Grounded in reality. You looking for a baller at 35, but you aren't looking to be a baller when you're already 35? Where is your work ethic?
Has an ethic system. Doesn't have to be perfect, but it has to be there and not so wish washy with it. Don't tell me you hate thieves, but you be stealing hours at work. Don't tell me you hate lies, but call out of work with bullshyt.
Consistency. Don't tell me you dislike someone or something, but then smile in their face. Or say you hate Chris brown, but I see him in your play list.
And as dude above mentioned, accountability. Know when to say you're wrong. Because conceding when you are wrong, only makes you right at the end of the day. Fighting on the wrong side will never put you on the correct side.
The list goes on, but it has little to do with money, or body image. All that usually comes with the right qualities.