What the fukk is it with women wanting to go out?

[Neuromancer]

That's what I don't get too. Are men not hungry or want a beer or want to do something fun too? Always bytching about going out (on social media at least). I know yall got video games and sports on TV and anime and ship like that but I thought you would like to at least go out once in a while too lol.

Fun is different for different people I'm an introvert so being around biomass(people) exhausts me.

Last time my gf came over we played Streets of Rage 4 on my custom built PC. If we're going somewhere it's gonna be to a like a friends or to dinner but not just to a bar to drink when we can do that at home.

 

[feelosofer]

Women want to be taken care of and they want to see how you are in public spaces. Also women don't want to have dates in your living room until they are comfortable with you. No one wants to be in the house ALL THE TIME.

 

[Arithmetic]

 

[HoldThisL]

It's the going out every single weekend just to go it that does it for me, like relax

 

[mamba]

so yall nikkas dont be wanting to go ziplining, TopGolf, rock climbing, other fun shyt?

I aint been to many places and im a natural homebody..... but i gotta get out and have fun. watching life pass by in the house be feeling like jail

In all fairness, how many women do you know suggesting that type of stuff? You're more likely to end up doing that with your brehs instead.

"Going out" to women = brunch, dinner, etc. so they can be seen, take pics, etc.

Make sure the woman likes to do stuff you like to do as well. That way, going out can be fun for both parties.

Most straight men aren't excited about throwing on brunch boots and listening to a bunch of women chatter.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Fun is different for different people

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i've worked from home for 5 years so I definitely know what its like to not go outside for days at a time. but i still go out and be in the streets when i want to.

 

[calixprynce]

In all fairness, how many women do you know suggesting that type of stuff?

"Going out" to women = brunch, dinner, etc. so they can be seen, take pics, etc.

Make sure the woman likes to do stuff you like to do as well. That way, going out can be fun for both parties.

Most straight men aren't excited about throwing on brunch boots and listening to a bunch of women chatter.

most the women ive dated. theyve all been young tho , 19-24 . im 27 . the younger ones was cool with just fast food and movies tho.

 

[Neuromancer]

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i've worked from home for 5 years so I definitely know what its like to not go outside for days at a time. but i still go out and be in the streets when i want to.

I understand that whole heartedly. Changing of scenery is always good.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

I don't think any of you get it
The generation(s) of women you are all refering to grew up in a household where the wife cooked and the man was watching the news drinking a beer.
They have been conditioned to want to go out, because subconsciously going out means they ain't cooking.

It's as simple as that.
Even if you are a man that cooks, you can't change the past, they grew up in that household

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I can’t speak for other women but when I was in the market, I wanted to go out because I wasn’t going to his house to get mediocre/wack dikk and a Netflix movie with a man I barely knew. I don’t go to men’s house if we haven’t been dating exclusively for a minute and they aren’t allowed to come to my house either so there was no choice in the matter as far as I was concerned.

But I’m not a fan of eating out dates because it’s fatty, and boring. I’d rather eat my own food at home lol. I don’t mind meeting for a couple of drinks and hookah though. But I’ve always liked dates that were more relaxed w/ fun vibes to see brehs out of their element. So when brehs asked me what I wanted to do I always suggested arcades, gun range, escape rooms, go-karts, pool, golf etc. we always had a good time. Every single date I’ve been on always lasts several hours.

with my man, we actually haven’t been going out much the last few weeks because of covid. But he is an extrovert so he likes being out so it was never a big deal. I get restless.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I can’t speak for other women but when I was in the market, I wanted to go out because I wasn’t going to his house to get mediocre/wack dikk and a Netflix movie with a man I barely knew. I don’t go to men’s house if we haven’t been dating exclusively for a minute and they aren’t allowed to come to my house either so there was no choice in the matter as far as I was concerned.

But I’m not a fan of eating out dates because it’s fatty, and boring. I’d rather eat my own food at home lol. I don’t mind meeting for a couple of drinks and hookah though. But I’ve always liked dates that were more relaxed w/ fun vibes to see brehs out of their element. So when brehs asked me what I wanted to do I always suggested arcades, gun range, escape rooms, go-karts, pool, golf etc. we always had a good time. Every single date I’ve been on always lasts several hours.

with my man, we actually haven’t been going out much the last few weeks because of covid. But he is an extrovert so he likes being out so it was never a big deal. I get restless.

Simple

 

[FTBS]

Woman are sociable creatures. They wanna see how you act in social situations. They like having a reason to get dressed up. They like new, fun experiences even if it's the same shyt but with a person that makes it fun. Yeah a free meal, free drinks, free admittance etc. don't hurt.

 

[mamba]

Woman are sociable creatures. They wanna see how you act in social situations. They like having a reason to get dressed up. They like new, fun experiences even if it's the same shyt but with a person that makes it fun. Yeah a free meal, free drinks, free admittance etc. don't hurt.

All of that is true. And men should strike a good balance.

But, at the same time, men aren’t women. So, a lot of women make the mistake of expecting their man to be a version of their girlfriends with a dikk. And a lot of men end up bending over backward to change themselves to keep a woman happy. And they suppress certain things they like to do.

Most straight men aren’t trying to get dressed up every weekend, hitting the same brunch spots over and over, again, listening to a bunch of gossip and pop culture bs.

Men and women are just different. So, that balance has to be struck between the two.

Her idea of “going out” should be balanced with some of the man’s idea of “going out”.

If she cannot get with that, she’s not worth dealing with.

 

[FTBS]

All of that is true. And men should strike a good balance.

But, at the same time, men aren’t women. So, a lot of women make the mistake of expecting their man to be a version of their girlfriends with a dikk. And a lot of men end up bending over backward to change themselves to keep a woman happy. And they suppress certain things they like to do.

Most straight men aren’t trying to get dressed up every weekend, hitting the same brunch spots over and over, again, listening to a bunch of gossip and pop culture bs.

Men and women are just different. So, that balance has to be struck between the two.

Her idea of “going out” should be balanced with some of the man’s idea of “going out”.

If she cannot get with that, she’s not worth dealing with.

All that needed to be said. That's the single biggest problem in the dating game...men and women not understanding that the opposite gender has different priorities and preferences. Most dude's aren't gonna wanna put on clean clothes and go do a bunch of girly shyt all the time. Most chicks aren't gonna wanna lay up and watch you play 2K between fukks and sucks all the time. Like you said, it's about balance. It's also about having common interests and lifestyles. That's the purpose of dating, to see what each other is into and see if ya'll fit.

 

[Neuromancer]

What is so appealing to women when a man takes her out and spends money on her? I've been really trying to figure this out.

All women find this appealing I just can not figure it out.

Do you mean a woman you are in a relationship with or a woman you just met?