What’s the best way to develop thick skin?

Rozay Oro

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changing your thoughts is the ONLY way.


How is push ups gonna help

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How do I do that? Being stronger and that soreness from building muscle make me feel better like I’m being more productive
 

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To answer op question, thank god for parents. I do believe that there shouldn’t be anything anybody can say to you that’s worse than what your parents say; prepares you for the world.
 

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Here's a part of your problem...you already sound defeated. You'll never win if you already believe you lost...it's impossible
I constantly have the same outcome, shyt starts crushing your spirit. I just got over the bytch that crushed me last week
 

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Most people are literally fall on their face stupid and their opinions are based on their weak ass feelings too :yeshrug:

Join the church of “fukk It and fukk You Of Later day fukks” and you too shall be a winner breh, I guarantee it :myman:
 

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I constantly have the same outcome, shyt starts crushing your spirit. I just got over the bytch that crushed me last week

Doesn't mean you should shyt on yourself. And maybe you're putting too much emphasis on how much these hoes are feeling you instead of how you feel about yourself.
 

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By understanding that 99% of shyt that we think matters, ultimately doesn't matter.

Like think about it... what was the most important thing that mattered to you 5 years ago? The #1 thing on your mind and in your life? Does that thing still matter to you today? Unless it's a wife or a child, your health, or your career my guess is no.
This. Take a step back, remind yourself of how insignificant this whole thing is, and go from there.
 

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I think you have to be a nihilist to have true thick skin. Everyone that has "thick skin" is just bottling their emotions and waiting to burst
 

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I’ve done stand up 4 times lol.
I just can’t do cold approaching, I feel so ugly. Even when I get a cutie via work or app. It crumbles soon enough because I’m a game less simp. No matter how cute they think I am. fukk.
You should start with building your confidence then. working out, getting fresh helps, but you gotta get that "feel so ugly" outta your head if you want to gain confidence and thicker skin.
 

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Building yourself mentally. Sports and other athletic activities made me somewhat mentally strong. Also you shouldn't care about what others think about you. Think of yourself as your own supporter. Boost yourself to think positive.
 
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You should start with building your confidence then. working out, getting fresh helps, but you gotta get that "feel so ugly" outta your head if you want to gain confidence and thicker skin.
Definitely have to
 
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