What kind of parenting is this?

[TNOT]

Of course not. But my mama literally used to say "I hit you so nobody else will" and I used to hate that shyt because I honestly thought she was just mean.

And then when I got older like 12-13 and nikkas started WILDING I mean carrying guns, taking their grandma's car, smoking weed, breaking into houses...

I used to think, "won't y'alls mamas beat y'alls was if you get caught???"

And then I finally got what she meant

I got whipped/ beat as a kid. That shyt was necessary consequence to things I wanted to do.

We used to get paddled at school in front of everyone on a stage. We would still act up , going on stage wasn’t a severe enough consequence for the behavior we wanted to engage in.

So what you beat the child harder if they don’t listen?

how hard do you go? Belts? Open hand slap? Punches?

I’m willing to bet that the reason you steered clear of the bullshyt in your hood had more to do with the fact you had two parents in your house who cared about you and not the fact they whipped you.

I have four kids. I whipped my oldest daughter once

 

[Cat piss martini]

that's a woman that hates the sons father.

 

[ℒℴѵℯJay ELECTUA]

My first grade teacher had a belt in her classroom and would whoop kids in the closet.

The principal had a big ass wooden paddle and would call kids to the office and paddle them.

And if all that failed my mama would beat my ass when I got home.

The only problem I have with this is hitting the kid in his face and cursing in front of the teacher. She opened herself up to CPS coming through.

But like i said other than her hitting him in the face that's basically how mama went off on us when we got in trouble.

Kids are paper soft nowadays.

Edit: I was born in '93 so not super old either

Which country was this?

 

[DUCKED_OFF]

She really treated him like some nikka on the street that she had beef with.

Lock her ass up

 

[El Coupeacabra]

Which country was this?

Texas

 

[bnew]

she probably saids her parents beat her and believes she turned out fine

the assaults on black children gotta stop.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

And now she can say goodbye to lil homie. Child services got all they need

She just has not enough brain power to educate her kids without being abusive. Everybody in this world do what they can, and she showed just that.

 

[Mʀ2ᴋDᴇᴇᴢ]

Lil breh like 3’8 all that extra aggression wasn’t necessary

 

[Swirv]

Whoopings don't work for every kid. My biggest gripe is her calling him a nikka.

 

[BeingBetter]

My first grade teacher had a belt in her classroom and would whoop kids in the closet.

The principal had a big ass wooden paddle and would call kids to the office and paddle them.

And if all that failed my mama would beat my ass when I got home.

The only problem I have with this is hitting the kid in his face and cursing in front of the teacher. She opened herself up to CPS coming through.

But like i said other than her hitting him in the face that's basically how mama went off on us when we got in trouble.

Kids are paper soft nowadays.

Edit: I was born in '93 so not super old either

Bruh, every child from the south knows about this shyt

I got whooped by my Grandma in the lunchroom one time in front of all my friends

 

[Jimmy Two-Times™]

Back in my day, your parents spazzed out on you in their privacy of their home.

My mum gave me a powerbomb on the bathroom floor one time for messing up in school.

She shouted in my face, then I kicked her knee, then she flattened my arse out.

I'll never forget.

She's still alive but the sentiment applies...

 

[Jimmy Two-Times™]

Whoopings don't work for every kid. My biggest gripe is her calling him a nikka.

and whipping him with the belt infront of white people.

why can't the c*nt do that in private.

i hope he breaks that cycle of c00nery with his offspring

 

[Jimmy Two-Times™]

and who's filming and not stepping in? poor boy.

 

[seabreeze80]

Who in their right mind refers to their child as a nikka?

 

[King Khufu]

Mama doing too much.

Back when I was real young as a kid my moms would just smack us on the back of the head when we all acted up.

Just go back to the basics.