One where dude won't do any tripping when the bill comes. I do believe that men should pay for the first date, however I don't think you need to run his pockets either. He should plan the date around what he would be comfortable paying. I have no problem grabbing coffee, dessert, a free museum or something else inexpensive if that's all he wants to pay for. I just don't want either of us to feel short-changed or like someone got over at the end of it.

I like the idea of the bolded. I've wanted to try that. We'd still have to sit somewhere and talk after that fun and excitement.


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