What's so wrong about dating a coli breh?

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

I get mad when folks I know in real life try and question me.

Somebody from the internet tho

I'd leave em on read or just troll em.


Nikkas really weird outchea?

I'm just keep trolling fukk it lol

Some of them really feel some type of way. It's a damn shame

 

[FukYaFeelings]

I'm just keep trolling fukk it lol

Some of them really feel some type of way. It's a damn shame

Seeing the girl u luv with anoter nikka always hurt.

You too nice on here. U prolly quoted em, dapped their post a few times and they thinking y'all in love now

 

[XII]

Low key, if you peep game it's still a lot of hidden agendas behind the shyt that being said to ol girl right now in these responses. Niccas sneak hollerin'.

Except we can all see it

 

[Black Panther]

People be trying to meet people off the Coli?

I guess....

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Seeing the girl u luv with anoter nikka always hurt.

You too nice on here. U prolly quoted em, dapped their post a few times and they thinking y'all in love now

I dap and quote everyone even the shady nikkas and bitter bytches

I know it's hard to read when trolling, being facetious, or just high off my ass and saying whatever...perhaps that's why folks are feeling some type of way?

 

[#1 pick]

I get what your saying but we live in a digital age now. Meeting someone online isn't taboo like
It was in the early 00s.

I did it and it was the best experience of my life. If you know what you are, what you like, what personality, family and how you and that person relates. Honestly, posting on this site, you already got a lot in common.

For me, I did online dating the past, it sucked, people lied too fukking much. Real life dating can turn ugly after 2 to 3 months. Message board dating was the best by a mile. Because you know the person before you even talk to them and you just learn their nuisance once you date in person. Best decision I've ever made. I would say it's the best way to date if your ready for it and they are right for you.

 

[lutha]

I remember reading this sentiment somewhere in a book or online a while ago and I thought the same thing then -

(So as not to generalize people) -
Some women like attention BUT from the man she DESIRES it from. If some random man does not sit up & take notice of a woman, it will not pique her curiosity about him as some people (cough) aren't checking for someone who isn't checking for them (cough). Truth.

It seems that liking attention is a dirty thing. I haven't heard a legit explanation as to why though. Only heard people front and quip about not wanting/needing it. I call delusion & lies - from an infant to an elder, man to woman, people appreciate attention on some variation/level/scale. OTOH, attention-seeking/needing to be the center of attention is a whole other issue, IMO. IDK, I'm still pondering it.

RE: Women playing the game of playing sexually repressed vs sexually expressive - Morals, Upbringing/Rearing, Society, etc. are in our panties & on our ovaries.

i didnt get that thinking from a book/online, i got it from my interactions with women...either from them telling me directly through conversations and/or through observation...

and i wasnt implying she was gonna date the guy...just saying i had plenty tell me that if they walked in a room with 10 dudes and 9 spoke, they would initially talk to the the 1 that didnt to find out why....that's all....now, after the initial curiosity was answered, then yes, attractiveness plays a key part whether she continues to talk to that dude or go talk to one of the other 9....

i agree, whether someone is checking for you or not does play a part in the reception of the attention, but initially, most people dont know what they looking for, so doing something to make a person take notice of you in comparison to other guys/girls tends to help give you a chance....not showing attention initially is one of those things that helps...just like being the a$$hole, funny guy helps....

i agree, attention isnt a dirty thing...people like it cause it feels good to be noticed/appreciated/complimented from time to time...it helps your ego and self esteem....but like you said, there is a difference between that and actively seeking attention all the time, aka being an attention whore...being that is when it becomes dirty, and sometimes dangerous...

as for your RE: to me, that's the problem right there: trying to 'play a game'...people play too many games when it comes to interacting with others, which does nothing but complicate and frustrate....people need to just be themselves, keep it simple, and the whole thing would go a lot smoother....

 

[#1 pick]

People lust after IG models and would take em out in a heart beat given the chance, but for some reason a lot of people still stuck in that "if you date someone you met online you a lame" While spending 30 hours a week on the internet.


I've gotten to know alot of cool coli chicks over my time here

A couple amazing ones

A one that's bae now


Legit one of the best people I've gotten to know I met on here, funny thing is she's super low key so know one really knows much about her.


Plenty of great people on the coli, maybe not all in tlr, and I'm not saying use this as a dating site, but it only makes sense that if you spend hours upon hours a week talking to people you might form some kind of bond that can be explored in person.

For real, where the fukk else will I meet a pro Black lady, who I know about her culture, how she thinks, which opinions she likes and don't like, what's her take, her interest, what's she's looking for in a man in a better location then a place I spend time at like here?

I barely meet pro Black women in person. I barely meet them where we click. I am a homebody nerd with massive charisma and size who played college sports, it's not easy for me even if it may look so to the general public. Just cause I can get a date doesn't mean I can find a match. When I found one, I cherished it with all my strength.

 

[#1 pick]

This is where I disagree. It is the digital age and there's no reason to not explore the possibility of dating online, that's not an issue. However, you cannot compare speaking with someone through words on a screen or even over the phone to meeting them in real life. It's easier to hide shyt. It's easier to craft a response. In a real life meetup, you are asked questions and you do not have 10 minutes to think of a response. The person sees your reaction, they see your eyes, they read your body language. These are all things that are not possible online.

I meet about 5-8 people from AHH and thecoli in real life. Every single one was similar or exactly the same as their posting style. Most of the time are more chilled and cool. Hell, they act like they act on tinychat.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

And then disrespectful shyt like this. You know for a fact she's dealing with a guy that posts here yet you would still say/do something like this? Ya'll have zero respect for each other.

@illadope probably got her login password anyway

 

[#1 pick]

this is a huge site. there are way more than 5.

i remember there was this one dude used to always post in the rec room right one day his girlfriend joins.

hmm. not sure how it happened but she followed me to another forum i was on and hit me up cause she thought i was that guys friend.

we hit it off a lil i couldve smashed got them titty pics n digits sometime after they broke up

then later on i found out she was on sohh all along and had posted in several threads just had a weird ass screen name. only found out cause she asked me to login to her account to decipher some shyt

(why are woman too lazy to cut n paste?)

aight so this seemed to happen with another chick slightly diff circumstances

but yo these chicks be straight up posing as DUDES and be in an actual relationship with dudes on here and those fukking dudes don't even know they dapping their girlfriend and self snitching on themselves these nikkas do not realize how smart their women are they fukking CSI with it keep underestimating women see what happens.

some fukker here be sending my baby momma threads thats why i be careful what i say too

Some people just not meant for relationships. If you doing dirt or you as the female doing dirt, you ain't ready.

 

[#1 pick]

Don't mind me...I was just trying to be a provocateur, you're a likable and lively character.

But really and truly - you, peridotpuss, blackpearl, and Jayne are like the most noticeable females I know since I've been here (though Jayne isn't a female). And while blackpearl hasn't been the same since she was denied POTY - it seems all these nikkas just follow you and peridotpuss everywhere like handbags. Shyt looks mad corny. It's like going to a club and seeing 10,000 nikkas trying to dance with two bytches.

Anyway, I'm just trying to see a coli chick with big tiddy meat I can suck and see if blackpearl can let a nikka smack her big butt, while she's making breakfast for a nikka in a cherry thong like Nia Long.

You're solid, tho. And don't let these thirsty nikkas get to you and make you rethink the nikka you picked. Have fun.

It's funny, dudes always said, 100 girls only care about 10 guys but we do the same. Most would fukk 100 girls but most only care about 10 of them.

 

[FatherSimp]

Spoiler

 

[Malta]

The only thing I find weird is when Coli couples reply back and forth to one another like yall aint wearing matching snuggies on the same damn couch.

 

[#1 pick]

The only thing I find weird is when Coli couples reply back and forth to one another like yall aint wearing matching snuggies on the same damn couch.

Most of the time that would never happen.