What should be saved for marriage?

[DivaForever]

Cooking & cohabiting..
I dont think you should cook for a boyfriend or live with him. Thats husbnd privilages. Its important to place those boundaries when you enter the relationship.

And prenups are useles.. the judge can throw it out so just dont get married if you feel the need to get one

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Cooking & cohabiting..
I dont think you should cook for a boyfriend Thats husbnd privilages. Its important to place those boundaries when you enter the relationship.

 

[MMA]

Cooking & cohabiting..
I dont think you should cook for a boyfriend or live with him. Thats husbnd privilages. Its important to place those boundaries when you enter the relationship.

And prenups are useles.. the judge can throw it out so just dont get married if you feel the need to get one

Thanks for the input

 

[Yinny]

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[MBwithadream]

Sex & money


edit: my bad this the salon

I'll be out.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Everything

 

[BigMan]

Cooking ..
I dont think you should cook for a boyfriend or live with him.

Everything

expound

 

[MMA]

expound

Imagine sitting in the passenger seat explaining to her because we are not married, I'm not changing your flat tire

I get her moving in part though, I'd take over a decade to propose if that's the case. Probably get an intermediate ring to keep those other women out her ear while we are huddled together unmarried

 

[BigMan]

Imagine sitting in the passenger seat explaining to her because we are not married, I'm not changing your flat tire

I get her moving in part though, I'd take over a decade to propose if that's the case. Probably get an intermediate ring to keep those other women out her ear while we are huddled together unmarried

i meant to edit out the living part, i agree with you on that

 

[Taadow]

I see marriage solely as a financial or wealth building opportunity,

Men love buying women stupid purses, shoes, clothes, dumb money on dinner,

I dont think you should cook for a boyfriend

*faints*

 

[Strapped]

That's why you either require being debt free before marriage or knock it out a a couple first thing. Men love buying women stupid purses, shoes, clothes, dumb money on dinner, but trip on paying her student loan? If you combine all the money you drop on valentines day, roses and all that other shyt, she could probably be debt free. What does that say about you as a man? I support you looking fly and being broke? My friend's man stays wilding about credit cards, he don't play, don't run them shyts up. He either tries to buy it in cash or make sure he has the cash on hand already to pay it off. I think men should "check" their women in that way and it's nothing wrong with that.

Are you for real ma

 

[Rawtid]

*faints*

When you get up could you expound a little?

 

[Taadow]

When you get up could you expound a little?

Certainly.

1. You see marriage as "solely" a financial or wealth-building opportunity?
No potential partner wants to know that they're only valued by you for your finances.

2. No - men do not "love" to spend money on those things you listed.

3. Ol' girl said she doesn't even think you should cook for a boyfriend.
Like...I'm trying to understand the parameters of that. I mean, if she has him over just to visit, does she even offer him something to drink or some cookies? Or does that count as cooking because she's providing something for him?

Cooking something to eat for yourself and somebody else is a small thing...but whatever. People got their lines...

 

[CinnaSlim]

Kids

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

I can understand not living with someone, but damn not even cooking for them every now and then when they come over.

How a nikka supposed to find out you marriage material if he ain't tried your cooking or vice versa.