What's An Acceptable Number Of Sexual Parters For A 21-Year Old Girl To Have?

whats an accpetable number of sexual partners for a 21 year old girl?

  • bytch better be virginal! I don't want no sloppy twentieths and shyt..:scusthov:

    Votes: 28 22.0%
  • under 10 is fine :gladbron:

    Votes: 63 49.6%
  • under 30 is acceptable..but i'm staying strapped up :whoo:

    Votes: 4 3.1%
  • I don't care if she banged over 50 dudes. if im feelin her then sexual history is irrelevant :noah:

    Votes: 7 5.5%
  • i'm not a prude..but damn there comes a point when I'd fear for my health breh

    Votes: 16 12.6%
  • yall need to get out of this backwards mindset and stop putting arbitrary constraints on women :wtb:

    Votes: 9 7.1%

  • Total voters
    127
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Unless dude's gonna be a virgin with his virgin girl, it wouldn't be worth it. Lord knows I've met too many recently converted virgins who say "I don't like sex".

Imagine being a dude stuck in a relationship/marriage with a woman who doesn't... like... sex. :wow: That's too much of a risk.

Like playing Russian Roulette with your sex life :whew: I'd rather know my chick is down for the cause

That's also why I like my chicks birth control free

what the fukk is this dumb nikka talking bout?
:what:

Why the fukk would u be/get stuck in a relationship with a woman who doesnt like the same things u like? :mindblown:
Everything get discussed prior the relationship..what you like,what she likes,what you expect etc
If shyt dont work out she gets cancelled..Russian Roulette? :what:

U muthafukkas sitting here acting like sex is rocket science or something :heh:

Nah nikka..it doesnt take that long for a virgin to turn into an expert
A woman who doesnt like sex is just that..a woman who doesnt like sex...aint got shyt to do with being a virgin


U dumb nikkas think all virgins know 0 bout sex? :usure:

I'd rather live in a country where most women keep their legs closed as they pursue meaningful,longterm relationships than a country where parents let their daughters have boyfriends at 13 and 30 partners at 21 is nothing to sneeze at.

Its funny cuz you nikkas are basically saying,you'd pass on a virgin til other nikkas get at her first and bust her shyt open
When the same chick comes around u years later with 100 dudes under her belt then u gonna holla at her..??
What kinda backward ass thinking is this?and u wanna call nikkas insecure for avoiding whores?

:bryan:

and lol@this nikka always tryina counter nikkas arguments with "i know a lot of..."

U could be talking bout penguins and dude gonna hit u with "i know a lot of penguins doing this,that and the third"

:rudy:

fukk outta here
 

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:dwillhuh: You are confusing the hell out me with this post.

Second, There not one sexually active dude that would make the statement " I would take a virgin that's willing to learn":pachaha:

nikka i been sexually active since i was 13-14..and i'd take a virgin anyday over some bytch who been ran thru

And when it comes to relationships and dating..i stay away from women with high numbers :manny:

50 dikks in her and she has never even been on a single date and u gonna wife that?

:why:

Its true,women and men both lie bout their numbers..but its not that hard to discern if a chick u talking to is damaged goods

P.S if a chick turned me down due to my numbers,i wouldnt be salty :manny:
 

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nikka i been sexually active since i was 13-14..and i'd take a virgin anyday over some bytch who been ran thru

And when it comes to relationships and dating..i stay away from women with high numbers :manny:

50 dikks in her and she has never even been on a single date and u gonna wife that?

:why:

Its true,women and men both lie bout their numbers..but its not that hard to discern if a chick u talking to is damaged goods

P.S if a chick turned me down due to my numbers,i wouldnt be salty :manny:

How do you tell if a chick is damaged goods?

Bruh, aint nobody that been with enough women would desire a fukking virgin.

Unless they have some type of issues with their sex game.:russ:

Virgins don't know what feels good to them and sure hell don't know how to make a nikka feel good.:russ:
 

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what the fukk is this dumb nikka talking bout?
:what:

Why the fukk would u be/get stuck in a relationship with a woman who doesnt like the same things u like? :mindblown:
Everything get discussed prior the relationship..what you like,what she likes,what you expect etc
If shyt dont work out she gets cancelled..Russian Roulette? :what:

U muthafukkas sitting here acting like sex is rocket science or something :heh:

Nah nikka..it doesnt take that long for a virgin to turn into an expert
A woman who doesnt like sex is just that..a woman who doesnt like sex...aint got shyt to do with being a virgin


U dumb nikkas think all virgins know 0 bout sex? :usure:

I'd rather live in a country where most women keep their legs closed as they pursue meaningful,longterm relationships than a country where parents let their daughters have boyfriends at 13 and 30 partners at 21 is nothing to sneeze at.

Its funny cuz you nikkas are basically saying,you'd pass on a virgin til other nikkas get at her first and bust her shyt open
When the same chick comes around u years later with 100 dudes under her belt then u gonna holla at her..??
What kinda backward ass thinking is this?and u wanna call nikkas insecure for avoiding whores?

:bryan:

and lol@this nikka always tryina counter nikkas arguments with "i know a lot of..."

U could be talking bout penguins and dude gonna hit u with "i know a lot of penguins doing this,that and the third"

:rudy:

fukk outta here

nikka I'm only speaking from experience, so yes, I will say "I know a lot of" a lot because I know a lot of women. Im pretty sure I've been with more women than the lot of you so I look at things differently when it comes to women, sex, etc.

You're admiring countries where they have a mantra of "men for pleasure and women as an obligation" and wondering why their women have low numbers. :dwillhuh:

I'm not saying don't avoid whores, but this whole "Imma ask for a body count" steeze is stupid considering all of the other sexual acts women do. Dudes are in here acting like sexual acts stop at intercourse. At that point it seems like more of an insecurity/self implied ego stroking rather than actually wanting a "pure" woman. If you have something good that's all that should matter.

I'm not saying I'd pass on a virgin (because if everything matches up, I'm not letting sexual experience/inexperience plague my mind into letting go of something good) but itd be a lot of work more than likely and itd suck to do something long-term, take her virginity, and then have her not like sex. That's a waste of her and my time.

Also, past a certain age, women who are virgins tend to be straight up weird. IMO, there's jut as much wrong with a 25-30 year old virgin and a 30 year old with a high body count. Either she's never been in a steady relationship or the ones that she has never get deep enough for her to be taken seriously.
 

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How do you tell if a chick is damaged goods?

Bruh, aint nobody that been with enough women would desire a fukking virgin.

Unless they have some type of issues with their sex game.:russ:

:what:

see its posts like these that lead me to believe u nikkas dont know what the fukk u talking bout

U dont have to ask a chick straight up "so how many guys have u fukked?" to know she was/is still a ho..thats what lame nikkas do

If you're a man over the age of 18 and cant tell whether a chick has been ran thru after talking to her for a few days/weeks..you're a fukking idiot..simple as that..and i cant help u there buddy..

dont u go around telling people you're married?if u find out the whole football team used to run plays around her u gonna be mad at her?especially if she told u how big of a "party" girl she was in college when u met her? :usure:



Virgins don't know what feels good to them and sure hell don't know how to make a nikka feel good.:russ:
:mindblown:

Do you know what virginity means? :usure:
You think virgins dont learn bout sex?experiment with it on their own?masturbate?keep shoe boxes full of toys?[no femme]

There are women over 30 with football numbers..who dont know what the fukk they are doing..whats your point?

U may think your wife is a pro..send her to me and ima throw that bytch in the bushes :manny:

I have been with a lot of women and i'd take a virgin with a quickness..:ahh:
 

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how about you men worry about how many people you've been with and stop trying to dictate to women what to do with their bodies.


Nobody is worried about trying to stop you, that clearly isn't possible, but if you say a number that high expect dudes to react a certain way. You made that nasty bed, you have to lay in it :manny:
 

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Society does a lot of things. It subjugates one group, usually for the benefit of another. Nothing surprising there, it happens throughout history and has zero to do with anything that is natural biologically. After all, if it was natural, what reason would there be to enforce it with rules and shaming tactics?

Every aspect of society is derived from human nature, whether art, regulations, “shaming tactics”, rules, architecture, views, standards, concepts .e.t.c everything in society is born from human nature, which, of course, is both natural and biological. So what you’re inadvertently suggesting is that something originating from human nature “has zero to do with anything that is natural biologically”, which obviously makes no sense.

Being promiscuous is more risky for both male and female. For males more partners equals the need for gathering more resources, which is often an exhausting task. It also means more competition with other males for those resources, and thus greater chance of violence, death, etc. If you actually understood Bateman’s principle I have no idea why you’d suggest that multiple partners is not more risky for men. Bateman’s principle was also debunked a long time ago anyway.

Not equally as risky. What you’re implying suggests that intra-species competition for resources between males doesn't pose a risk to females, which is clearly untrue, even today fierce competition between men over resources has lead to the death of children and females, so imagine what collateral damages would have be apparent in less civil archaic times.

Competitive risk does not exclude females, implying such indicates that you have a very parochial understanding regarding the topic. On the other hand, gestation, incubation and child birth are specific costs only female mammals are subjected to, which goes on to illustrate my point - women stand to lose more by mating successfully. Also, I find it funny that you question my understanding of Bateman’s Principle when the primary tenants of the principle is that “women invest more into producing offspring than males”.

Lastly, aspects of Bateman’s Principle have been debunked not the entire principle, and the debunked aspects do not concern the parental investment aspect of human species, most of the debunked aspects are intra-species studies of other species such as drophilia, chimpanzees and scorpions.

Once again, multiple partners is riskier for both. But from an evolutionary psychology perspective, it doesn’t matter because that risk will be taken since the ultimate goal is to pass on genes. Also, from an evolutionary perspective, it actually makes zero sense for a female to be monogamous to only one male. Having multiple partners does more to 1) ensure pregnancy (more sperm) 2) receive the best possible genes 3) more resources 4) reduce risk of infanticide (if none of the males are sure of whose offspring it is, they are less likely to harm the child), and many more advantages.
Please state your other points though if you have them, because none of those overcome the evolutionary psychology urge to pass on your genes.

I’ve already acknowledged that our ultimate goal is genetic propagation and that for both male/females polygamy is beneficial in a sense, still, this does not eliminate the difference in reproductive cost/risks that exists between genders, or the fact that females have evolved an affinity towards quality as oppose to a quantity because they are the limiting sex. Also, I’ve never argued for monogamy, I’m not sure where that inference even came from. Just because females have evolved to pick mates in a more efficient/choosy manner than men doesn't mean they are naturally monogamous (this is where you're misunderstanding me).

It seems your contention is against me stating that “females are naturally picky when choosing partners to mate with”, what you're suggesting is that the difference between genders in terms of parental risk/investment had no baring on our evolution, which again is completely false. The limiting sex of our species (and most other mammals) are females, this is basic natural selection theory, females are not labelled the limiting sex because of societal pressures only, they are assigned this title due to biological dimorphism and evolution.

Robert Trivers formed the parental investment principle which explains that human females have adapted to become much more discriminating/efficient than men when choosing sexual partners due to; the limit in which a female can ovulate given a certain period, the biological cost necessary to lactate, the investment necessary to nurture the child, child birth risks, the entire gestation process .e.t.c.

Charles Darwin, the father of evolutionary study, bolstered this theory via his book the “the origin of species” in which he states that all female mammals (accept hyenas) are the limiting sex (in fact, that book originated the term) due to the fact that reproduction is more costly for them compared to men, he also explained that male mammals aggressively compete for women because of the need to qualify themselves due to female mammals “picky" nature.

Again females mammals are the “picky“, or, “choosy” sex due to evolution, as acknowledged by the John Batemans’s investment principle, Charles Darwin’s theory of inter-sexual selection and Robert Trivers parental investment principle.

Irrelevant. Females haven’t selected to be more picky sexually, they are just told to be because it is beneficial for male’s to ensure the paternity of their off spring. That’s pretty much the entire reason why monogamy is useful, not to mention, for humans specifically, investment by both parents increases the chances of the infant’s survival and fitness probably a hundred fold.

I'll post the study about women reporting having more partners than men on average when you take away social pressure, etc.

Hopefully what I’ve wrote above justifies me not responding to this comment in full, but again, alot of this is wrong, you can’t just label years of intra-species adaptation “social pressure”, nor can you attribute it to paternity identification only, because you’d be ignoring decades of established evolutionary science.
 
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nowhere did i disclose my amount of partners. threads like these are meant to try to dictate what a woman should do with her body by shaming or implying she has little value.


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ybe[/MENTION] nowhere did i say 72 was normal for the average girl, i said it was normal for a girl always single. for a girl always in a relationship, 12 partners is normal. the average girl isn't always single or in a relationship, so i said a good average number would be 26. these figures can include partners from before she was 18


i still don't think 72 is a lot because it demonstrates immense control on the part of the woman. do you think a woman is hit on only 72 times in three years? no way, much more. you guys don't get it. women are rich in dikk, so women don't value snagging an attractive guy as much as a man values snagging an attractive girl. a woman wants to fukk a male dime? easy. all she has to do is offer it. guy wants to fukk a female dime? he has to put in work
 

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nikka I'm only speaking from experience, so yes, I will say "I know a lot of" a lot because I know a lot of women. Im pretty sure I've been with more women than the lot of you so I look at things differently when it comes to women, sex, etc.
I highly doubt someone with your post count has even been with 1/4 of the women i been with..but yeha feel free to believe what u want


You're admiring countries where they have a mantra of "men for pleasure and women as an obligation" and wondering why their women have low numbers. :dwillhuh:

I'm not saying don't avoid whores, but this whole "Imma ask for a body count" steeze is stupid considering all of the other sexual acts women do. Dudes are in here acting like sexual acts stop at intercourse. At that point it seems like more of an insecurity/self implied ego stroking rather than actually wanting a "pure" woman. If you have something good that's all that should matter.
Its clearly u havent traveled anywhere
Well i have and trust me there's no such thing as "men for pleasure and women as an obligation"..:comeon:
Women just hold themselves to a higher standard and being modest and chaste is actually a good thing.
Dont kid yourself,there are whores all over the world.They serve their purpose but thats where it stops.Nobody wants a whore for a girlfriend or wife.
Western women used to be modest and chaste and then they got "free" :heh:

I'm not saying I'd pass on a virgin (because if everything matches up, I'm not letting sexual experience/inexperience plague my mind into letting go of something good) but itd be a lot of work more than likely and itd suck to do something long-term, take her virginity, and then have her not like sex. That's a waste of her and my time.

Dawg how many sexually active women do u know who dont like sex?and the bigger question is why??
These women tend to have physical or psychological problems..a normal woman is not going to dislike sex..just wont happen

I knew a chick who had to undergo two surgeries because of some defect that caused a lot of pain during penetration
But this ho stayed hitting me up trying to fukk :mindblown:

Also, past a certain age, women who are virgins tend to be straight up weird. IMO, there's jut as much wrong with a 25-30 year old virgin and a 30 year old with a high body count. Either she's never been in a steady relationship or the ones that she has never get deep enough for her to be taken seriously.

I see what you're saying but women stay virgins for different reasons
-Some women just want the hymen intact for some future husband

Now some of these may still engage in other sexual acts..anal,oral etc...all they care bout is preserving that hymen

These are fake ass virgins...they are similar to women who claim celibacy but violate themselves with cucumbers and plungers every night

-Some virgins just value themselves that much to bust it open willy nilly
They want something real and meaningful before spreading their legs
-Some have issues or think no man is good enough for them
-Some lead a busy life and also want something real
Its not that outlandish for a woman to go from high school,college,graduate school to work force with her hymen intact..it happens,some women are just that determined and focused.


Lets be reality for a sec..how hard is it for an ugly chick[forget a dime] to sleep with a least 2 guys a day??
For a chick to have 30 dudes at 21?that shyt cray...how many relationships did she have?when did she start fukking?

Liking sex and whoring it up are two different things
If a girl likes to sleep with different men to the point she doing 30 by 21..what makes u think she gonna stop after meeting u? :usure:

and since u dont ask bout a girl's past..are u gonna trip the day u walk into a room with your girl and 6-7 nikkas just start laughing at u?
bet u aint gonna ask why they laughing..are u?

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lol @ nikkas gettin shamed into lowering they standards

"naw naw her having 26 bodies by 21 is normal" :laff:

get the fukk out of here.

I chose under 10...but if she can count on both hands by 21....yea, no
 

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what the fukk is this dumb nikka talking bout?
:what:

Why the fukk would u be/get stuck in a relationship with a woman who doesnt like the same things u like? :mindblown:
Everything get discussed prior the relationship..what you like,what she likes,what you expect etc
If shyt dont work out she gets cancelled..Russian Roulette? :what:

U muthafukkas sitting here acting like sex is rocket science or something :heh:

Nah nikka..it doesnt take that long for a virgin to turn into an expert
A woman who doesnt like sex is just that..a woman who doesnt like sex...aint got shyt to do with being a virgin


U dumb nikkas think all virgins know 0 bout sex? :usure:

I'd rather live in a country where most women keep their legs closed as they pursue meaningful,longterm relationships than a country where parents let their daughters have boyfriends at 13 and 30 partners at 21 is nothing to sneeze at.

Its funny cuz you nikkas are basically saying,you'd pass on a virgin til other nikkas get at her first and bust her shyt open
When the same chick comes around u years later with 100 dudes under her belt then u gonna holla at her..??
What kinda backward ass thinking is this?and u wanna call nikkas insecure for avoiding whores?

:bryan:

and lol@this nikka always tryina counter nikkas arguments with "i know a lot of..."

U could be talking bout penguins and dude gonna hit u with "i know a lot of penguins doing this,that and the third"

:rudy:

fukk outta here

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nowhere did i disclose my amount of partners. threads like these are meant to try to dictate what a woman should do with her body by shaming or implying she has little value.

Women can do with their body as they please, just like men have every right to react the way we do to hearing 1960s Wilt Chamberlain stats. If someone feels shame and has to lie, then odds are they aren't actually secure with what they've done. The point here is asking men what they feel is acceptable, people answered.


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ybe[/MENTION] nowhere did i say 72 was normal for the average girl, i said it was normal for a girl always single. for a girl always in a relationship, 12 partners is normal. the average girl isn't always single or in a relationship, so i said a good average number would be 26. these figures can include partners from before she was 18

Your grading scale is all types of jacked up.



i still don't think 72 is a lot because it demonstrates immense control on the part of the woman. do you think a woman is hit on only 72 times in three years? no way, much more. you guys don't get it. women are rich in dikk, so women don't value snagging an attractive guy as much as a man values snagging an attractive girl. a woman wants to fukk a male dime? easy. all she has to do is offer it. guy wants to fukk a female dime? he has to put in work

Immense control, what world are you living in? control would be the woman that doesn't feel the need to throw it at every other guy she meets. What kind of low self esteem chick needs to throw herself at 72 different men in 3 years? That is a new sexual partner every other week, for 3 years straight, how anyone can find that acceptable is beyond me. That tells me a chick couldn't find one single dude that found her worthwhile beyond just fukking. And that is probably close to the body count an amateur pornstar racks up in the same period of time.

Someone like that is not stable, period, a long term relationship with a person like that is absolutely destined to fail.
 

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Anything over 5 by the age of 21 is not wifey material for me personally. Lotta chicks on here might get mad at that statement but its true. I don't judge women by their sexual choices nor do I attempt to tell them how to live their lives, but a chick who has ten bodies by the age of 21 is not for me
 

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nowhere did i say 72 was normal for the average girl, i said it was normal for a girl always single. for a girl always in a relationship, 12 partners is normal. the average girl isn't always single or in a relationship, so i said a good average number would be 26. these figures can include partners from before she was 18

normal for a woman of what age? :what: 21?

12 partners is normal for a 21 year old woman who is always in a relationship???

and 26 is normal for 21 year old who stays single all the time? :usure:




i still don't think 72 is a lot because it demonstrates immense control on the part of the woman. do you think a woman is hit on only 72 times in three years? no way, much more. you guys don't get it. women are rich in dikk, so women don't value snagging an attractive guy as much as a man values snagging an attractive girl. a woman wants to fukk a male dime? easy. all she has to do is offer it. guy wants to fukk a female dime? he has to put in work

Are u this retarded or just :troll:??

72 different penises in 3 years demonstrates immense control on the part of the woman??

:mindblown:

Just because u have something that men want to stick their dikks in between your legs..its a struggle for you hoes to say no?to the point where saying yes 24 times a year is considered a demonstration of immense control???

and if you're not talking bout your own numbers indirectly,how would u know how often other women have having sex with different men?which study did u pull these facts from??how bout a link??



a woman wants to fukk a male dime? easy. all she has to do is offer it.
This is not true at all..having a vagina doesnt mean EVERY MALE OUT THERE IS TRYING TO HAVE SEX WITH NO MATTER HOW UGLY OR AVERAGE U LOOK

u can offer all u want..but if you're ugly or average it really depends on that man's options
Being a fine ass nikka myself..think i speak for all of us when i say WE GOT STANDARDS TOO..

:youngsabo:
 
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