What’s the best way to develop thick skin?

[Rozay Oro]

Im thinking getting in better shape is a good start.
Lately when I’m mad or sad I just play an album and try to do several sets of push ups during a song. Walk a bit to give my arms short break and back at it.

Eventually a whole body workout/routine and eventually the gym. Maybe I lack in the emotional intelligence apartment.

 

[Mastamimd]

Experience.

But in my opinion you either have it or you don't....some folk are doomed from the womb.

 

[Be Strong Blackman]

Go thru it. Listen to David Goggins. Put yourself in tough situations...

 

[humminbird]

sales job
You'll get cursed out every other call and can't fight back

 

[Collateral]

Go thru it. Listen to David Goggins. Put yourself in tough situations...

This. Gotta put yourself out there. Cold approach some hoes, go do stand up comedy.

 

[Mastamimd]

sales job
You'll get cursed out every other call and can't fight back

I was a bill collector and that shyt changed me...never again though

 

[King_Sage]

start truly practicing the 48 laws and use every altercation/ scenario as an opportunity

if you into the Bible, my go to is Proverbs

 

[BaldingSoHard]

By understanding that 99% of shyt that we think matters, ultimately doesn't matter.

Like think about it... what was the most important thing that mattered to you 5 years ago? The #1 thing on your mind and in your life? Does that thing still matter to you today? Unless it's a wife or a child, your health, or your career my guess is no.

 

[humminbird]

I was a bill collector and that shyt changed me...never again though

exactly

 

[Mr swag]

Im thinking getting in better shape is a good start.
Lately when I’m mad or sad I just play an album and try to do several sets of push ups during a song. Walk a bit to give my arms short break and back at it.

Eventually a whole body workout/routine and eventually the gym. Maybe I lack in the emotional intelligence apartment.

changing your thoughts is the ONLY way.


How is push ups gonna help

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

Accepting that other people's opinions of you ain't really none of your business. That's their personal problem they'll have to learn to work through

 

[BaggerofTea]

Worry about only what you can control

 

[Rozay Oro]

This. Gotta put yourself out there. Cold approach some hoes, go do stand up comedy.

I’ve done stand up 4 times lol.
I just can’t do cold approaching, I feel so ugly. Even when I get a cutie via work or app. It crumbles soon enough because I’m a game less simp. No matter how cute they think I am. fukk.

 

[jerzboy]

changing your thoughts is the ONLY way.


How is push ups gonna help

I think he means confidence. When you look good, you feel good lol

 

[Mastamimd]

I’ve done stand up 4 times lol.
I just can’t do cold approaching, I feel so ugly. Even when I get a cutie via work or app. It crumbles soon enough because I’m a game less simp. No matter how cute they think I am. fukk.

Here's a part of your problem...you already sound defeated. You'll never win if you already believe you lost...it's impossible