Whats the biggest reason why your single?

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I’m old and not attractive or submissive. I also don’t have traditional ideas of marriage/partnership, so it’s hard to see the purpose of being with someone, especially being old, aside from feeling lonely from time to time.



How old are u?
 

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All jokes aside I'm too much of a homebody and boring. I rather be at home reading a book, playing video games, or watching something on Netflix. I don't drink and don't smoke. I used to go to lounges to just hang out and meet people but being around alcohol when you don't drink is weird. It turns women off because they're like why the hell are you in a bar/lounge when you don't drink. :dahell:

Plus I don't go out as much. I'm still fairly new to Houston and I have associates, not friends, that I know from work. I literally just go to work and the gym. On my off days I spend it just sleeping/resting. I'm a respiratory therapist in a hospital and work 7P-7A and I'm usually too tired/lazy on my off days.

Also it's hard for me to seal the deal. I'll approach a chick and get her number but don't call or follow up. Or if I do call it never goes anywhere.

I've always dressed nice, make good money and have a career, have a nice car, my own place, stay monogamous when I'm in a relationship, no kids and no STDS/STI but females don't want to fukk with me. :yeshrug:
Breh I know the shift differential is real when you work nights...but a lot of folks end up dealing with serious mental / physical health issues because of it.

Living & Coping With Shift Work Disorder | National Sleep Foundation
 

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Being alone most of my teenage years made me socially inept. I fail many times trying to "woo" the opposite gender. Feels pretty depressing sometimes. I just want to be able to connect with others. Plus, the embarrassment of other dudes knowing you cant get no buns :francis:

I ain't too upset about it, I could have fun by myself outside and do what I want to do. Its just itll be nice with company and affection
 
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