What's really out here for Medium Value Men (50 -90k per year)?

[philmonroe]

so let’s be real majority of black men and women are not in this top tier as singles overall

just because u and the 3 people u know are don’t mean the other 96 are eating good as well

Most people don't care about the other 96. Only fronting performative cats on and offline like to pull that stunt.

 

[Rhyse]

Let me share my experience with you, sis. I have a "high value man". I don't work outside the home but i do useful things like cook everyday, and drywall.

My man caters to me, cherishes me. They're not all dikkheads, i promise.

Oh trust I know. I was raised by a HVM. I know there are good Bothers out there. There’s just an influx of this that follow KS and AMS and don’t see how detrimental men like that are to our community as a whole. They are brainwashed and feeding that toxic behavior to others. Shouts out to you and yours Sis! I’m glad to know there are happy couples out there.

 

[philmonroe]

Exactly, dudes tend to forget that fact all the time. All it takes is the right energy at the right time - dudes conflate money with getting women. Sure, they're logistically related in terms of increasing your odds of being in the same place or being able to meet women efficiently. But beyond that, nah

You two nikkas are stupid as fukk. The outlier situation isn't the norm dummies smfh. I know that seems harsh but too many of you dudes come online with some powerball chance stories and make that the norm like you don't live life in the real world.

 

[JT-Money]

Oh trust I know. I was raised by a HVM. I know there are good Bothers out there. There’s just an influx of this that follow KS and AMS and don’t see how detrimental men like that are to our community as a whole. They are brainwashed and feeding that toxic behavior to others. Shouts out to you and yours Sis! I’m glad to know there are happy couples out there.

Care to share any examples? I don't believe all their content is bad in my opinion. And I think dudes are able to discern good advice from bad. But just saying everything about them is negative is going overboard.

The biggest detriment to marriage is the high divorce rate. Not some YouTuber's channel.

 

[philmonroe]

You could make $14 an hour, get your own spot, have a car (ANY fukking car brehs), and eat well if you are just outgoing, or good with online dating.

Unfortunately, most of the Coli's takes come from guys who don't actually ever SPEAK to women.

Quoted for emphasis. The last part is esp true. If you saw most of these dudes IRL that would let you know all you need to know why they can't get women. Online they can hide by not seeing how they look, how they interact with women, financial situation, etc. IRL you see signs of most of that real quick so the stuff dudes can say on here and get away with don't work offline. That's why ime dudes don't try these same stunts some try on here with regards to women. They know they have to come on here and YouTube and speak to their other wack tier brothers.

 

[mamba]

Single baby mamas (32 and up) be ready to offer u everything

Believe me.... Had plenty bring food to my job, buy me clothes, let me rearrange they mouth and p*ssy ,,, however A LOT BE READY FOR MARRIAGE AFTER 2 dates

Some of the best birthday gifts I’ve gotten have been from single mothers I was fukking.

They really do go the extra mile.

 

[MJ Truth]

Some of the best birthday gifts I’ve gotten have been from single mothers I was fukking.

They really do go the extra mile.

Damn, might have to get rid of my no single moms rule.

 

[philmonroe]

Damn, might have to get rid of my no single moms rule.

Nah keep it and like I said before you gotta throw the challenge flag at dudes unfounded claims.

 

[mamba]

Damn, might have to get rid of my no single moms rule.

Don't wife them up. But, wrap up and fukk them. If you don't, someone else will.

Single mothers are for the streets.

 

[Luken]

Don't wife them up. But, wrap up and fukk them. If you don't, someone else will.

Single mothers are for the streets.

@CarmelBarbie

 

[Shadow King]

Your response implied that 50-90K is higher than "medium value" in NYC...it's not.

 

[Roid Jones]

Care to share any examples? I don't believe all their content is bad in my opinion. And I think dudes are able to discern good advice from bad. But just saying everything about them is negative is going overboard.

The biggest detriment to marriage is the high divorce rate. Not some YouTuber's channel.

I gotta wonder about people who call black men that encourage, marriage, self-improvement and self-worth toxic

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

Your response implied that 50-90K is higher than "medium value" in NYC...it's not.

So making almost double the average salary of a city means you are low value?

 

[Shadow King]

So making almost double the average salary of a city means you are low value?

Your response implied that 50-90K is higher than "medium value" in NYC...it's not.

 

[King]

You two nikkas are stupid as fukk. The outlier situation isn't the norm dummies smfh. I know that seems harsh but too many of you dudes come online with some powerball chance stories and make that the norm like you don't live life in the real world.

I never said it wasn't the norm, I said dudes are conflating the reasons why it is the norm