What kind of parenting is this?

[DapMeUp!]

Same. Her flinging him around and calling him a "nikka" like that is crazy.

Like damn did you even attempt to talk to him about his behavior or is beating his ass always the first course of action?

Stuff like this makes me thankful for my momma. I can think of a few times where she could have grabbed a belt but instead she sat me down and explained why what I did was wrong.

Some people just don't have the patience to be raising kids.

This is basically the crux of the problem.

A lot of single mums don't find the proper time to parent their kids correctly. Either that or they just don't care to.

My mum is a childminder for these 2 kids.
Their mum barely spends anytime with them and drops them off on anyone literally anytime she can.
One of the kids has literally told my mum that her mum told her she doesn't have the time to help her with homework, yet she always find time to party.
Their reaction to this lack of attention is to be naughty, because for them any sort of attention is good attention, even if it's just being told off.
Every now and then the mum spazzes on the kids similar to the video.
These reactions are usually a build up of not dealing with the issue straight away. It usually takes an accumulation of bad behaviour going unchecked to reach boiling point.

 

[Zombi_Jeezus]

They probably called the police as soon as she left.

I'm pretty sure teachers are legally obligated to report abuse.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

She sounds like a lot of old school parents (70's-80's) from back in the day.

 

[Rell84shots]

If they do something wrong beat em, where does that mentality come from? If you whooped your kid throughout their childhood then obviously spankings didn't work.

Bet his lil ass won't do that shyt again in life.

You think that's the first time that's happened?

 

[Coco Loco]

I'll never forget in 5th grade when my classmates mama came to school and beat his ass in front of the class. Everyone was silent and just watched in disbelief. He was bad as hell so no one was mad at her

 

[Jay Kast]

Eh

I got my ass beat in elementary the same way.

Moms came up, pulled me out of class and whooped my ass somethin serious in the hallway (everyone saw and heard) then sent my ass back in class to sit down, shut the fukk up and learn.

Got a homie in prison for two murders (only got yelled at)

Got a homie who leeches off women (lost his moms early, pops wasnt around much)

Got a homie who is literally a high functioning bum and has two kids and beats his baby moms (little brother of the murderer)

I'm not doing as well as I hope to be because I'm always reaching higher, but ask me if I'd trade my life for any of theirs

So many over reactions in here - she hit him with a belt and used foul language. So what.

 

[NotaPAWG]

Eh

I got my ass beat in elementary the same way.

Moms came up, pulled me out of class and whooped my ass somethin serious in the hallway (everyone saw and heard) then sent my ass back in class to sit down, shut the fukk up and learn.

Got a homie in prison for two murders (only got yelled at)

Got a homie who leeches off women (lost his moms early, pops wasnt around much)

Got a homie who is literally a high functioning bum and has two kids and beats his baby moms (little brother of the murderer)

I'm not doing as well as I hope to be because I'm always reaching higher, but ask me if I'd trade my life for any of theirs

So many over reactions in here - she hit him with a belt and used foul language. So what.

look at you trying to normalize and rationalize abuse cause you were humiliated publically, too. sigh.

lemme guess after you were hit and emotionally abused you were told they did it cause they love you huh?

this shyt is not ok. that child is fukking 5 years old. and she treating him like he’s nothing to her. if she can do this shyt in public with no shame, i can only imagine what she does in private.

she’s a trash mother. period.

 

[Data-Hawk]

Dumb bytch ever stop to think he acts up because he gets it from you.

 

[Rawtid]

I got whooped in front of the whole class in 87’ by my mom, I turned out to be relatively fine

with your WOAT label.

 

[Rawtid]

If they do something wrong beat em, where does that mentality come from? If you whooped your kid throughout their childhood then obviously spankings didn't work.

You think that's the first time that's happened?

m
I hope so!! I mean how many times you gonna act up in school if mom acting like that?

 

[DPresidential]

My first grade teacher had a belt in her classroom and would whoop kids in the closet.

The principal had a big ass wooden paddle and would call kids to the office and paddle them.

And if all that failed my mama would beat my ass when I got home.

The only problem I have with this is hitting the kid in his face and cursing in front of the teacher. She opened herself up to CPS coming through.

But like i said other than her hitting him in the face that's basically how mama went off on us when we got in trouble.

Kids are paper soft nowadays.

Edit: I was born in '93 so not super old either

Ehhh....


Breh, with all due respect...I think I remember a previous post of yours and you were explaining that you and all of your siblings have had issues with anger and contacts with the criminal Justice system.

I got whooped in front of the whole class in 87’ by my mom, I turned out to be relatively fine

Aye yo... no troll but nikkas really in here exposing themselves...

Thats temp work, i did it for 2 months once i got out the pen back in 98' Had to fill up suitcases with paper all day... Worse 3 months of my life, was apart of my probation.. I committed a crime purposely to go back to jail..

You probably are good right now but do you think that type of childrearing kept you out of trouble when you went to prison multiple times, breh?

 

[get these nets]

You probably are good right now but do you think that type of childrearing kept you out of trouble when you went to prison multiple times, breh?

stick up kids is out to tax (tax)

 

[sanityovar8ted]

Call CPS on that bytch n make sure they let her know im the 1 that called

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

I remember my nephew was acting out in the 90s and his dad came to class and whipped his ass in front of his whole class I’m the second grade.

he never cared about school after that, got put in special ed courses, ended up going to prison for child abuse and neglect his damn self.

it’s sad to see this shyt and that mom needs her ugly ass whipped. You don’t publicly chastised kids like that and even in private that was way too much

 

[ColdSlither]

Back in 6th grade little breh in my class was fukking up everyday. So out teacher, young white chick couldn't take it anymore. So, she called his mom. This bytch...... She came in, pulled his pants and underwear down, bare ass in front of the class and beat his ass. All of us and the teacher were like .