What kind of parenting is this?

[Jay Kast]

look at you trying to normalize and rationalize abuse cause you were humiliated publically, too. sigh.

lemme guess after you were hit and emotionally abused you were told they did it cause they love you huh?

this shyt is not ok. that child is fukking 5 years old. and she treating him like he’s nothing to her. if she can do this shyt in public with no shame, i can only imagine what she does in private.

she’s a trash mother. period.

I'm sorry you feel so strongly.

 

[null]

Eh

I got my ass beat in elementary the same way.

Moms came up, pulled me out of class and whooped my ass somethin serious in the hallway (everyone saw and heard) then sent my ass back in class to sit down, shut the fukk up and learn.

Got a homie in prison for two murders (only got yelled at)

Got a homie who leeches off women (lost his moms early, pops wasnt around much)

Got a homie who is literally a high functioning bum and has two kids and beats his baby moms (little brother of the murderer)

I'm not doing as well as I hope to be because I'm always reaching higher, but ask me if I'd trade my life for any of theirs

So many over reactions in here - she hit him with a belt and used foul language. So what.

Meanwhile if someone took a belt and foul language to you .

Remember breh: Beatings are for your own good .

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

My first grade teacher had a belt in her classroom and would whoop kids in the closet.

The principal had a big ass wooden paddle and would call kids to the office and paddle them.

And if all that failed my mama would beat my ass when I got home.

The only problem I have with this is hitting the kid in his face and cursing in front of the teacher. She opened herself up to CPS coming through.

But like i said other than her hitting him in the face that's basically how mama went off on us when we got in trouble.

Kids are paper soft nowadays.

Edit: I was born in '93 so not super old either

Your mom's a piece of shyt.

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

Of course not. But my mama literally used to say "I hit you so nobody else will" and I used to hate that shyt because I honestly thought she was just mean.

And then when I got older like 12-13 and nikkas started WILDING I mean carrying guns, taking their grandma's car, smoking weed, breaking into houses...

I used to think, "won't y'alls mamas beat y'alls was if you get caught???"

And then I finally got what she meant

I'm gonna hit you and your dumb momma for spouting this nonsense.

 

[thaKEAF]

shyt is disgusting. So many of these ratchets and bum dudes should never be parents. Their mindset and life outlook are bottom of the barrel and the child gets the short end of the stick..it’s a sad cycle.

I guarantee you she doesn’t put this type of energy into helping him with his education. The type to let him watch the tablet nonstop as a toddler/preschooler and then expect him to go to school and be Smart Guy

 

[Fillerguy]

My first grade teacher had a belt in her classroom and would whoop kids in the closet.

The principal had a big ass wooden paddle and would call kids to the office and paddle them.

And if all that failed my mama would beat my ass when I got home.

The only problem I have with this is hitting the kid in his face and cursing in front of the teacher. She opened herself up to CPS coming through.

But like i said other than her hitting him in the face that's basically how mama went off on us when we got in trouble.

Kids are paper soft nowadays.

Edit: I was born in '93 so not super old either

My principal used to paddle our asses. She was a woman but hit like a truck . One hit would have use standing in class for hours. 2 hits made your ass bones hurt. Super sayian ignorant negroes would get 3 slaps. Thing is, after 2 hits you dont feel a thing

This was Afrocentric private school in the 90s btw. I swear she gave me wet dreams, she looked like a skinner, taller, tanned Claire Huxtable.

 

[get these nets]

Ehhh....


Breh, with all due respect...I think I remember a previous post of yours and you were explaining that you and all of your siblings have had issues with anger and contacts with the criminal Justice system.








Aye yo... no troll but nikkas really in here exposing themselves...


You probably are good right now but do you think that type of childrearing kept you out of trouble when you went to prison multiple times, breh?

I think dudes grew up in environments that gave them warped views on what "normal" is.

 

[El Coupeacabra]

Ehhh....


Breh, with all due respect...I think I remember a previous post of yours and you were explaining that you and all of your siblings have had issues with anger and contacts with the criminal Justice system.

Oh for sure big bro and me been around the block. He's on his second field trip. I've been overnight but never longer than that.

But I didn't start with the extra-curricular activities until I got my first Pell Grant. I was a lame musty football playing kid until I tore my hamstring in 11th grade and starting caring about my appearance in the 12th. I never took anything into mama's house besides the occasional bag of smoke.

My little sister and brother were raised completely in a middle class environment. My sister doesn't remember ever being poor and my little brother has never actually been poor. Mom and Pops will close in on 270k combined this year.

Little brother does have our temper though. But he didn't get hit ever really. That broke the Nature vs. Nurture argument for me. I used to think it was the neighborhood that made us rowdy but now I know we would have been rowdy anywhere.

But the rules are different. His idea of trouble is using a laser pointer to distract the teacher. Ours was busting the Principal's windshield out with a brick


Our consequences from ma mirrored the consequence from society. I got hit, he got a talking to

Your mom's a piece of shyt.

I'm gonna hit you and your dumb momma for spouting this nonsense.

Lmao your soft ass wouldn't even be able to lift your hand to swing before you had a reverse nike check permanently imprinted across your forehead

Your mama prolly made you face the wall and stand still

And your soft ass prolly stood there too with that mad was face like

"Next time I'm gonna!....I'm gonna!...I'm gonna run away from home!!" ass nikka

 

[El Coupeacabra]

I think dudes grew up in environments that gave them warped views on what "normal" is.

"Normal" is literally completely relative.

My brother is 13. He doesn't play sports, has never been in a (real) fight, and doesn't have any idea how to interact with police (he's never had to).

When I was 13 I had been playing Football for 3 years, I had been in too many fistfights to count, and I had been in handcuffs twice and knew not to tell the officer anything but my mama's phone number and where I lived.

Both of those situations were normal in the environment we each grew up in. To me, him asking me for a Fortnite card for his bday is crazy. To him, the idea that I was stealing candy from the movie theatre at age 11 is crazy.

Hell by 14 I was driving to school. He hasn't even ever practiced driving

 

[get these nets]

Oh for sure big bro and me been around the block. He's on his second field trip. I've been overnight but never longer than that.

But I didn't start with the extra-curricular activities until I got my first Pell Grant.

I had been in handcuffs twice and knew not to tell the officer anything but my mama's phone number and where I lived.

You're getting your stories lies confused.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The kind of parenting when the mom dont have a man

 

[El Coupeacabra]

You're getting your stories lies confused.

What?

Oh you don't get what im saying. Its all good.

The extra-curricular part was a euphemism for selling prescriptions to rich white kids in college. Which I never did until I used my first refund to get said prescriptions. I've told that story before on here.

I was dealing with police officers WAY WAY before that. Like 11ish I believe. We used to sneak into the movies through the exit door that was supposed to be one way and steal candy out the back. The second time I was 12 and got put in cuffs for being with kids who shoplifted. I got a ticket for the movies but I didnt have any merchandise on me the second time so they let me go.

Any questions?

 

[brandy]

This video made me cry.

His pants are too little. Agressive Mother. He looks scared. Probably acts out because he doesn’t get attention in class for various reasons; being a black boy could be one of them. Teachers watching him being abuse and didn’t help.

poor baby! Folks fail Black babies every day and its hurts.

 

[get these nets]

What?

Oh you don't get what im saying. Its all good.

The extra-curricular part was a euphemism for selling prescriptions to rich white kids in college. Which I never did until I used my first refund to get said prescriptions. I've told that story before on here.

I was dealing with police officers WAY WAY before that. Like 11ish I believe. We used to sneak into the movies through the exit door that was supposed to be one way and steal candy out the back. The second time I was 12 and got put in cuffs for being with kids who shoplifted. I got a ticket for the movies but I didnt have any merchandise on me the second time so they let me go.

Any questions?

In you first reply to me, you gave the impression that environment means the neighborhood you live in. I consider the term to mean neighborhood you live in, but more importantly the household you were raised in.

Were you raised in a household where you got home training and values and taught the difference between right and wrong?

 

[El Coupeacabra]

In you first reply to me, you gave the impression that environment means the neighborhood you live in. I consider the term to mean neighborhood you live in, but more importantly the household you were raised in.

Were you raised in a household where you got home training and values and taught the difference between right and wrong?

Good question. The answer is...both really.

My mother's father is/was Army (and this is the 70's too ) so his word was LAW in the house.

My father's father sold heroin (I think, my dad has never clarified what "dope" meant but it was the 70's so I assumed. Could have just been weed I guess) but kept it on the DL and was SUPER strict about money and discipline in general because he had to keep shyt in line in case them folks came knocking.

So my parents actually thought they were lenient in comparison. They talked to us a lot about why this, why that, how much they didn't want us to be like my uncle (doing 15 for manslaughter at the time) but the truth was...

The neighborhood kids' parents didn't give a fukk about ANYTHING

My kindergarten classmates cussed at their parents

They stole from church

By the time we was 10 they pretending to go to the bus stop and then hanging around vacant apartments all day

I thought all that was what cool kids did
So I was a follower at times but I KNEW for a fact that mama was going to be waiting around the corner with that tore up ass leather belt

So at times, the ONLY reason I went to school, or did my science fair project, or turned down a black & mild was mama's belt. I really did want to fit in and do all those things but I knew what the other side was gonna be.

When I came home for the holidays in college I left my "merch" wrapped up in clothes in an HVAC vent in my apartment. I would never try my mama like that. I only found out my dad was an ex dboy because when my brother got arrested she let it slip that he was "just like his damn daddy with that shyt." I was like 16 then and had no idea that he and my granddad used to rock like that.

I started selling cus my brother was my idol and when he was on he was truly the coolest most genuine motherfukker I've ever met. I miss him every day.

Anyways that got long. Short version is, I have no doubt that if my mama didnt beat my ass that the neighborhood would have took me.