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What should be saved for marriage?
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What should be saved for marriage?
Absolute loyalty but not so much that you lose your own identity. Anal sex lmao
1) Are you completely against pre-nups or creating your own contract based marriage to help the insecurity of today man fear of marriage?
I am for prenups. Men are not the only ones who have shyt to lose, you know? I earn a good amount for my age and will earn even more as time goes on. Plus, I’ll inherit a good amount one day from parents/family stuff. I could be at risk of losing that if I married then divorced. I’m not interested in any man’s money because I’m pretty independent and like earning my own shyt. I’ll probably bring up prenups first lol
2) Child care, home care - what responsibilities do you believe you both should do in your home?
Shared equally. I’m not interested in being a housewife and wouldn’t have kids with a man who was barely involved in child rearing. I guess we could figure out who does what depending on our work schedules, preferences etc.
3) Do you want to mutually handle your finances together, are you a saver or a spender - do you seek a man to correct your financial situation or vice versa?
We handle finances together but also do our own thing in separate accounts. Obviously I would try to persuade my husband not to make bad investments or loan his bummy friends huge amounts to his detriment if need be. Sometimes I’m an impulsive spender. I still save and understand money management but once in awhile I’m reckless. I like shopping for things I don’t need or eating out in some overpriced place. So, I’d prefer someone more conservative with money so we balance each other out. I teach him how to live sometimes and not count pennies 24/7. He’ll teach me how to slow down sometimes. Like, ‘do you really need that?’
No, I’m not looking for a man to improve my money situation. I absolutely despise relying on men for anything but especially money. I’m pretty damn capable of making a lot if I continue to focus on my goals and not get distracted. I’m not even really looking for a husband tbh but if I meet someone that’s a great fit I want us to do better together, not rely on one another for money.
Absolute loyalty but not so much that you lose your own identity. Anal sex lmao
1) Are you completely against pre-nups or creating your own contract based marriage to help the insecurity of today man fear of marriage?
I am for prenups. Men are not the only ones who have shyt to lose, you know? I earn a good amount for my age and will earn even more as time goes on. Plus, I’ll inherit a good amount one day from parents/family stuff. I could be at risk of losing that if I married then divorced. I’m not interested in any man’s money because I’m pretty independent and like earning my own shyt. I’ll probably bring up prenups first lol
2) Child care, home care - what responsibilities do you believe you both should do in your home?
Shared equally. I’m not interested in being a housewife and wouldn’t have kids with a man who was barely involved in child rearing. I guess we could figure out who does what depending on our work schedules, preferences etc.
3) Do you want to mutually handle your finances together, are you a saver or a spender - do you seek a man to correct your financial situation or vice versa?
We handle finances together but also do our own thing in separate accounts. Obviously I would try to persuade my husband not to make bad investments or loan his bummy friends huge amounts to his detriment if need be. Sometimes I’m an impulsive spender. I still save and understand money management but once in awhile I’m reckless. I like shopping for things I don’t need or eating out in some overpriced place. So, I’d prefer someone more conservative with money so we balance each other out. I teach him how to live sometimes and not count pennies 24/7. He’ll teach me how to slow down sometimes. Like, ‘do you really need that?’
No, I’m not looking for a man to improve my money situation. I absolutely despise relying on men for anything but especially money. I’m pretty damn capable of making a lot if I continue to focus on my goals and not get distracted. I’m not even really looking for a husband tbh but if I meet someone that’s a great fit I want us to do better together, not rely on one another for money.
Brehs out here really fukking a$$holes now
Very nice answer on pre-nup, for me it's property and business based. That's needs to go to my children one day, marriage can fall out and you can have other children if you remarried. It's only fair that way.
Has a mother, their will always be more natural expectations for the child. I do agree it's a man responsibility to balance it out, know and identify when his spouse clearly needs more help than usual.
Fully agree on the money part especially where man need to help their woman cut back on reckless/habit spending. Only disagreement is the separate accounts but if it works for others I salute them. I think woman with your mindset should make sure future decisions you make together isn't completely tied to each other ends to make ends meet (example - if one income can't pay for the household - it's too much house)
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We just went over our finances together earlier this week her savings account, seeing real change and growth from where it was 2 years ago
taught her well. The buy what you need not what you want, gets you very ahead so you can easily afford the things that you want later on
Betty Draper
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Brehs out here really fukking a$$holes now
Very nice answer on pre-nup, for me it's property and business based. That's needs to go to my children one day, marriage can fall out and you can have other children if you remarried. It's only fair that way.
Has a mother, their will always be more natural expectations for the child. I do agree it's a man responsibility to balance it out, know and identify when his spouse clearly needs more help than usual.
Fully agree on the money part especially where man need to help their woman cut back on reckless/habit spending. Only disagreement is the separate accounts but if it works for others I salute them. I think woman with your mindset should make sure future decisions you make together isn't completely tied to each other ends to make ends meet (example - if one income can't pay for the household - it's too much house)
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We just went over our finances together earlier this week her savings account, seeing real change and growth from where it was 2 years ago
Lol seems like some men love anal. I don’t get it either doesn’t seem like it would be that great. I agree with you on prenups, no one wants their marriage to fail but shyt happens.
I’m open to joint accounts but I like having my own personal one as well. Maybe that will change when I’m older. I agree, buying what you need, not what you want is important. I put my money in separate accounts now. One for bills, necessities etc, one for savings and one for my impulsive spending, nights out. That way I don’t fukk up too much.
If you know what works for you, do that. I just know me
The mouth, p*ssy, anus and womb have all been given to the community leaving nothing for the breh who she is marrying. The husband is the cleanup man and bag handler for the woman's baggage she has accumulated dealing with the community
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Says a man who frequently pays for p*ssy. You left more than nothing
The rest of us have something to pass-down to our future children
Says a man who frequently pays for p*ssy. You left more than nothing
The rest of us have something to pass-down to our future children
I got it tho.... 
I might someday fukk your bytch too
the money talk nice try though breh
Then enlighten us
Then enlighten us
Prenuptial contracts are a judges favorite toilet paper... your estranged wife could claim she was under duress ( Good luck fighting that )
If she is college educated and in debt...you could be liable to pay it all when she drops out of the workforce.
Give me more info about this judge thing
She finished paying her bachelors and masters degree - all debt paid off since june so there's no debt on her end - even her car is paid for
I said I got her financially making great movesThat's why you either require being debt free before marriage or knock it out a a couple first thing. Men love buying women stupid purses, shoes, clothes, dumb money on dinner, but trip on paying her student loan? If you combine all the money you drop on valentines day, roses and all that other shyt, she could probably be debt free. What does that say about you as a man? I support you looking fly and being broke? My friend's man stays wilding about credit cards, he don't play, don't run them shyts up. He either tries to buy it in cash or make sure he has the cash on hand already to pay it off. I think men should "check" their women in that way and it's nothing wrong with that.
I'd rather stay single/have short term flings and invest my disposable income as I see fit.
The same "what does that say about you as man" shaming tactic is used by women
to get men to buy those gifts, trips, dinners etc...
I have the means but lack the incentive considering the downside risk