What type of father did you have?

Did you have a good dad or nah?


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batsu

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My dad :wow:I can't be more lucky to have him as my dad. He is the hardest working, smartest, and most caring person I know.

He takes shyt from no one. He worked hard his whole life and is his own boss. He can be stubborn, hard headed and strict at times but I am the same way. I always debate with my father on just about everything and it can get heated but in the end he respects my opinion.

He is supportive in whatever I want to do and is willing to put $$$ to help me start up my own business since he says that he worked too hard and made enough money that he doesn't want me to work for anybody.

He is almost 50 and is still at it for my family. He does so many business moves that my mom, me and my siblings are taken care of even if he passes away :mjcry:

He always tells me and lectures me to do better than he did. Be fearless, get a education, use a condom, work hard, invest your money take risks don't be afraid to fail and study.

His father wasn't there for him so he made alot of mistakes when he was younger but he made damn sure I wouldn't make the same.

I'm gonna make you proud papa.
 

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My dad :wow:I can't be more lucky to have him as my dad. He is the hardest working, smartest, and most caring person I know.

He takes shyt from no one. He worked hard his whole life and is his own boss. He can be stubborn, hard headed and strict at times but I am the same way. I always debate with my father on just about everything and it can get heated but in the end he respects my opinion.

He is supportive in whatever I want to do and is willing to put $$$ to help me start up my own business since he says that he worked too hard and made enough money that he doesn't want me to work for anybody.

He is almost 50 and is still at it for my family. He does so many business moves that my mom, me and my siblings are taken care of even if he passes away :mjcry:

He always tells me and lectures me to do better than he did. Be fearless, get a education, use a condom, work hard, invest your money take risks don't be afraid to fail and study.

His father wasn't there for him so he made alot of mistakes when he was younger but he made damn sure I wouldn't make the same.

I'm gonna make you proud papa.
get off that nikka dikk :dame:
 

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My dad was horrible. He was abusive and very controlling. To both me and my two older siblings. We did not have a mother (she died giving birth to me) so my sister tried her best to help raise both me and kankuro to be nothing like my dad. So anyway onto my dad's career. He was a hustled and taught me to sell dope. He was violent with us and this broke me. I often lost my temper and hurt others.


How was your dad?

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My bad bro.

RIP to your moms, I missed that part.

I've always heard about pregnancies that endangers the life of the mother but I never really undersfood the gravity of such a sistuation until reading your OP.

It's fycked up to know your mom died giving birth to you.Compound that with not being able to meet her. I can only imagine the thoughts you have of your mother and how maybe your life would be different if you were able to meet her like most of us on here.

Keep your head up.
 
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Hes always been there financially but in all other areas hes been lackluster. I dont have much of a relationship with him nor do i care to anymore. Once i finally move out in going to have very limited contact with him. Im envious of y'all brehs who can just kick it with your pops :mjcry:
 
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Damn Kazekage-sama you had it rough:mjcry:
To answer the question, my pops was ok. Like somebody else said when he was great he was great, when he was terrible he was fukkin terrible. Lot of times he just did shyt that would make me be like dad what the fukk:why:?
Been a functional alcoholic since I was a youngin, finding your dad passed tf out on the bathroom floor :martin:
Cheated on my mom :martin:
Bums around and misses bill payments all the time :martin:
Hours late to pick me up from school and practice, sometimes didn't come at all :martin:
I used to really dislike him, especially cause his irresponsibility caused my mom so much pain and made me feel like a burden cause of how many times my mom told me how she was only with him for the kids. But at this point I understand that he has his own demons and I don't think I can help him through that:manny:
"Ask my dad how he keep cool, try to be like him,
He said bossy I'm a good actor never be like him"
 

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My parents separated when I was 3 because he was abusive, met him like 6 times in my life and all were terrible experiences, he never really knew how to be a father, acted like he controlled shyt whenever we met:martin:. Last time I met him was 3 years ago, and that is the last time I had any conversation with him..I don't even think I will cry when he dies because I have no emotions towards him..every interaction has been a bad one
 

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Hes always been there financially but in all other areas hes been lackluster. I dont have much of a relationship with him nor do i care to anymore. Once i finally move out in going to have very limited contact with him. Im envious of y'all brehs who can just kick it with your pops :mjcry:

Much respect bro.

Infact, I'm going to fly back to Pennsylvania in 2 months to see my dad.

On some real soldier shyt.
 

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My dad's cool. Extremely intelligent and very helpful. Has his demons though, but shyt ain't nobody perfect.


Dude's a handyman too, I always looked up to him for that. You name it he can probably fix it.:banderas:
 

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Deadbeat. Was abusive towards my mom, shot at my mom and her bf when I was in the car as a baby:damn:I remember two or three instances spending time with him as a child. He came to my HS graduation and my mom had a get-together at our house afterwards, he stood outside the entire time because he felt guilty that he wasn't in my life. On one hand I think "fukk him" because I always wanted a male-figure in my life, my family is consisted of mostly girls and oldheads, but then I try to put myself in his shoes and feel bad for him.

My step dad is the most intelligent, knowledgeable, hard-working(when I found what his side job was :wtf:) person I know. Decent man that was very funny, polite, and deeply cared about us. Loved cars, at one point he had 5 cars. Him and moms only had one argument that I can remember probably because he did us/moms dirty the next day; motherfukka took everything up out the house. He's been locked up for some years now and yet another hope for a male-figure was lost going through my teenage stage when I needed it the most.
 
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