Whats considered Nerdy in the black community? Cuz I don't fukking know

[Mac Brown]

take a fukking look at this. you nikkas on here are grown, yet you still dont understand how this woman shyt works? talking bout watching anime, reading etc. if you're ugly what ever you do will be seen as creepy, weird, or different period. It shouldn't be like that, but it is. if a woman(^^ chick i qouted as an example) thinks your "cute" it will be seen as cute, Edgy, and different( in a good way). For instance i told a chick i didn't want to go out with her that night because i was watching a Starcraft ll tournament on twitch. she hit me with the "whats that? is it like dungeons and dragons".really?i told her come over and find out. long story short she came over and watched the shyt with me. was she bored, maybe? fukk if i cared, i told her she could leave if she wanted. And i still fukked her HARD after the shyt was over.

you can be a serial killer, as long as your attractive you can/will get away with anything. /thread

 

[Blackout]

It's about cornballs using scapegoats to excuse their wackness.

Your nerdy interests don't turn people off, it's your lack of social skills.

Speaking properly or being educated isn't the problem, it's you trying to act like you're the smartest dude in the room.

shyt like that....but this pot is about done so let me get out the kitchen

Could be true for some without social skills but lets not act like there arent women who ramp up the difficulty for men with nerdy interest despite them having social skills compared to other men with more popular interests.

To me it all comes down to popularity or looks.

Some desert being made here.

 

[Kufismack]

nah. its more to it than that breh.

bottom line, if alot of people often brush you off as a nerd, then theres something that youre doing wrong aside from "knowing too much".

.

Such as?

 

[How Sway?]

tbh REAL nerds that are true to the stereotype get no love anywhere. Hell not even in the Asian American community to an extent

BUT i will say black nerds, are completely fukkked when in come to dating

Other races Might be at a disadvantage but black geeks are at a severe disadvantage with their own women

real talk. Seen it with my own eyes mayne

 

[Wacky D]

Such as?

i dont know. you tell me.

im just trying to help ya ass. but instead, you up here trying to play me with smileys, when apparently the joke is on you IRL.

 

[Kufismack]

i dont know. you tell me.

im just trying to help ya ass. but instead, you up here trying to play me with smileys, when apparently the joke is on you IRL.

 

[Wacky D]

tbh REAL nerds that are true to the stereotype get no love anywhere. Hell not even in the Asian American community to an extent

BUT i will say black nerds, are completely fukkked when in come to dating

Other races Might be at a disadvantage but black geeks are at a severe disadvantage with their own women

real talk. Seen it with my own eyes mayne

that jawn that people are dissin on here, she made me realize something.

most nerds try to date up, way out of their league.

how come we never see a nerdy couple? that chit is RARE. nerds are full of self-hate.

 

[William F. Russell]

that jawn that people are dissin on here, she made me realize something.

most nerds try to date up, way out of their league.

how come we never see a nerdy couple? that chit is RARE. nerds are full of self-hate.

Show me a nerdy black girl that wants to date a nerd....show me a nerdy black girl, period.

 

[Wacky D]

Show me a nerdy black girl that wants to date a nerd....show me a nerdy black girl, period.

look no further than the 1st post.

 

[William F. Russell]

look no further than the 1st post.

what 1st post?

the first poster who responded was Ego Noir

 

[philmonroe]

that jawn that people are dissin on here, she made me realize something.

most nerds try to date up, way out of their league.

how come we never see a nerdy couple? that chit is RARE. nerds are full of self-hate.

Yeah this is a lot of,cats problem nerd or not. Cornball nikkas trying to get with hot chicks they know out if their league then crying like bytches when they get the usual result.

 

[Blackout]

that jawn that people are dissin on here, she made me realize something.

most nerds try to date up, way out of their league.

how come we never see a nerdy couple? that chit is RARE. nerds are full of self-hate.

Nah, I love nerdy chicks and my many nerd friends did too.

Average nerdy women don't look for nerdy men and get targeted by all men.

You know how much men would want a girl who plays video games? Let's be real here D.

There are nerdy womem who make bank just playing video games in front of a camera.

 

[havoc]

tbh REAL nerds that are true to the stereotype get no love anywhere. Hell not even in the Asian American community to an extent

BUT i will say black nerds, are completely fukkked when in come to dating

Other races Might be at a disadvantage but black geeks are at a severe disadvantage with their own women

real talk. Seen it with my own eyes mayne

One of my long-time friend is a network engineer/programmer and he get p*ssy all the time. The homie flew all the way from Washington to Atlanta to smash a few of his side-pieces Nerdy black men get p*ssy. I seen it all the time. You dudes in here need to stop creating a single narrative for every intelligent black man.

 

[philmonroe]

youre going str8 to Z from A again, good brother. just because you hang in the streets, as opposed to being in the house, it doesnt mean youre deep into crime. most likely, youre not into crime at all.

meanwhile, the nerdiest semi-relevant dude from around my way was one of the 1st ones with a kid. i dont think dude ever went to a university either.

edit: "semi-relevant", meaning theres other nerds around there but people dont know them like that.

Man you have to realize @7Revo is one them dudes that lived in the house his whole life and has no experience in shyt. You can tell by the stuff he says he shunned from "cool" things and copes by being a "nerd" like most of the cats that claim stuff like that. You can definitely hang in the streets and do good in school, get chicks and everything else without living in the house being a "nerd" but these dudes just bitter or something.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I hate pretentious people that label themselves nerds as if it's a badge of honor. Nerd simply equals having interests ur devoted to. History buff, sci-if nerd, otaku, gamer, whatever.

Being a nerd gets a negative connotation when u devote so much time to ur interest that you forsake cultivating real life necessary social skills. In many cases these hobbies initially were a way to escape from stressful social interaction anyway.

So a lot of so-called nerds develop a massive chip on their shoulder. They elevate their standards in a mate to massive proportions so that they can claim that they are alone b/c their standards are too high. They develop a deep set hatred towards the opposite sex of their own race not necessarily due to rejection ( b/c they don't approach people) but due to their unrealistic expectations that Beyoncé or Idris Elba is going to brush the orange stains off that faded WoW shirt, or lift up that roll of fat to get to that doofy ass heart of dubious gold on the inside. Nerds are all about expecting the world to see that even though they look like a 3 and act like a 2, they deserve a 10.

The most peculiar aspect of nerdism is the fact that they rarely go for their own counterparts in their own race. Lol! You put a male and a female nerd in a room together and they'll SWEAR that they've never met anyone like themselves so they HAD to go date out, right? They utilize racist ideas and stereotypes about the opposite sex of their own race to ultimate justify why they were never romantically successful. Dating out isn't necessarily about c00ning even tho they adopt c00n ideas to justify it. It's about trying to re-invent themselves to people of different races so as to find a mate and prove to those evil people in grade school that they are worthy. The hoops I've seen these people jump through to get with someone of another race is "damn Gina!"

When it doesn't work even with non-blk "perfection" (see IR divorce rates) some finally do some introspection. Others just come online and try to live like Gods. But even then that awkwardness, that lack social aptitude, that inability to connect shines through and u know Exxxxxactly what type of person ur dealing wit.

Shyt is fascinating.

that jawn that people are dissin on here, she made me realize something.

most nerds try to date up, way out of their league.

how come we never see a nerdy couple? that chit is RARE. nerds are full of self-hate.

That is EXACTLY what I was talking about when I was ranting. Lol

Show me a nerdy black girl that wants to date a nerd....show me a nerdy black girl, period.

Excuses. Nerdy blk girls are just as ignored by nerdy blk men as nerdy blk men are by nerdy blk girls. Ya'll think ur too good for each other but that would be an assholish thing to say so you pretend they either didn't exist or didn't want u. I see this dynamic constantly in middle school now. Lol!

Yeah this is a lot of,cats problem nerd or not. Cornball nikkas trying to get with hot chicks they know out if their league then crying like bytches when they get the usual result.