What's so wrong about dating a coli breh?

Raava

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This is where I disagree. It is the digital age and there's no reason to not explore the possibility of dating online, that's not an issue. However, you cannot compare speaking with someone through words on a screen or even over the phone to meeting them in real life. It's easier to hide shyt. It's easier to craft a response. In a real life meetup, you are asked questions and you do not have 10 minutes to think of a response. The person sees your reaction, they see your eyes, they read your body language. These are all things that are not possible online.

You can hide things in person too. You can be fake in person too.You have people who get into relationships with someone they think that pet know really well only to find out when they live together or get married that's not the real them. You have dudes on here saying they have fakes a whole relationship just for sex. Most would never say that to someone straight up. The same thing you say makes it easy for someone to craft a persona is the same thing that makes a lot of others more open. People have gotten really personal or comfortable on here and said things they wouldn't share in real life.

Just like with face to face you have to get to know someone or at least you should. Know on is saying jump right into something based on what they say on here but people do like people.
 

Phoenix_Knightly23

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Well I'm a take a stab at it and say because nikkas is mad that they couldn't pull said chick and now they got salt in their veins. So nikkas is either looking for shyt gossip about or put dirt on said parties names. All of it could be avoided if the people involved kept their mouths closed.
You're right :ehh:

I can't help talking about my dude though. He's amazing lol
 

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Took @MsReal to eat one time, everything was going good. She was tellin me how prolific a poster i was, and how my posts would make her laugh, cry, ponder her existance and reality. Just really vibingwith eachother. Took a call from work, came back. After a couple minutes everything went to black. Wake up naked to my empty studio on some
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. Took all my shyt. Aint leave me nothin but a note that read #HOH.

PMed her too see what the fukk, she responded with "who dis :mjgrin:"

Ill just stick to meeting bytches at barnes an noble an shyt
 

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This chick loves all the fukking attention.

Let the other brehettes get some shine as well.

How come it's always only you every damn day? I'm sure the other brehettes don't like you cuz this is just getting too much now. Joined recently and it's always the same chick every day. Goddamn.

Who cares about who's dating who - let other bytches get some shine and stop stealing their shine by making everything about yourself.
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I'm not trying to mean. I respect you and I consider you a friend. So I was personally offended by you saying you couldn't be associated with the coli because it's embarrassing.

Lmao threads like this are due to people really obsessing over a what two grown folks choose to do.

You're not old timey though, you're inexperienced and you should consider that before you post on relationships. I'm not shaming you, I'm trying to tell you she's a grown ass woman living a complex life.

She has the right to interact with people how she chooses to. She also the right to be proud of any relationship she's in. She should never have to defend how she expresses her sexuality and humanity to anyone.
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Especially people who aren't as experienced as her in life, she isn't responsible for, and doesn't have to answer to.

I respect you quite a bit. But you choosing to police sexual expression is unnerving to me. Please respect that humans have an unalienable right to interact with each other. It's why we're on this planet. How it started doesn't matter and the level the relationships develops to is only the business of the two involved.


You will feel this way when you start dating a lot man. I promise. Respect and privacy. Word to @Booksnrain

Grandstand and then say you mean no offense brehs.:mjlol:
 
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