What's An Acceptable Number Of Sexual Parters For A 21-Year Old Girl To Have?

[Mountain]

There's nothing logical about this, I don't know why men repeat it so much. The very fact that its as easy as it is for women is the reason why women's numbers are generally higher. Its a cause and effect thing.

I doubt you know that "women's numbers are generally higher", but if you do, provide a reference to the source of your claim.

But when men have a lot of numbers, to me it shows a serious character flaw. That means they are actively out there soliciting and trying their hardest to bed as many women as possible. That could signify insecurity or downright untrustworthiness in their character (therefore, not relationship material or worth taking seriously).

So what? I wasn't talking about you in specific. I stated that societies tend to respect "ladies men" whilst chastising "sluts" and provided reasons as of why this is the case. I don’t see how your supposed preference alone is of any relevance here.

As far as evolutionary psychology goes, I really hate when people speak about things they have no idea about. In terms of evolutionary psychology it has always been advantageous for females to have multiple partners, always. The same for men.

As a species our ultimate purpose is to propagate our genetics through reproduction, so copulating with multiple partners is advantageous for both men and women in a sense, but that doesn't change the fact that doing so is more risky for women than it is for men, in fact, if you know anything about “evolutionary psychology” you would understand this to be the foundation of Bateman’s Principle.

The scientific community readily acknowledges that promiscuous activity, or producing multiple offspring, is a lot more risky for women than that it is for men due to two obvious reasons: 1) Birth risk; Child birth is not "risk free", child birth may cause death, the more births a woman is subjected to the larger her risk of dying due to giving birth becomes, men are not subjected to this risk 2) Females of all species, including ours, require additional resources in order to successfully incubate a child during pregnancy, pregnancy literally costs women massive amounts of resources and is very stressful physically/mentally, again, this is a cost we as men are not subjected to. There are plenty more points I could state but I want to keep this very brief.

What you need to realize is that semi-effective forms of contraception were not available until very recently in human history, so the risks above were discounted through evolutionary pressures. In other words; Women have always stood a lot more to lose through copulation than men, and because of this females naturally developed a very "picky" sexual selective attitude during the early stages our evolutionary history that is still apparent today.

 

[Hollywood Co]

Its funny how the number standards have raised in threads like this since I've been posting.

nikkas use to say anymore than 4 before 25 made her a hoe. Now nikkas throwing out 10 and 15 before 21 like its some regular shyt
Don't ask Dont tell tho

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Neither am I. It doesn't matter how many she been with it only matter if she been with nasty nikkas that YOU KNOW personally..

That's an instant

If it's some nikkas I don't know then who the fukk cares.

Pretty much.

You're more than likely not gonna get a truthful answer all the way up front, so why even ask/care?

She may not have fukked a lot of people, but what if she's domed everyone up? What if she just be lickin' ass out the willy nilly?

You'll never know any of those things, I imagine, would be as equally as embarrassing as pure sex to 99% of you guys. I don't get the big obsession with people's numbers.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Pretty much.

You're more than likely not gonna get a truthful answer all the way up front, so why even ask/care?

She may not have fukked a lot of people, but what if she's domed everyone up? What if she just be lickin' ass out the willy nilly?

You'll never know any of those things, I imagine, would be as equally as embarrassing as pure sex to 99% of you guys. I don't get the big obsession with people's numbers.

In college I knew a girl that only had sex with two guys but had given blow-jobs to half the Greek system. That's the mouth that's gonna be kissin' some dude's kids good night one day.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

In college I knew a girl that only had sex with two guys but had given blow-jobs to half the Greek system. That's the mouth that's gonna be kissin' some dude's kids good night one day.

Exactly. In high school I knew girls who were virgins but who blew the whole basketball/baseball/football team.

That's why this whole number issue is stupid. At some point you're gonna become less of a "boyfriend" and more of a private investigator. Can't be worried about things you can't change.

 

[Versa]

I find it lowkey hilarious that we're 9 pages deep into this thread and only 1 female has given her 2 cents

 

[luckyse7enz]

a 21 year old should be going out several times a week since the age of 18. from time to time she will hook up with a guy. that should be 156 weeks.

she might have 3-6 serious boyfriends during that time period, so we'll say 4. but to think she'd be faithful for 156 weeks straight is unrealistic. so we should assume she cheats with 2 guys per relationship. we now have the minimum at 12.

for the single girl, it is expected she hooks up with maybe 2 guys per month if she's conservative. 24/year * 3= 72 guys

the range then becomes 12-72 guys

most girls are in some type of romantic situation, so we'll say 3/4 are in relationships or think they are in relationships

(12*.75)+(72*.25)=26 guys by the age of 21

this number might seem like a lot for the age of 18-21, but i think it makes up for the years i didn't count as well when she was a minor

Cheating with 2 guys PER relationship?

2 DIFFERENT guys a month...for 3 years.

:notsure: Are we talking about the average woman or...YOU?

Anyhow, as a guy, you're better off not asking...or telling. I don't care if I'm in a relationship or if a woman eventually becomes my wife, she'll never know my number. My boys don't even know my number. I just play the background and let people assume.

 

[thoushallhustle]

I usually dont even bother reading these threads because I know my shyt up there. I lost count years ago. Sometimes when im bored I like to play the list every guy I smashed game. Still havent made it past 2009

 

[dennis roadman]

I usually dont even bother reading these threads because I know my shyt up there. I lost count years ago. Sometimes when im bored I like to play the list every guy I smashed game. Still havent made it past 2009

How many digits we talkin here? pushing 4?

 

[bogey_j]

I usually dont even bother reading these threads because I know my shyt up there. I lost count years ago. Sometimes when im bored I like to play the list every guy I smashed game. Still havent made it past 2009

 

[MikelArteta]

Y'all wifing whores

 

[Kalik]

Dude didn't say 2 guys a month = conservative ---- Did he?

 

[Higher Tech]

I met this girl..she's 21 and just candidly stated she's had over 30 sexual partners. on one hand, I appreciate the honesty because with most girls you have to multiply what they say by 3 to get the true answer, but she just came right out and said it..hmmm

so what do you consider the appropriate amount of sexual partners for a 21-year old girl? does it matter to you? would a certain amount turn you off?

If she told you 30, you aint gotta multiply shyt. She just told you 30.

1. Ain't no use in lyin if you already up to 30.

2. The bytch said 30! That's a lotta fukkin. The cooch is probably already worn out.

 

[Higher Tech]

a 21 year old should be going out several times a week since the age of 18. from time to time she will hook up with a guy. that should be 156 weeks.

she might have 3-6 serious boyfriends during that time period, so we'll say 4. but to think she'd be faithful for 156 weeks straight is unrealistic. so we should assume she cheats with 2 guys per relationship. we now have the minimum at 12.

for the single girl, it is expected she hooks up with maybe 2 guys per month if she's conservative. 24/year * 3= 72 guys

the range then becomes 12-72 guys

most girls are in some type of romantic situation, so we'll say 3/4 are in relationships or think they are in relationships

(12*.75)+(72*.25)=26 guys by the age of 21

this number might seem like a lot for the age of 18-21, but i think it makes up for the years i didn't count as well when she was a minor

Get outta here with this horrible excuse for whoring. If I met a chick that was 45 and she told me she had been with 72 dudes ....

That's the last conversation we have.

bytch don't respect me enough to lie.

 

[JasonSJackson]

I like my vechiles new or with very low mileage..........

when you cop one otherwise dont be surprised when it breaks down on you quick or turns out to be a lemon