What's really out here for Medium Value Men (50 -90k per year)?

[King Poetic]

so let’s be real majority of black men and women are not in this top tier as singles overall

just because u and the 3 people u know are don’t mean the other 96 are eating good as well

 

[Serious]

Single baby mamas (32 and up) be ready to offer u everything

Believe me.... Had plenty bring food to my job, buy me clothes, let me rearrange they mouth and p*ssy ,,, however A LOT BE READY FOR MARRIAGE AFTER 2 dates

 

[Serious]

If you don’t listen to men like KS and AMS and see the heartlessness that destroys our community you must be one of them too.

Some cats are delusional and not that men can be a$$holes and play the fukk out of women.

Like legit turn a blind eye to certain behaviors.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

Those average New Yorkers making 50K are grown ass adults with 2 roommates...you're not making due in NYC with 50K unless you live at home

 

[edzyy]

Single baby mamas (32 and up) be ready to offer u everything

Believe me.... Had plenty bring food to my job, buy me clothes, let me rearrange they mouth and p*ssy ,,, however A LOT BE READY FOR MARRIAGE AFTER 2 dates

Realest shyt i ever read.

 

[Diondon]

Get you a nice wholesome girl and settle down

 

[Silver Surfer]

At the thread title

 

[MJ Truth]

goddamn. Look, I got no beef with you personally so if you feel offended by what I'm about to say then my bad I guess, but I want to point something out to other brehs who maybe aren't quick to pick up on certain subtle bullshyt.

Anyway, the first thing this nikka said ITT was:



That's our starting point. Breh said he was making $11/hr and had his own place and even added the Ye shrug to boot. Now granted he later - when pressed - clarified and said that he was actually working 65hrs a week, had a whole side hustle and was STILL struggling....but notice how what he initially said was simply that he was making $11/hr and had his own place.

I hope each and every one of you are taking the bullshyt you read on here with a grain of salt and not letting the nonsense you see alter your perception of reality because MFs get on here and lie or omit the truth for no reason whatsoever.

The full truth didn't fit the narrative I was pushing breh.

 

[Elle Driver]

Black women ain't that money hungry. Moreso than any other race of women they'll probably hold you down. But white chicks and asian females are super golddiggers and always about that paper first.

Big facts. But I think it’s cultural too.

 

[old_timer]

Let me put the question like this..

"When it comes to dating, what's out there for somewhat above average people?? Are they expected to settle for average or even below average situations??"

And the answer, as I see it, is... "Yes"
Thats all there is for you!

But that's true for a lot of things in life
Where --- The outcome from being somewhat above average ..
Is not discernably different than being average or even somewhat below average

I put my time, energy, and resources into situations where i can be remarkably superior or top tier
And thankfully i have a few areas where i can channel that energy
Or.. I also put effort into areas where i am noticeably inferior.. Of which i also have a few
And work my way up to an approximation of average so i can blend in

I mean,, the Beatles had a lot of classic hit songs..
And sometimes paul McCartney would lock in on a good but not great song
And drive everyone nuts trying to improve it
And john Lennon or someone would take him aside and say "give it up, man.. You can't force that song to be a #1 hit..'
And they'd finally move on to more fertile possibilities

And thats what I would tell many of you..
Don't waste your time trying to date out of your natural range ..
I mean, make good choices.. Do what you can

But really,,, move on..
Look at areas of life where effort and hard work might make a difference for you

 

[Wink Beaufield]

Do y’all realize how many women in that salary range would love to get a dude at a comparable salary ?

yall live in a mental bubble

When the joints at my job found out I bought a house....

 

[Soundbwoy]

there plenty of dope single woman around yall want them ant life build a thot

 

[Deafheaven]

If you a single black male clearing anything over 40 you statistically better than most. This website be existing in fantasy land. Basically always

 

[HarlemHottie]

If you don’t listen to men like KS and AMS and see the heartlessness that destroys our community you must be one of them too.

Let me share my experience with you, sis. I have a "high value man". I don't work outside the home but i do useful things like cook everyday, and drywall.

My man caters to me, cherishes me. They're not all dikkheads, i promise.

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

Let me share my experience with you, sis. I have a "high value man". I don't work outside the home but i do useful things like cook everyday, and drywall.

My man caters to me, cherishes me. They're not all dikkheads, i promise.

Cap