so let’s be real majority of black men and women are not in this top tier as singles overalljust because u and the 3 people u know are don’t mean the other 96 are eating good as well
What's really out here for Medium Value Men (50 -90k per year)?
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so let’s be real majority of black men and women are not in this top tier as singles overalljust because u and the 3 people u know are don’t mean the other 96 are eating good as well
Some cats are delusional and not that men can be a$$holes and play the fukk out of women.
Like legit turn a blind eye to certain behaviors.
xXOGLEGENDXx
Veteran
Realest shyt i ever read.
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Get you a nice wholesome girl and settle down
Silver Surfer
Veteran
At the thread title
The full truth didn't fit the narrative I was pushing breh.goddamn. Look, I got no beef with you personally so if you feel offended by what I'm about to say then my bad I guess, but I want to point something out to other brehs who maybe aren't quick to pick up on certain subtle bullshyt.
Anyway, the first thing this nikka said ITT was:
That's our starting point. Breh said he was making $11/hr and had his own place and even added the Ye shrug to boot. Now granted he later - when pressed - clarified and said that he was actually working 65hrs a week, had a whole side hustle and was STILL struggling....but notice how what he initially said was simply that he was making $11/hr and had his own place.
I hope each and every one of you are taking the bullshyt you read on here with a grain of salt and not letting the nonsense you see alter your perception of reality because MFs get on here and lie or omit the truth for no reason whatsoever.
Elle Driver
Veteran
Big facts. But I think it’s cultural too.
Let me put the question like this..
"When it comes to dating, what's out there for somewhat above average people?? Are they expected to settle for average or even below average situations??"
And the answer, as I see it, is... "Yes"
Thats all there is for you!
But that's true for a lot of things in life
Where --- The outcome from being somewhat above average ..
Is not discernably different than being average or even somewhat below average
I put my time, energy, and resources into situations where i can be remarkably superior or top tier
And thankfully i have a few areas where i can channel that energy
Or.. I also put effort into areas where i am noticeably inferior.. Of which i also have a few
And work my way up to an approximation of average so i can blend in
I mean,, the Beatles had a lot of classic hit songs..
And sometimes paul McCartney would lock in on a good but not great song
And drive everyone nuts trying to improve it
And john Lennon or someone would take him aside and say "give it up, man.. You can't force that song to be a #1 hit..'
And they'd finally move on to more fertile possibilities
And thats what I would tell many of you..
Don't waste your time trying to date out of your natural range ..
I mean, make good choices.. Do what you can
But really,,, move on..
Look at areas of life where effort and hard work might make a difference for you
"When it comes to dating, what's out there for somewhat above average people?? Are they expected to settle for average or even below average situations??"
And the answer, as I see it, is... "Yes"
Thats all there is for you!
But that's true for a lot of things in life
Where --- The outcome from being somewhat above average ..
Is not discernably different than being average or even somewhat below average
I put my time, energy, and resources into situations where i can be remarkably superior or top tier
And thankfully i have a few areas where i can channel that energy
Or.. I also put effort into areas where i am noticeably inferior.. Of which i also have a few
And work my way up to an approximation of average so i can blend in
I mean,, the Beatles had a lot of classic hit songs..
And sometimes paul McCartney would lock in on a good but not great song
And drive everyone nuts trying to improve it
And john Lennon or someone would take him aside and say "give it up, man.. You can't force that song to be a #1 hit..'
And they'd finally move on to more fertile possibilities
And thats what I would tell many of you..
Don't waste your time trying to date out of your natural range ..
I mean, make good choices.. Do what you can
But really,,, move on..
Look at areas of life where effort and hard work might make a difference for you
Wink Beaufield
Superstar
Do y’all realize how many women in that salary range would love to get a dude at a comparable salary ?
yall live in a mental bubble
When the joints at my job found out I bought a house....
yall want them ant life build a thot
If you a single black male clearing anything over 40 you statistically better than most. This website be existing in fantasy land. Basically always
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Let me share my experience with you, sis. I have a "high value man". I don't work outside the home but i do useful things like cook everyday, and drywall. 
My man caters to me, cherishes me. They're not all dikkheads, i promise.
My man caters to me, cherishes me. They're not all dikkheads, i promise.
Cap
