but
This chick, like a month and a half into all the shyt we been doing was still on some "I'm not trying to get hurt shyt." so now I went from being cool about it to "on now she playing with a nikka." so I told her flat out, I'm cutting her ass back until we get on the same page because that shyt doesn't make sense. we talked about it and she claimed she saw it my way but still ain't want to get hurt.
One night in a store, the shyt came to a head for me. we walked into the spot I frequent alot and a female I always speak to (would've bagged her had she not told me she was engaged to get married, don't know why she gave me the digits... I learned of her engagement AFTER she gave me the digits, and she came before the current chick I'm typing about) was at the entrance. now I'm no dumb nikka, or a clown so I speak to shawtie like I would any other day "What's up wit cha?" she responds "Hhheeeyyy" (like she normally does), so the chick I'm trying to get in a relationship with mocks her like "hhheeeeyyyy" as we're walking past.
I stopped dead in my tracks like(cause I picked up on the jealousy asap) and I tell the chick "Nah, come back let me tell you something." she keeps walking, laughing and say "Nah nah, I'm sorry" so I get a little more serious and say
"Nah, all jokes aside. come here." she comes back and I tell her "Don't ever do that shyt again, I come here alot and you crossing all the wrong lines with that shyt." she apologizes and tries to get a kiss and hug, I wasn't going for it. she realized I was dead-ass serious and stopped smiling and said she apologized and wouldn't do it again.
now I'm really jive pissed off because I'm in the back of my mind having a war room meeting with myself like "How the fukk do you even think you got pull like that and you the same chick claiming you don't want no relationship?!" my other dialog's chip in like "this bytch wild, the fukk she acting like wifey for and she not ready for that role?" so then I hit her with some real shyt, "So what's up? we in a relationship or not? we keep doing all the shyt couples doing and you not trying to get exclusive. that shyt don't make sense to me, and you're reasoning would've been sufficient had it not been all the times you been telling a nikka that I've made you the happiest you've been in a long time and all this other jazz." she tries to evade questioning so then I ask her, "Do you want to be in a relationship with me or not?"
this chick,
she answer after a pause with a half-ass "Yes" while motioning her eye's down and to the left (lying). so I called her on it and told her "You don't even mean that shyt, don't just say the shyt cause I'm putting you on the spot." so after that night, I cut her ass smooth off. she text's me the next morning after talking queen-shyt in a text [about how if I can't see she wants to be with me, that even Ray Charles had better eye sight ()] asking if she could treat me to a movie and a kissy emoji, I'm at work at the time but I would've lost my job if I had snapped.
tl;dr Same chicks who get fukked over, and claim ain't no "good nikkas left" in the world be the same women who don't want a "good nikka" then wonder why they keep getting fukked over.
I'ma write a book and be a best selling author with the amount of wild ass women I deal with.
Wow, it seems like you were really feeling her, just for her to see you as a rebound. It sounds like she just doesn't want to be alone, so you're her placeholder until she finds a man she is actually interested in, then she will leave you alone.
I don't know why but I thought about this when I read your story.
Some people can be so selfish.
Most women are fukked up these days. I just stick to fukking hookers, it's fun, relatively cheap and you get what you pay for. You're in charge, positions, anal/vaginal, how long for, roleplay, different rooms, pornstar experience/girlfriend experience anything. Honestly it gets a bad rep but I've been doing it for over a decade and I'm happier than I was chasing after girlfriends and looking for relationships.
Got a small group of friends and a few hookers on the side... life is good breh
Got a small group of friends and a few hookers on the side... life is good breh
Yea, I was really feeling the dame but it is what it is. shyt will be something I'll look back at and laugh, I'm just happy I came to this conclusion before I really fell for shortie. instead of
similies I might've been making a thread using 
similies lol.